Today, we’re joined by Jody Dontje, a TEDx speaker, emotional fitness coach, and public speaking mentor who helps individuals break through fear and express their authentic selves with confidence. With a deep understanding of emotional resilience and vulnerability, Jody has worked with men around the world to develop healthy emotional regulation, authentic self-expression, and stronger leadership in relationships and life.
In this episode, we’re exploring one of the most important yet misunderstood aspects of personal growth for men: authenticity and emotional regulation.
How do you know when to fully express yourself - and when to hold back?
Is stoicism making you stronger, or is it suppressing your true self?
Where’s the line between healthy vulnerability and oversharing?
We break down the boundaries of expression, the power of discernment, and why vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness. In this episode, we discuss:
- How men can build real emotional resilience without shutting down
- The role of archetypes in unlocking your best self
- The truth about anger - why it needs to be protected, not suppressed
- Navigating romantic relationships - Should you be vulnerable in front of your partner? How do you manage disagreements without losing connection?
Plus, we’ll explore:
- The key to manifesting abundance in relationships, career, and money
- Why we’re drawn to partners who might not actually be the best fit
- The most important inner work for building a life of clarity, confidence, and purpose
This conversation is about stepping into your full power - without losing yourself in the process.
If you’ve ever questioned when to open up, when to hold back, or how to express your emotions in a way that serves you, this episode is for you.
Song Suggestion: The Greatest Showman Ensemble - This Is Me
Book Recommendations:
Douglas Gillette and Robert L. Moore - King, Warrior, Magician, Lover
Bene Brown - The Gifts of Imperfection
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www.jodydontje.com
I help Nice Guys remove the mask and transform into calm, confident leaders in work, love, and Life. Apply here
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