Welcome to The Friend School podcast with Matt & Paige! It's time to discover your confidence and deepen your connections with others.

In this episode, we're looking at some drama that went down "back in the day" and gleaning some pretty important lessons from it. There's something for everyone here:

Have you ever made a really bad mistake that negatively impacted your reputation?

Ever made a bad decision that damaged your friendships?

Ever failed and blown it?

Ever quit when you should’ve kept going?

Ever been let down and abandoned by others?

Do you live with regrets?

Well....take heart. You're not alone.

Jump in and glean from the story of the fallout (and comeback) of two guys we're sure you know.

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Welcome to The Friend School podcast with Matt & Paige! It's time to discover your confidence and deepen your connections with others.

How many of our friendships suffer because we're not yet convinced we're lovable? Perhaps we've lived with a mask for so long, we've never allowed ourselves to be loved for who we really are. The good news of God's grace announces that we are both loved AND lovable right now, just as we are in Christ. Are you convinced?

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Welcome to The Friend School podcast with Matt & Paige! It's time to discover your confidence and deepen your connections with others.

Righteousness is more than just a churchy word—it's a lifeline for our friendships. Yet many of us struggle to believe we’re truly righteous. We might accept that God loves us, forgives us, and promises us a place in heaven, but righteous? Here and now? That sounds like heresy. However, the truth of the gospel invites us to let go of the lies we believe about ourselves that hold us back from deeper connection with God and others. Join us as we uncover the truth that frees us from pretending and sets our friendships up for true success.

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Welcome to The Friend School podcast with Matt & Paige! It's time to discover your confidence and deepen your connections with others.

In this ‘extended’ episode Matt & Paige sit down with longtime friends Drake and Lisa Kellas. Drake is the life of the party, while Lisa is the highly intentional social introvert—a perfect pairing in our opinion.

Join in as we talk through their very different styles of relating, how to make new friends (and get free stuff!), what it means to show up when it matters most, and much much more!

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Summer has come to an end. Fall is starting up which means new environments. New people. New relationships, and hopefully new friendships! New spaces and places can bring up some social anxiety and stress as we think about meeting new people. In this episode, we reminisce on our own "first days" and what we were feeling as a new school year kicked off, and what has changed since then. This is a great episode for junior high or high school or college students starting a new school year, teachers…moms and dads starting new kids schedules and meeting other parents…church small groups…just about EVERYONE can relate!

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Welcome to The Friend School podcast with Matt & Paige! It's time to discover your confidence and deepen your connections with others.

Some seasons of friendship are easy-peezy...they seem to maintain themselves effortlessly, while in other seasons we find our deep ties tend to struggle and stall out. Meh!

Sometimes all it takes to regenerate and energize a fizzling friendship are a few simple actions. That's what Catherine Pearson of the NY Times offers in the 5-Day Friendship Challenge.

And this episode, we’re just having some good ole unscripted conversation about what these practical ideas can do for our friendship. You got this!

Breadcrumbs from Episode 009:

-The world is hungry for better friendships

-Friendship is crucial to our physical & mental health and longevity.

-Research suggests people need to spend around 200 hours hanging out together in order to forge a close friendship.

-Don't overlook the power of a simple text message.

-What happens when your social circles collide?

-The easiest way to schedule and prioritize time with a friend.

-A great way to leverage your nostalgia :-)

-The best definition of love I've ever heard!

-And much more!!!

Click here to read the original NYT article!

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Welcome to The Friend School podcast with Matt & Paige! It's time to discover your confidence and deepen your connections with others.

How are your affirmation skills? Have you been on the receiving end of life-giving words from a friend? What did those words do for your soul? I bet they changed you. In our experience, the affirmation we’ve received from people has had tremendous shaping power in our lives. Our words have power. 

With all the benefits of affirmation, why do we shy away from it and withhold it from others? Why do we live as though we are allergic to affirmation, or just indifferent? Could it be that God created within us a need that can only be met by Himself and others? That means we have a beautiful privilege and opportunity to build our friends up. Isn’t this what Jesus is up to in our lives?

In this episode, we’re jumping into those questions and more to unlock the power of affirmation in our friendships. Let’s do this!

Breadcrumbs from Episode 008:

-Our world is long on criticism and discouragement & short on encouragement and affirmation

-The big head disclaimer: Why are we concerned with the size of someone’s head? 

-Aren't words of affirmation just a “love language” thing?

-What’s the fear or holdup keeping us from affirming one another?

-What does affirmation produce? What is the result?

-How to receive affirmation

-How affirmation brings clarity to our identity, our contribution, our confidence, and fosters the healing of wounds 

-We are designed/created to be affirmed & receive the love of others

-And much more!!!

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Welcome to The Friend School podcast with Matt & Paige! It's time to discover your confidence and deepen your connections with others.

When it comes to friendship, one of the things that we’ve struggled with is the pressure to K.I.T…you know…keep in touch. There are so many feelings that surface with this topic: pressure, guilt, excitement, expectation, joy, fulfillment, regret, just to name a few. 

Along with feelings come a handful of questions like: How many friends can I keep in touch with? How often? What does it mean to keep in touch? How do we know we’re still in touch? Why is it so hard at times? What is good motivation for keeping in touch? Is there a bad motive?

While we may not get to all the answers, we do explore the topic of keeping in touch and guess what...there’s GOOD news for those of us who feel like we’re failing in this area of our friendships. Whew! Take a deep breath and enjoy. 

Breadcrumbs from Episode 007

- All the feelings that that surface with the topic of keeping in touch

- What does it mean to KIT?

- 3 categories of friends

- Dunbar’s Number and why you can’t keep in touch with everyone

- The gospel for those who feel like failures at keeping in touch

- And more! 

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Welcome to The Friend School podcast with Matt & Paige!

It's time to discover your confidence and deepen your connections with others.

In this episode, we’re diving into the art of asking questions and discovering how a little curiosity can supercharge your connections.

Wherever you’re at on the “interested in others” scale, the good news is that you can grow! And that, my friend, is an incredible gift to offer others.  

Let’s jump in!

Breadcrumbs from Episode 006

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Have you ever been on the receiving end of someone who is genuinely interested in you...someone who asks great questions, listens well, and is genuinely curious about your life? It can be so life-giving and such a powerful way to connect. If it IS so life-giving, why don’t we do more of that?

The sad reality is that curiosity and interested people are rare…and honestly, friendships suffer and stall out because of the lack of curiosity in others. 

Well, what if one of the most powerful secrets to connection wasn’t about talking endlessly about ourselves…but rather showing interest and curiosity into the lives of others?

What if our interest and our curiosity was a gift we could give to one another? What would that do for our friendship and connection? What does that look like and how do we grow as curious people?

Hey Friends! We're excited to have Dominic Nuncio with us to spill the beans and share his secrets on cultivating our curiosity and interest in other people.

Welcome to The Friend School podcast with Matt & Paige! It's time to discover your confidence and deepen your connections with others.

Key Ideas from Episode 005:

- Why do so many people struggle to ask questions?

- What are good questions to have in our pocket to practice curiosity? 

- What is your mindset as you’re going into a conversation with a friend?

- What to do when it feels one-sided

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