It takes years for a couple’s love to reach full maturity. After years together, Solomon’s love for his bride has fully matured, and the fruit of their love has fully bloomed. As their love matured, they began to see each other’s deepest beauty.

Growing in the deepest bonds of intimacy takes time and intentionality for a couple. Solomon says that just as the best wine takes time, so does the deepest joy of marriage intimacy. The imagery in Song of Solomon 7 portrays marriage as a garden and the wife as a vineyard.

If marriage is a garden, husbands are the lead gardeners. To pick the sweetest fruit in marriage is truly costly. Like any fruitful garden, it doesn’t come cheap, and it won’t come easy. It takes work, time, attention, and intention.

How husbands can create the right climate for their wives to thrive:

1. Value her unconditionally.

2. Initiate intentional conversations.

3. Nurture trust and security.

4. Empty yourself into sacrificial service.

You have to work in your garden, but you will be blessed and happy if you do it God’s way. The abundant life is found in working obediently, loving faithfully, and living in transparency.

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