The Grief Lounge

The Grief Lounge

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The Grief Lounge episodes

  • Grief and Young Minds: Professional Guidance with Sarah Mann Shaw

    In this conversation, Sadie interviews Sarah Mann Shaw, a drama therapist and psychotherapist, about working with children and young people who are experiencing grief and loss. Sarah explains that drama therapy is a unique form of psychotherapy that uses play, metaphor, and creative expression to explore and process internal emotions. She emphasises the importance of the therapeutic relationship and empowering young people to make choices in therapy. Sarah also discusses the different ways grief can manifest in children and young people, including the impact of neurodiversity and adoption. She offers insights on supporting children through grief rituals and the ebb and flow of the grieving process. This insightful conversation is essential listening for anyone seeking to understand and support grieving children.


    Keywordsgrief, loss, children, young people, therapy, drama therapy, psychotherapy, therapeutic relationship, neurodiversity, adoption, rituals, ebb and flowTakeaways

    • Drama therapy is a unique form of psychotherapy that uses play, metaphor, and creative expression to explore and process internal emotions.
    • The therapeutic relationship is crucial in supporting children and young people through grief and loss.
    • Grief can manifest in different ways in children and young people, and it is important to consider factors such as neurodiversity and adoption.
    • Supporting children through grief rituals and acknowledging the ebb and flow of the grieving process can be helpful.
    • Parents and caregivers should be attuned to their child's nonverbal cues and apologise when they make mistakes in supporting their child's grief.

    • 00:34 Introduction and Overview of Drama Therapy and Psychotherapy

      04:49 Grief and Loss Beyond Death: Separation, Adoption, Foster Care

      06:41 The Impact and Internalization of Loss

      08:59 Working with Grief in Children and Young People

      11:43 Building Therapeutic Relationships with Children and Young People

      13:03 An Embodied Approach to Grief and Loss

      18:56 The Unique Challenges of Neurodiverse Individuals

      20:52 The Impact of Adoption on Grief and Loss

      25:42 The Lack of Support and Understanding in Society

      27:37 Supporting Grieving Children in Schools

      29:04 The Importance of Rituals and Mourning in Communities

      30:00 Supporting Children through Rituals and Memory Boxes

      33:55 Parenting and Supporting Grieving Children

      36:37 Effective Communication about Grief and Loss

      38:43 Continued Support and Understanding for Grieving Children

      42:28 Seeking Professional Help for Grieving Children


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      You can also find me on Instagram here @thegriefcoach_uk


      If you would like to know more about this weeks incredible guest Sarah Mann Shaw you can find her herehttp://www.sarahmannshaw.co.uk/

      49 min
    • Climbing Mountains: Finding Strength and Joy in Grief

      Summary

      In this episode of The Grief Lounge, Sadie reflects on her recent climb of Scafell Pike and the striking parallels between this physical challenge and the emotional journey of grief. She shares how grief can feel like an insurmountable mountain, often leaving us unprepared and overwhelmed. Sadie underscores the importance of seeking professional help and support, just as she relied on guides for her climb. She talks about the value of taking one step at a time, focusing on the progress made, and trusting oneself in the face of adversity. Sadie encourages listeners to believe in their own capabilities and to seek out moments of joy amidst the sorrow.

      grief, challenge, mountain, climb, support, journey, personal, professional help, trust, capabilities, joy

      • Grief is a personal journey, much like climbing an immense mountain.
      • Professional help and support are essential for navigating grief.
      • Focus on taking one step at a time and celebrate the progress you've made.
      • Trust in your own abilities and believe in yourself.
      • Even in grief, it's possible to find moments of joy.
        • "We are thrown into grief, a challenge we are not trained for."
        • "Focus on how far I've come as opposed to how far I've got to go."
        • "Navigating grief without professional help is like climbing a mountain without a guide."
        • 00:00 - Celebrating the Achievement of Climbing a Mountain
          02:54 - The Symbolism of Mountains and Grief
          06:16 - Focusing on Progress and Self-Belief
          08:50 - The Importance of Professional Help and Support
          12:37 - Personal Growth and Overcoming Challenges
          19:03 - Discovering Personal Capabilities and Potential
          23:28 - Closing Remarks and Looking Forward


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          you can find me on instagram here @thegriefcoach_uk

          25 min
        • Facing Fear and Doing Hard Things in Grief

          In this heartfelt episode of The Grief Lounge, Sadie explores the reality of doing hard things while navigating grief. Sharing her personal journey, she discusses how fear and anxiety make stepping out of one's comfort zone seem impossible yet essential for growth and healing. Sadie opens up about the importance of seeking support and asking for help, even when it feels difficult. She also reflects on the disconnection from those who only reach out via text and the challenge of not feeling supported by them. Sadie encourages listeners to find a small, reliable group to lean on and stresses that asking for help is a strength, not a weakness. Join Sadie as she explores the power of taking small steps, celebrating progress, and finding the courage to face life's toughest challenges.

          grief, doing hard things, pushing through, stepping out of comfort zone, fear, anxiety, small steps, supportive community, asking for help, support for grieving individuals

          • Doing hard things is crucial for personal growth and healing.
          • Surrounding yourself with a supportive community can provide the strength needed to face difficult times.
          • Asking for help is a necessary part of navigating grief and is a sign of strength, not weakness.
          • Those who are grieving need more support and understanding from their communities.
          • Taking small steps and celebrating progress can build confidence and resilience.
            • "Do the hard things. I want to write a book. I will write a book and I will share my story."
            • "I wouldn't go back to those individuals and ask for help, even if my life depended on it."
            • "There's hardly any support out there for those who are grieving."
            • 00:00 - Introduction: The Importance of Doing Hard Things
              02:08 - Reflecting on Achievements and Celebrating Progress
              08:13 - The Challenges of Asking for Help
              16:01 - The Challenge of Asking for Help in Times of Grief
              19:27 - Recognising and Responding to Those Who Are Struggling
              20:01 - The Limited Availability of Support for Grieving Individuals
              21:44 - Showing Up for Oneself and Others, and Doing the Hard Things
              27:35 - Podcast Outro



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              29 min
            • Father's Day Grief: Coping With the Loss of Your Dad, Husband or Father Figure

              Father's Day can be one of the most difficult days of the year when you are grieving.

              Whether you are missing your dad, grieving the loss of your husband, supporting children whose father has died, navigating infertility, estrangement, a complicated relationship or longing for a fatherhood journey that never happened, this episode is for you.

              In this episode of The Grief Lounge, I explore why Father's Day grief can feel so overwhelming and why significant dates often bring a fresh wave of sadness, longing, anger and loneliness. I share my own experience as a widow raising two children who are grieving the loss of their dad, alongside the many different ways grief can show up on Father's Day.

              We talk about:

              • Father's Day grief and bereavement
              • Missing your dad on Father's Day
              • Coping with Father's Day after the death of a father
              • Losing a husband and navigating Father's Day as a widow
              • Children grieving the loss of their father
              • Infertility, childlessness and Father's Day
              • Estrangement and complicated family relationships
              • Significant dates and grief triggers
              • Social media, advertising and the hidden impact of Father's Day
              • How to cope when everyone else seems to be celebrating
              • Honouring and remembering the people we love

              Father's Day can shine a spotlight on who is missing, what has changed and what can never be. If this day feels painful, complicated or lonely, please know you are not alone.

              The Grief Lounge is a place where grief is welcomed, witnessed and understood.


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              Or find me via my website www.thegriefcoachuk.com

              14 min
            • Finding Strength Together: The Power of Community and Grief Coaching

              Join Sadie in the latest episode of The Grief Lounge, where she shares the importance of creating a supportive community for those navigating the pain of loss. Sadie, a grief coach, emphasises the value of sitting with someone in their grief, listening without judgement, and providing validation and understanding. She introduces her grief coaching programme PAUSE, which includes effective modalities like EFT, sound healing, and grief movement, alongside coaching and space holding, designed to help individuals move forward. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of the unique and personal journey of grief, highlighting the strength found in togetherness and support and the benefits of investing in working with a grief coach.

              Keywords:

              grief, community, support, grief coaching, listening, validation, grief journey, modalities, EFT, sound healing, grief movement, togetherness, strength

              Takeaways:

              • The Grief Lounge podcast aims to create a community where people can feel supported and not alone in their grief.
              • Sitting with someone in their grief and listening without judgement is crucial.
              • Grief coaching can help individuals navigate their grief and find ways to move forward.
              • The grief coaching programme includes various modalities such as EFT, sound healing, and grief movement.
              • Validation and understanding are vital in the grief journey, and everyone's path is unique.
              • Sound Bites:

                • "Creating a community where none of us feel isolated and alone."
                • "We are stronger together in our grief."
                • "It's easier to avoid that person and lose them from your life than it is to just sit with them."
                • Chapters:

                  • 00:00 - Introduction to Grief Coaching
                  • 04:45 - The Importance of Support in Grief
                  • 07:21 - Navigating Unwanted Change and Identity
                  • 10:19 - The Role of Stories and the Ego in Grief
                  • 11:11 - Addressing Society's Discomfort with Death
                  • 29:38 - Introduction and Community Engagement
                  • 30:07 - Finding Strength in Togetherness
                  • You can find me on Instagram as@thegriefcoach_uk


                    Our facebook group can be found here www.facebook.com/groups/thegrieflounge/


                    If you would like to join my new programme PAUSE click the linkhttps://sadie-rowbottom.mykajabi.com/offers/7n8NqwRR


                    FOR 11% discount use SELFCARE in the coupon


                    If you prefer a payment plan the link is here https://sadie-rowbottom.mykajabi.com/offers/yCheuSze


                    Thank you for taking the time to listen. I see you and I appreciate you.


                    Sadie

                    31 min
                  • Finding Light in Loss: Kirsty Gallagher's Path to Purpose

                    In todays episode Kirsty Gallagher joins Sadie to share her wisdom. Kirsty Gallagher is the UK's leading voice in spirituality. She is a moon mentor, soul alignment and spiritual coach, yoga teacher, meditation teacher and Sunday Times bestselling author.


                    Join Sadie in a riveting conversation with Kirsty Gallagher, where they delve into the transformative power of finding purpose amidst grief. As Kirsty shares her own journey of discovering her soul's purpose after loss, listeners are invited to explore the profound connection between lunar living, astrology, and healing. Together, they uncover the fear of death, the importance of embracing grief, and the role of community in the healing process. Get ready for an enlightening dialogue that will inspire you to navigate life's challenges with awareness and authenticity.



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                    Be one of the first to join my new space Pause. It is a spiritual and safe space designed to help you reconnect with yourself while navigating the profound loss of your person.  https://sadie-rowbottom.mykajabi.com/offers/7n8NqwRR


                    I have a discount code for the Lunar Living space where you can access 11% off on your first payment when you subscribe to the membership for either 3 months or 6 months.

                    Use this link https://www.kirstygallagher.com/a/2147484434/3pQACgi9

                    and use the code SADIE


                    You can also find Kirsty over on :-

                    Instagram @kirsty_gallagher_

                    Facebook @Kirsty Gallagher


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                    53 min
                  • Facing the Hard Days: Grief, Boundaries, and Self-Care

                    In this brief but poignant episode of The Grief Lounge, Sadie shares her personal journey through some of the toughest moments following her husband's passing. She opens up about navigating the emotional lead-up to his birthday and how she coped with the pain. Sadie emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries, avoiding draining interactions, and prioritizing self-care during the grieving process. She also talks about creating special moments for her daughter's birthday and overcoming social anxiety to enjoy a trip to London. This episode serves as a heartfelt reminder to listen to your needs and do what feels right to get through the hardest times. Join Sadie for an honest and supportive conversation about facing grief head-on and finding ways to heal.


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                    16 min
                  • Marking Milestones: Honouring Loved Ones Amidst Grief

                    Step into the raw and unfiltered world of grief with Sadie on The Grief Lounge podcast as she openly shares her journey through the heartache of approaching significant dates without her loved ones. In this soul-stirring episode, Sadie unveils the emotional turbulence surrounding anniversaries, birthdays, and holidays, offering listeners a glimpse into the messy reality of grief. With heartfelt storytelling and genuine vulnerability, she explores the bittersweet challenge of honoring memories while facing the ache of absence. Join Sadie for an authentic exploration of grief's complexities, where shared experiences and heartfelt conversations illuminate the path to healing.


                    Happy Heavenly Birthday Chris - You are missed and loved


                    If you would like to join a community to help support you in your grief the link for the community space is below

                    www.facebook.com/groups/thegrieflounge/


                    You can also make contact with me on instagram where you can DM me or follow me there. Here is the link

                    @thegriefcoach_uk


                    I would really love you to share how you celebrate, remember, honour and approach memorable and significant dates.


                    We never forget our loved ones but these dates really do illuminate their loss.


                    Much love and strength to all of you.


                    Sadie


                      13 min
                    • Embracing Hope: Finding Meaning After Loss

                      Join Sadie on an inspiring journey of discovery as she explores the powerful connection between hope and meaning in the face of grief on the latest episode of The Grief Lounge podcast. With heartfelt honesty, Sadie shares personal stories and insights into how she's found hope amidst life's most difficult challenges, including navigating IVF and supporting her husband through cancer. Through candid conversation, Sadie reveals that finding meaning after losing a loved one isn't about understanding the loss itself, but about how we choose to move forward and rebuild our lives. She highlights the transformative impact of hope in helping us navigate adversity and encourages listeners to embrace their grief, seek support from others, and find solace in the small moments of hope and meaning that illuminate our lives. Tune in to discover the profound interplay between hope, grief, and healing, and learn how, even in our darkest moments, hope can be a beacon of light guiding us toward a brighter future.


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                      35 min
                    • The Spiritual Path: Finding Comfort in Signs and Synchronicities

                      Embark on a heartfelt journey with Sadie as she shares personal encounters with signs, synchronicities, and spiritual connections in this episode of The Grief Lounge. With sincerity and warmth, Sadie explores the comfort and guidance these experiences offer amidst the challenges of grief.

                      Despite skepticism and doubts, Sadie courageously embraces the unseen, inviting listeners to explore their own intuition and connection with loved ones. Through relatable stories, she illuminates the importance of discernment in navigating life's mysteries.

                      This episode provides a space for reflection and connection, encouraging listeners to trust their inner wisdom and find solace in the interconnectedness of life. Whether you're spiritual or seeking comfort, "Guided by Grace" invites you to explore the profound depth of healing and understanding. Tune in to The Grief Lounge and discover the grace of spiritual connections.


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                      @thegriefcoach_uk

                      40 min

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