The Grief Code

In this episode, Ian chats with The Pain Magician, Tony Scott. Tony’s willingness to help others led him to work wonders as a healer by discovering his own technique and learning about the process that can be applied to any modality to heal himself and other people.

Don’t miss:

• How Tony realized the power in magic, how magical his life is, and how he became the pain magician
• How Tony’s fascination with computers took him into a space where he is making something simply simpler
• Creating an impact for the people in your world
• Knowing what does not align with you and understanding that you need to separate
• If you release something physically, it can cause that emotional shift
• Having the tolerance for something that needed to happen through having more of it

About the Guest:

Tony Scott - The Pain Magician

'The Healer' was born in me when I decided...

"𝐓𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐈 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩."

At the time I didn't know anymore than this. I simply focused my thoughts on this.

My partner started getting problems with her hip and shoulder.

I was scared to sneeze because a nerve in my hip would jab me like a knife. So I started learning...

Everything I could find from deep tissue massage, myofascial release, cupping, gua sha, strain-counterstrain, pandiculation, feldenkrais and many other techniques. I was a sponge searching out everything I could find from chiropractors, physios, osteos, sports performance, movement specialists and anything to do with human movement and anatomy.

And you know what? I got frustrated... I found conflicting advice... It seemed that a lot of health care providers stopped learning once they had their qualifications... That they only stayed in their box and didn't search out other techniques not related to their field.

And I thought...

"If I can't make heads or tails of this... what hope does someone who doesn't understand any of this?"

To illustrate this point... I discovered a technique called pandiculation. And it worked amazingly well to reduce muscle pain. Then I started asking health care providers "Can you explain to me what pandiculation is?" I asked ...doctors, chiros, rehab therapists, physios...Guess what?... None of them had heard of it! It became my secret weapon.

I rented a room at the local gym and started taking away pain and preventing people from surgery. Some of the fascia release techniques were torture and would leave people sore for up to 5 days... but they worked. And I was frustrated again because I couldn't use them with everyone...especially the elderly!

In my never-ending search for more information...like a... Mad Crazy Scientist of Pain Relief I came across a random video of a guy fixing a shoulder problem by using a leg raise. I tried it on the next person AND IT WORKED! In my search for 'better' I promptly forgot about this and moved on to other techniques... like Gua Sha and cupping.

Then Covid-19 hit. The gym shut and I had no steady stream of clients.

Still searching I came across another random video by the same guy about lengthening hamstrings without stretching. I tried it on myself AND IT WORKED! I tried it on my partner and it worked! I then searched out everything I could about this guy.

His name is Tom Dalonzo-Baker, he invented TMR - Total Motion Release. He offered 3 levels of training and I snapped them all up and sorted out my own back pain while learning directly from him! And the best part is HE NEVER TOUCHED ME! I'm in Australia, he's in America. I learnt everything from videos, webinars, and Zoom meetings. I'm proud to say that Tom and I are friends now and meet up regularly (along with his other students) to chat about what's working, what's not, and improving the growing TMR community.

Tom taught me a different way. He taught me a process that can be applied to any modality used to heal.

Tom taught me -

How important it is to treat the whole body

That everything in the body is connected

A way to use good movements to fix the bad (this was a game-changer for me)

Using a process that measures your percentage of improvement

We do one thing and then check its affect on the whole body. This is really important!... I've had people come to me for a shoulder problem, as the shoulder got better their hips got worse, if I wasn't tracking the whole body I would have made them worse the next day!

That I can take-away pain without touching people! (and this just blew my brain!)

And now...

"𝐈 𝐚𝐦 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐈 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩."

Would You like me to Take Away Some (or all) of Your Pain?

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly is. This experience was the start of his journey to heal the unresolved and unknown grief that were negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connection for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their life and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.

Ian talks about the ability of your body to inform you about the things that need your attention. And in this episode, shares with you the importance of listening to your bodily needs and what it is telling you so that you can improve your health and physical wellbeing. 

Don’t miss:

• Each of your body parts represents a different part of you and it conveys different messages
• Recognizing all the different illnesses your body is experiencing and allowing yourself to process this grief in order to release it
• The more you focus on your self-awareness, the more you can find the solution 
• There are many different ways that you can tune in to find out what your body is telling you
• Understanding the significance of the right wisdom and connection to your self-healing journey

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly is. This experience was the start of his journey to heal the unresolved and unknown grief that were negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connection for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their life and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.

In this episode, Ian shares with you how life has a way of giving you feedback on where you are at and what needs to happen in your life. In this way, you will reach more realizations and gain a better understanding of the things you need to do that will give your life the much-needed impact.

Don’t miss:

• Interesting symptoms that life is showing you about something that needs attention
• Ian shares a short explanation of how the Mayan calendar works and how it means moving from a time of power to a time of ethics
• Letting go of control, trying to control others, and trying to control situations
• Moving your life in a more calm and balanced way
• Understanding that some of the dreams we are having go through this sort of phase of our life
• Understanding the way of life by looking into the lens of the faces we recognize
• Getting guidance to navigate whatever you are going through in order to take actions

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly is. This experience was the start of his journey to heal the unresolved and unknown grief that were negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connection for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their life and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.

In this episode, Ian shares with you how he became an advocate for natural healing and natural remedies. Moreover, he talked about understanding your grief at a deeper level to have a more comprehensive perspective of your life's internal and external aspects and to further understand the power you hold.

Don’t miss:

• The power of going on a journey where you treat the injury by dealing with the root cause
• Being able to go beyond your limits and surpass your strength
• Achieving the ability to heal yourself quickly
• Take breaks on your social media to give yourself more time to gain strength
• Creating the right conditions, environment, support, and nurturing to allow your body to be healed

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly is. This experience was the start of his journey to heal the unresolved and unknown grief that were negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connection for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their life and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.

In this episode, Ian shares with you the power of self-control and taking full responsibility for your life to be in a safer and more beautiful place. Furthermore, he talked about looking internally, making decisions, and seeing what is inside you. This way allows you to stop being influenced by external distractions.

Don't miss:

• How Ian dealt with different family circumstances and the lessons he learned from experiences he encountered growing up
• Having the full responsibility to take control of your power
• Gaining the ability to go and do all of the things that you have wanted to do for so long
• Having the right circumstances, opportunities, and connections gives you personal power which you can yield with each step you take on your journey
• Getting yourself to the point where you can never go back to how things were and realizing that you are in a beautiful place

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly is. This experience was the start of his journey to heal the unresolved and unknown grief that were negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connection for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their life and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.

In this episode, Ian chats with a teacher, a tutor, a leader, a coach, a facilitator, and a mentor, Judy Hamilton. Judy’s passion, expertise, and experiences to help people build themselves to be better have created a great impact on the lives of many individuals, especially women.

Don’t miss:

• How Judy helps people, particularly women in the community to find out who they are and the direction they are heading 
• Finding your own space of self-worth and value
• Having a sense of community in the place where you feel like you belong
• Building a good relationship with yourself first before with other people
• Having someone there for you to give you a different perspective is so powerful
• Starting your journey and navigating your space gives you the power
• Discovering yourself and your passion to create a solid foundation of peace, faith, and wellness

About the Guest:

Judy Hamilton

Are you being the real you or the you someone else thinks you should be?

Hi, I’m Judy…

You probably know the power of believing in yourself and many say if we just believe hard enough then we can change ourselves and the world. Well, this is true at one level but if you don’t know who you are or have a skewed view of yourself then this model falls apart.

The reality is that we will act according to our views of who we truly are—whether these views are accurate or not.

So, if you find yourself in that never-ending loop of living out others’ expectations, second-guessing yourself, running fast but feeling like you’re getting nowhere, then having a clear picture of who you are might be the thing that is missing. 

I’ve been where you are, I know the feeling….this was my journey but now I have a solid foundation.

Judy has always had a passion to build into people, she has experience as a teacher, a tutor, a leader, in project management - organizing teams and individuals. Judy has a particular passion for empowering women and has effectively accomplished this as a coach, facilitator, and mentor and ultimately led to her establishing her own coaching business.

This diversity of roles has provided Judy with experience, expertise, and opportunities to engage with and impact individuals at foundational levels which have resulted in life-impacting change.

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly is. This experience was the start of his journey to heal the unresolved and unknown grief that were negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connection for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their life and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.

Ian discusses with you that taking action will determine and bring out your potential and capabilities in this episode. It is a matter of trust and faith that will take you to the heights of a better and more positive life, and you just have to take the leap.

Don't miss:

• If you take action, it is going to bring about something you have been hoping for
• Exploring all different opportunities to find out a way to do something beyond your capacity
• As long as you keep healing, you keep on growing and moving forward
• Standing at the precipice and committing yourself to walk your healing journey
• Realizing you could never go back to how things were before, but they continue to get better

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly is. This experience was the start of his journey to heal the unresolved and unknown grief that were negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connection for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their life and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.

Ian shares with you in this episode how you are not completely done with releasing what needs to be removed. You are born into this world pure, and it is a part of your journey to deal with the endless depth of the element of grief.

Don’t miss:

• Various ancestral patterns and behaviors are taught to have an impact on your whole psyche and the makeup of your behavior
• It is not the judgment that determines the grief that you need to release, but an endless depth
• Growing up, adults are determined to not let you make the same mistakes that they did
• Keeping an open mind after doing so much healing work
• You will get what you are ready for and you will change your life for the better

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly is. This experience was the start of his journey to heal the unresolved and unknown grief that were negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connection for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their life and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.

In this episode, Ian talks about having the spontaneity and flexibility that comes from the ability to think and be creative. To have the freedom to be yourself, you must embrace structure and thrive on being around your best natural state of flow.

Don’t miss:

• The time will come when you will find your structure, and you will thrive
• There is spontaneity and opportunities for creativity within your preferred routine
• Creating a plan and having more space for what's important
• Following a process where you work the best
• Taking the time to plan and gather your focus for an increase in productivity

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly is. This experience was the start of his journey to heal the unresolved and unknown grief that were negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connection for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their life and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.

In this episode, Ian talks about changing your pace and direction, which eventually leads to a healthier and more positive outlook in life, the people and places around you. There is absolutely more to life than what you think it is and how you perceive it. 

Don’t miss:

• The long term effects of grief and its impact on your different health aspects
• The first step is to have direction and have the confidence to make that happen to
• Acquire the answers you are looking for by talking and reaching out to your most trusted person
• Life will never be the same again, as it is after you go through grief
• To be able to commit yourself to take the next step to find the direction you want to go through

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly is. This experience was the start of his journey to heal the unresolved and unknown grief that were negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connection for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their life and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.