By The Good In Media
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The podcast currently has 17 episodes available.
Resources + Links:
Follow Danny on Instagram | @thegooddanny
Follow Brianne on Instagram | @briannehoefelmann
Check out The Good in Media | @thegoodinmedia
Connect with Kara on Instagram: @kara_ayala
Subscribe to Kara’s Podcast: Marriage, Money & Mayhem
In This Episode, We Talk About:
What questions are you asking yourself?
How do we grow our capacity?
What lessons can we learn from our future self?
Resources + Links:
Listen to Part 1 on Kara's Podcast:
Episode 126: Learning from Your Past and Future Self with Brianne Hoefelmann PT1
The Guided Meditation Episode:
Episode 83: A Guided Meditation - Connecting with Your Future Self & Your Why
Book: “Chop Wood, Carry Water”
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Follow Danny on Instagram | @thegooddanny
Follow Brianne on Instagram | @briannehoefelmann
Check out The Good in Media | @thegoodinmedia
Connect with Kara on Instagram: @kara_ayala
Subscribe to Kara’s Podcast: Marriage, Money & Mayhem
Check out how you can work with Kara | karaayala.com
Show Notes:
Are you so focused on old stories that you’re not allowing yourself to grow past them? Today is a special episode! Brianne Hoefelmann is leading today's episode and interviewing Kara Ayala! We’re diving into the questions we ask ourselves and how to grow our capacity in all areas of our lives. Whether you’re wanting to grow your relationship with your children, your spouse, or God, they all require a level of belief and take time. Ask yourself what you want for your future. Ask God who He wants to be in your life. Ask yourself why you feel the need to have it all figured out, right now!
03:40 - What is going well in your life right now?
06:05 - Why do we celebrate wins in the present?
07:40 - What questions are you asking yourself to stay present and grow?
09:30 - Enjoy the journey, the goal is over in an instant.
12:05 - Why are we in a hurry to accomplish our goals?
13:30 - How do we grow our capacity?
14:50 - What comes first, capacity or skill?
15:30 - What does it take to change our future?
18:20 - Is your old story holding you back and creating unnecessary friction?
19:30 - How would you treat yourself if you saw yourself through God’s eyes?
23:00 - How Brianne’s relationship with God has changed over the years.
25:15 - Where do you start when rebuilding a relationship with God?
29:00 - Is God okay with you questioning everything?
30:45 - What can we learn if we’re in tune with our bodies?
33:00 - What I learned losing $600,000.
37:30 - How do you check in with yourself?
41:30 - What lessons can you learn from your future self?
46:08 - How can we use breathwork as a tool?
48:50 - What would my 15 year-old self say if she saw me today?
Is it really possible to build a business while raising a family without sacrificing one or the other? Today’s guest is Kara Ayala! She is the podcast host of Marriage, Money & Mayhem, a business owner, investor, and an amazing Mom! We’re diving into how Kara and her husband have managed to keep their relationship the priority while growing and exiting their company. We dive into how to communicate with your spouse, how to grow your money mindset, and why they started a couple’s mastermind!
02:50 - Who is Kara Ayala?
05:00 - What motivated Kara and Mike to go into business for themselves?
07:00 - How Danny learned that “safe jobs” aren’t actually safe.
09:00 - What’s the difference between being an owner and a high-paid contractor?
11:00 - How do you handle disagreements in your business leadership?
13:15 - How do you create a win-win?
14:00 - How did you get into personal development?
16:00 - Why did you start mentoring women around money?
17:30 - How do you change your money mindset?
20:00 - How can people overcome their limiting beliefs around money?
22:00 - What is “the work?”
23:00 - Breathwork sessions and learning to overcome self-doubt.
28:00 - Do you know why are you doing the things that you’re doing?
29:50 - Do you operate with a chip on your shoulder or are you self-motivated?
31:20 - Why start a relationship mastermind?
33:20 - How do you set boundaries around business and family?
43:30 - Can women operate in their feminine energy and build a business?
44:40 - Why it’s not noble to be a martyr.
48:00 - What do you do for yourself to bring yourself joy?
49:00 - How do you define joy?
Resources + Links:
Follow Danny on Instagram | @thegooddanny
Follow Brianne on Instagram | @briannehoefelmann
Check out The Good in Media | @thegoodinmedia
Connect with Kara on Instagram: @kara_ayala
Subscribe to Kara’s Podcast: Marriage, Money & Mayhem
Our decision to homeschool our kids is one we thought about for months! We knew it was something we were drawn to. More freedom as a family, and the ability to teach our kids skills we know they’ll need as adults. I (Brianne) just had these feelings of worry, and fear that were keeping me from fully committing for a while because having the kids go to school was familiar, and homeschool was not. I had fear around things the kids would lose, without honestly weighing what they would GAIN! We hope you enjoy this chat around homeschooling, and how we’re learning to let go of what is good and familiar, for what is great! For what I feel is meant for us in this season of our family’s life!
Resources + Links:
Follow Danny on Instagram | @thegooddanny
Follow Brianne on Instagram | @briannehoefelmann
Check out The Good in Media | @thegoodinmedia
How do you want to FEEL when you wake up every morning? As we’re learning and growing, and making daily deposits towards our goals, at the end of the day it's a feeling we’re after. You want to be happy, proud, confident…and you can tap into those feelings anytime we want because YOU create them. In this episode, Danny and I are talking about a recent conversation we heard between Lori Harder and Brendan Burchard on her podcast, Earn Your Happy, about how we are all responsible for our own energy. The energy we bring into our relationships, our work, and we live our lives in the energy that we choose to generate. So make it GOOD energy! Listen in as we talk about creating the energy we want to have, and why it’s not your spouse's responsibility to make you happy!
Resources + Links:
Follow Danny on Instagram | @thegooddanny
Follow Brianne on Instagram | @briannehoefelmann
Check out The Good in Media | @thegoodinmedia
Do you have core values for your life? We're diving into an exercise that we went through that helped us get clarity on what's most important to us and how we want to show up. If this inspires you to go through this exercise and dial in your own core values, tag us on Instagram and let us know what you came up with!
Resources + Links:
Follow Danny on Instagram | @thegooddanny
Follow Brianne on Instagram | @briannehoefelmann
Check out The Good in Media | @thegoodinmedia
This could be dangerous! It’s our very first episode together, Danny and I, on the podcast and we’re reflecting on 2022! We’re being honest about where we were complacent this past year, what we’ve learned, acknowledging the good we’ve done, and how we’ve grown this past year. We have so many exciting things coming for our family and our business together in 2023 that we tease in this episode! We’re excited to have this conversation to look back on at the end of the year, and bring you along for the journey as we get married again, chatter some glass ceilings we’ve been bumping into for a while, figure out how to homeschool, and EMBODY people who are healthy and wealthy! Couldn’t be more grateful to share the journey with Danny, and all of you who are focusing on embodying the next version of yourself. Shoulder to shoulder with us!
Resources + Links:
Follow Danny on Instagram | @thegooddanny
Follow Brianne on Instagram | @briannehoefelmann
Check out The Good in Media | @thegoodinmedia
In This Episode, You Will Learn:
Resources + Links:
Follow along with Kyle on Instagram | @kyle_depiesse
Learn more about upcoming Reaching Beyond experiences
Subscribe to his podcast Reaching Beyond
Connect with Danny on Instagram | @thegooddanny
Follow us on Instagram for more GOOD new stories and conversations | @thegoodinmedia
Show Notes:
What would it mean to you to be debt free, be surrounded by a group of people that think BIG and support you in doing the same, and being able to enjoy life and growth at the same time? Today’s podcast is with my now good friend, Kyle Depiesse. Kyle is a teacher turned entrepreneur that was able to pay off 380,000 in debt in just over 3 years. Kyle runs amazing events for men entrepreneurs by putting together bucket list experiences and reminding business owners to slow down in order to speed up. We actually recorded this episode about 7 months ago, before I had the opportunity to go to two of Kyle’s events. In this episode, you’ll quickly realize Kyle has created what he calls Work-Life Rhythm and he lives by it. Tune in to learn how to bring up money conversations with your spouse, how to create a life that intentionally makes room for growth and joy, as well as what can happen for you when you step into a room of high performance leaders.
Lindsey Schwartz is a best-selling author, entrepreneur, speaker, and the founder of Powerhouse Women! Lindsey has two huge messages that I believe are super important for everyone; we’re not meant to do this alone (life) and we are way more powerful than we think when we’re motivated by serving others!
Show Notes:
1:00 - Who is Lindsey Schwartz? 3:15 - Do you have to have it all together to get started? 5:00 - Why Lindsey is partially responsible for The Good In Today Podcast 6:35 - Did she always know that she was going to be an entrepreneur? 7:10 - What were some of Lindsey’s first personal development books? 8:40 - How do you change your mindset? What examples shaped her? 9:50 - “How to Win Friends and Influence People” 10:30 - What happens when you start to believe that life is working for you? 11:20 - “The Magic of Thinking Big” and How it Impacted Me ( Danny Hoefelmann ) 13:00 - Why do people demonize “self-help” books? 14:00 - How do find your purpose? 15:10 - “Choose Your Own Adventure” Books - An Analogy for Life 16:00 - Why It’s Harder to Stay Comfortable Than to Do The Thing You Feel Called to Do 17:30 - How do people develop passions? 20:00 - What are my three most important connections in life? 21:00 - The Power in Serving Others and Taking Our Own Egos Out of It 23:00 - It’s Not About You, It’s About Who You’re Going to Serve 24:20 - Why You Shouldn’t Put People on Pedestals 25:45 - What comes first; confidence or action? 26:40 - How do learn to like yourself? 28:00 - What are fear and self-doubt telling us? 29:00 - Is it possible to not care what people think? How to Stop Being a People Pleaser. 31:00 - What is the power in honoring your feelings? 33:10 - How far have I come in public speaking? 34:10 - That one time I had to talk in church and cried while almost broke the pulpit. 35:45 - What Happens When You Into the Struggle? ( Finding Finding Your Purpose ) 38:00 - How do you find a supportive community? 40:15 - Instagram Friends & Connecting Across the Globe 41:50 - Do you still hold onto stories from your past? 43:40 - When is the last time you checked if things that were true for you in the past are still true? 45:20 - Should you cut out people that are no longer serving your growth? 46:00 - You’re Attracting People to You Who Are Like YOU! What do you see in the mirror? 49:00 - What was “The Secret” Missing? 50:00 - Where is the best place to find Lindsey Schwarts online? 51:30 - Is it possible to choose to be happy? 52:35 - Should you allow yourself to be pissed for any period of time?
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I’m sitting down with Dennis Gable, a graphic designer, podcast host, and Father. Dennis is the host of “Self To Society.” He was one of the inspirations for this podcast with his core belief that one our greatest human desires is to know that we are not alone.
Show Notes:
0:00 - Disclaimer; If you don’t want to hear about religion, feel free to skip this one. 2:36 - Start of Podcast 4:10 - Who is Dennis Gable? 6:00 - How did I meet Dennis? 7:30 - How did traditional religion shape Dennis’ upbringing? 9:15 - Does the journey of personal growth ever end? 10:15 - How do you treat your servers at restaurants? 11:20 - Where am I, Danny Hoefelmann, at in my current spirituality? 12:50 - Telling my wife I wasn’t sure if I wanted to stay a part of my religion. 14:55 - Why you NEED to take your time with religious decisions 15:50 - What was Dennis’ role in his church and where did he think it would take him? 17:00 - What was the biggest mistake from Dennis the way his marriage ended? 18:05 - Do you have to lose everything when deconstruction your beliefs? 19:40 - What did his kids think of his beliefs changing? How early was he open with his kids? 21:45 - How did I (Danny) start to look at faith in other ways? 23:30 - Why communication with my wife is the most important part of my journey so far! 25:05 - Why I still participate in my religion even when I don’t fully believe in it? 27:15 - Dennis, the typical patriarchy role of the man in the home 30:30 - Can you have spiritual experiences outside of religion? 32:20 - Do you believe in the ”Ultimate Sin?” 33:00 - What I wish more religious people celebrated! 33:30 - What is the opposite of faith? 36:00 - Is it possible to just take the best of things you like in all religions? 39:00 - Why it’s okay to just say, “I don’t know.” 41:00 - What was the positive role of faith in Dennis’ life? 43:38 - What does he currently believe? 45:30 - What to be aware of with “I don’t know” 47:10 - “Desire is the most honest human experience.” 48:30 - How do you balance selfish personal desires and the need for self-care? 51:10 - What do affirmations look like and what does he do for self-care? 55:00 - Why do you have to lose part of yourself to grow? 58:30 - Start of Danny’s religious journey 59:45 - The two mindsets of my beliefs 1:00:56 - Can someone hold the same values and standards once they leave a religion? 1:02:10 - How to hold onto some beliefs while no longer believing in the foundation 1:03:05 - Why I feel obligated to help people who are going through hard times 1:04:55 - What makes Dennis want to run his podcast, “Self To Society” 1:06:15 - How to make sure you’re showing up in the world with Empathy 1:07:44 - What qualities do we admire most about Jesus? 1:09:40 - What I love about religion and spirituality! 1:11:30 - Why I don’t believe it’s my place to impact the testimony of others 1:12:20 - Why do humans doubt? 1:13:00 - Where does shame come from? 1:14:30 - What is the power in acknowledging guilt? 1:15:40 - Why it’s important not to demonize religion after you’ve left it! 1:18:05 - Where can you connect with Dennis Gable? 1:18:20 - What does he do everyday to make himself happy?
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The podcast currently has 17 episodes available.