I used to obsess over whether my husband wore his wedding ring. To me, it symbolized respect, commitment, and whether he valued our marriage. When he’d forget it, I’d spiral—convinced it meant something about me, about us.
Here’s the twist: I barely wear mine anymore.
Not because I gave up. Not because the marriage failed. But because that desperate need for him to comply with my vision of what marriage should look like… it dissipated. And in its place? Conversion.
In this Season 3 premiere, I’m pulling back the curtain on the ebb and flow of my marriage—the stonewalling, the unspoken anger, the moments I couldn’t articulate what I actually needed. This is about the hard truth no one prepares you for: marriage doesn’t ask your partner to change. It asks YOU to convert into someone who can hold complexity, release control, and recognize love even when it doesn’t look like your blueprint.
If you’re frustrated with a partner who won’t “get it,” if you’re exhausted from explaining what you need, or if you’re wondering whether to do the work or walk away—this one’s for you.
Season 3 is all about marriage, partnership, and the conversion it demands. Let’s dive in.