In this episode I am alone! I do miss The Rough Subbe but our podcasting schedules never seem to align lately. In this episode I talk more calmly about why the recent election results have affected me so personally as a Domme and discuss how I view submissive men vs. fetishists. I talk about the role of labels in kink and how our choices in the bedroom can have an effect outside the bedroom. I also discuss ways to potentially lighten the emotional load for your Domme, and the sexy new outfits I bought in NOLA and now have to find a place to show off. I hope I didn’t lecture too much, unless you like that kind of thing. 

That's what this is. 

Is it Loctober? Or Locktober? I've unchained The Rough Subbe from my dungeon walls, and he's "agreed" to podcast with me again! This episode is all about chastity, including why the details never seem quite as sexy as porn (imagine that), choosing the perfect for you cage, what we each find fun about it, and our upcoming plans for the months of denial...not for me, of course! 

Hello, my Darling Deviants!
This is a special episode. The Rough Subbe is not here. It's just me! Reading a new blog post! I was reminded recently that I have not been doing enough writing, and I have been wanting to really talk in depth about this subject for quite a while. But I've been...afraid? Of being vulnerable? Of saying the wrong thing? Of hurting my business? Or sort of talking about something that doesn't just affect me? I think all of those. I feel pretty nervous putting this out there, but it's something I haven't seen discussed very much--probably for some obvious reasons. I don't actually know the number of online Dommes who also have transfeminine kids. My guess is that it's kind of small? I published this on my blog and on Fetlife, but I know there are a lot of people who listen to my podcast who don't look at my blog or Fetlife. Be gentle with me. Yes. It's a pun--but also, for real. 

I don't know why, but I'm channeling my inner Parker Posey in Dazed and Confused, and I just want to put you all down on the pavement and cover you with condiments while teasing you about all of the orgasms you want to give up for me!

Parker Posey...femdom icon. 

So, are we doing it? Are we doing it? 

Be a good boy and give up those orgasms for me. 

It'll be fun, she said. ;)

Hello, everyone!

In this long awaited episode The Rough Subbe and I make a podcast in bed. We talk about my not so recent injury, which has kept me away from my computer. We discuss my two Patreons! 

And then we talk about the hot sex we just had, including more about orgasm control, and why we love it, face slapping (so hot) and whether or not I'm a sadist. We dip into "nurturing" domination, and how we feel conflicted about the "M" word and objectification.

And then we opine about M/f dynamics, and if male doms like selfish sex. Do they? Let us know. We have no idea. 

The sound isn't great in this episode because we were literally recording from bed.  :)

In this episode we talk about my new Patreon, specifically for premature ejaculation fetishists. The Rough Subbe and I talk all about this kink—about if we have it, if so, why, and what are other reasons some guys might be turned on by the idea of coming “too” quickly. This brings up to why I’ve been getting turned on by homewrecking fantasies, and then we end up discussing a bit about the ethics of phone sex and whether it’s cheating. This was quite a fun episode to make, as evidenced by my plentiful giggles. We hope you enjoy. 

We’re back! After our long hiatus, The Gentle Domme and The Rough Subbe have returned! At least for now. In this episode we talk about what makes sex kinky (for us), the holding up of hair, Cole Porter, who is the smuttiest, and where The Gentle Domme has been these long months. Also, we discuss 6 orgasms and how The Rough Subbe is gaining stamina while The Gentle Domme is losing hers. Want us to talk about anything in particular? Let us know

Hello, my darling deviants!

In Episode 22 of The Gentle Dommecast, The Rough Subbe and I are joined by a very special guest--our friend "Violet!" Violet identifies as a submissive who also switches, and although we are all friends, she actually met The Rough Subbe before I did, and he was her first "victim," (lucky lucky victim) to try out some of her budding sadism!

Violet, TRS and I talked a lot on this episode about what a generally submissive woman might find hot about topping. We also discussed how a submissive male partner might approach his submissive female partner about topping him.

And THEN we recounted several co-topping scenes we did together, one of which involved a ladder, a blow job, boobs, and my stroking of Violet's hair. (She does have very pretty hair.)

I am embarrassed that I forgot some of the very hot details, but I was happy to be reminded of them. We talked about negotiating co-topping and delved a little bit into group scenes in general, based on some extremely lovely fan mail I received!

We also discovered that Violet has really sexy toes that enjoy being sucked. ;)

We hope you enjoy this episode! It's a little longer than usual, but that's because we had such a great discussion! I hope we will have more guests in the future!

Last, a little plug for some of my new social media adventures. You can check out some SFW erotic hypnosis audios I've been making on YouTube and some free hot femdom script fills I've been recording on Reddit Gone Wild Audio.

Hello, my Darling Deviants!

It's episode 21 of The Gentle Dommecast! Pull up a chair and have a glass of champagne as we come of age!

In this episode, Miss Vivian and The Rough Subbe discuss subspace, cuckolding (again), and there's even a little face slapping fun, if you make it to the end. There's also some initial talk about the great erotic audio class I took with @TheSecretSubjct....and licking microphones? Maybe someone can explain this. 

First, we talk about what subspace is, and our own personal experiences  with it, both good and bad! (Be careful to negotiate and communicate!) TRS brings up an especially hot encounter involving face slapping that led to feelings of subspace, and I ask about topspace/dommespace. Is it a thing? Does it exist?

Then we return to the topic of cuckolding, and I specifically talk about why I think of cuckolding as a man's kink (and why I think of cuckqueaning as a woman's kink). I like fantasizing about cuckolding, but I have some questions about how it plays out in reality. 

Last, as a reward for being such a good boy, TRS gets a little face slapping on the podcast! I was kind of worried you wouldn't be able to hear, but it was crystal clear!

As always, we hope you enjoy! I'm specifically trying to build up my Twitter account, so please follow @thegentledomme, if you haven't already!