THE HARD WAY

This week on the podcast we welcome the legend, Mr Fin Barnett!

In this episode Molly and Fin dive into all things, living a life you’ve always dreamed of. Fin shares the trials and tribulations of his dream career in touch rugby and almost having this ripped away from him in one quick instant...

He chats moving through the motions of life and realising the importance of having a “coffee and a handshake”, bringing him into his next venture as a business owner and a community builder; now working alongside the bigshots at Flight Coffee. And we of course finish with some hard hitting questions, in true Hard Way fashion!

Thank you Fin for coming on and having an epic and insightful chat! What a great tāne with a great outlook on life. Find Fin and his community at @coffeesandhandshakes

Where to find The Hard Way:
Instagram - @thehardwaypodcast
TikTok - @thehardwaypod

Disclaimer:
Molly is a mental health occupational therapist; however, anything that is discussed or advised on the podcast is not provided through a clinical lens. Please utilise support services if you seek help related to your health and well-being, and be sure to take any experiences and advice from Molly or her guests, as advice and lived-experience from real humans, not clinical practitioners.

New Zealand HELPLINES:
- Need to talk? - free text or call 1737
- Lifeline – 0800 543 354 (0800 LIFELINE) or free text 4357 (HELP).
- Youthline - 0800 376 633 or free text 234.
- Samaritans -0800 726 666
- Suicide Crisis Helpline - 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO).
- Helpline - 0800 611 116

We’re back into The Hard Way style and what better way to start than with the lovely Jessica Ann Baker from Everyday Solitude!

In this episode Molly and Jess discuss all things mental health awareness, owning your own business and how easy it can be to hold a safe space for tough conversations.

Jess shares with us the journey of the business, her future goals and her own mental health journey, influencing her to create the movement she has. She discusses all her wins, as well as all of the hard losses. *trigger warning, as we discuss mental health, anxiety and distress*

Thank you Jess for coming on and sharing your story! She’s got some wise words, so take a listen! And find Jess and her epic community at @everydaysolitude or https://everydaysolitude.com/

*We apologise for Molly's mic throughout (still sorting the tech stuff haha) but you get the best volume for the best content from Jess!*

Where to find The Hard Way:
Instagram - @thehardwaypodcast
TikTok - @thehardwaypod

Disclaimer:
Molly is a mental health occupational therapist; however, anything that is discussed or advised on the podcast is not provided through a clinical lens. Please utilise support services if you seek help related to your health and well-being, and be sure to take any experiences and advice from Molly or her guests, as advice and lived-experience from real humans, not clinical practitioners.

New Zealand HELPLINES:
- Need to talk? - free text or call 1737
- Lifeline – 0800 543 354 (0800 LIFELINE) or free text 4357 (HELP).
- Youthline - 0800 376 633 or free text 234.
- Samaritans -0800 726 666
- Suicide Crisis Helpline - 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO).
- Helpline - 0800 611 116

Where the f*ck have we been?...

We’re back fam and boy do we have some explaining to do…

In this episode Molly and Maddie discuss all things Euro summer, the iHeart breakup and what the future looks like with the reboot of the poddy, PLUS Maddie shares some hard truths (it’s an emotional one).

Listen now to get your final melodramatic hit from the gals before we move onto bigger and better things.

Where to find The Hard Way:
Instagram - @thehardwaypodcast
TikTok - @thehardwaypod

Disclaimer:
Molly is a mental health occupational therapist; however, anything that is discussed or advised on the podcast is not provided through a clinical lens. Please utilise support services if you seek help related to your health and well-being, and be sure to take any experiences and advice from Molly or her guests, as advice and lived-experience from real humans, not clinical practitioners.

New Zealand HELPLINES:
- Need to talk? - free text or call 1737
- Lifeline – 0800 543 354 (0800 LIFELINE) or free text 4357 (HELP).
- Youthline - 0800 376 633 or free text 234.
- Samaritans -0800 726 666
- Suicide Crisis Helpline - 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO).
- Helpline - 0800 611 116

On this week's episode we drop a big ol' bomb...

We chat all the best Melodramatic moments, what we've learnt and what's to come in the future!? Plus we talk about our plans over the next month or so.

And as per usual we finish with icks and sticks!

Thank you to all the MVPs for joining us on this journey and being apart of our beautiful community. Keep updated on our socials to find out the next moves for the poddy. Love y'all

Where to find The Melodramatic Vibes:
INSTA - https://www.instagram.com/melodramaticvibes

EXCLUSIVE CONTENT ON TIKTOK

TIKTOK - https://www.tiktok.com/@melodramaticvibespod 

Where to find Maddie:
https://www.instagram.com/maddielanglois/

Where to find Molly:
https://www.instagram.com/mollyyblanchard/

New Zealand HELPLINES:
- Lifeline – 0800 543 354 (0800 LIFELINE) or free text 4357 (HELP).
- Youthline - 0800 376 633 or free text 234.
- Samaritans -0800 726 666
- Suicide Crisis Helpline - 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO).
- Helpline - 0800 611 116

Disclaimer:

Molly is a mental health occupational therapist; however, anything that is discussed or advised on the podcast is not provided through a clinical lens. Please utilise support services if you seek help related to your health and well-being, and be sure to take any experiences and advice from the girls, as advice and lived-experience from 20 something year old girls, not clinical practitioners. 

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

New Zealand HELPLINES:
- Need to talk? - free text or call 1737
- Lifeline – 0800 543 354 (0800 LIFELINE) or free text 4357 (HELP).
- Youthline - 0800 376 633 or free text 234.
- Samaritans -0800 726 666
- Suicide Crisis Helpline - 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO).
- Helpline - 0800 611 116

On this week’s episode we chat “Am I an asshole” round 2, whilst accidentally exposing ourselves yet again…

From tattoos with your mother in law, not showering after work and hearing your mum doing DOT DOT DOT - the stories cover it all and the girls decide if y’all are a bunch of assholes 🤦‍♀️

Plus a bomb is about to be dropped and it’s feeling a bit of a pit… listen for all the details 😏

Where to find The Melodramatic Vibes:
INSTA - https://www.instagram.com/melodramaticvibes

EXCLUSIVE CONTENT ON TIKTOK

TIKTOK - https://www.tiktok.com/@melodramaticvibespod 

Where to find Maddie:
https://www.instagram.com/maddielanglois/

Where to find Molly:
https://www.instagram.com/mollyyblanchard/

New Zealand HELPLINES:
- Lifeline – 0800 543 354 (0800 LIFELINE) or free text 4357 (HELP).
- Youthline - 0800 376 633 or free text 234.
- Samaritans -0800 726 666
- Suicide Crisis Helpline - 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO).
- Helpline - 0800 611 116

Disclaimer:

Molly is a mental health occupational therapist; however, anything that is discussed or advised on the podcast is not provided through a clinical lens. Please utilise support services if you seek help related to your health and well-being, and be sure to take any experiences and advice from the girls, as advice and lived-experience from 20 something year old girls, not clinical practitioners. 

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

New Zealand HELPLINES:
- Need to talk? - free text or call 1737
- Lifeline – 0800 543 354 (0800 LIFELINE) or free text 4357 (HELP).
- Youthline - 0800 376 633 or free text 234.
- Samaritans -0800 726 666
- Suicide Crisis Helpline - 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO).
- Helpline - 0800 611 116

On this week’s episode we celebrate Molly’s upcoming birthday, the big 27!!!!

We chat about how life starts coming at you real quick when you get to a certain age and pat ourselves on the back for achieving some pretty cool things (if we don’t do it who will)

Rounding out with a big Mother’s Day reminder and a shout out to the ladies who raised us and Icks and sticks baby!

LOVE U ALL

Where to find The Melodramatic Vibes:
INSTA - https://www.instagram.com/melodramaticvibes

EXCLUSIVE CONTENT ON TIKTOK

TIKTOK - https://www.tiktok.com/@melodramaticvibespod 

Where to find Maddie:
https://www.instagram.com/maddielanglois/

Where to find Molly:
https://www.instagram.com/mollyyblanchard/

New Zealand HELPLINES:
- Lifeline – 0800 543 354 (0800 LIFELINE) or free text 4357 (HELP).
- Youthline - 0800 376 633 or free text 234.
- Samaritans -0800 726 666
- Suicide Crisis Helpline - 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO).
- Helpline - 0800 611 116

Disclaimer:

Molly is a mental health occupational therapist; however, anything that is discussed or advised on the podcast is not provided through a clinical lens. Please utilise support services if you seek help related to your health and well-being, and be sure to take any experiences and advice from the girls, as advice and lived-experience from 20 something year old girls, not clinical practitioners. 

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

New Zealand HELPLINES:
- Need to talk? - free text or call 1737
- Lifeline – 0800 543 354 (0800 LIFELINE) or free text 4357 (HELP).
- Youthline - 0800 376 633 or free text 234.
- Samaritans -0800 726 666
- Suicide Crisis Helpline - 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO).
- Helpline - 0800 611 116

DATING DILEMMAS IS BACK BABYYYYY

We read out submissions from our MVP's (😉) and offer advice on some pretty sticky situations!

Molly also drops some pretty big news this ep!!! 

And as always... rounding out with Icks and Sticks! (some of them are your submissions as well!) 

Where to find The Melodramatic Vibes:
INSTA - https://www.instagram.com/melodramaticvibes

EXCLUSIVE CONTENT ON TIKTOK

TIKTOK - https://www.tiktok.com/@melodramaticvibespod 

Where to find Maddie:
https://www.instagram.com/maddielanglois/

Where to find Molly:
https://www.instagram.com/mollyyblanchard/

New Zealand HELPLINES:
- Lifeline – 0800 543 354 (0800 LIFELINE) or free text 4357 (HELP).
- Youthline - 0800 376 633 or free text 234.
- Samaritans -0800 726 666
- Suicide Crisis Helpline - 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO).
- Helpline - 0800 611 116

Disclaimer:

Molly is a mental health occupational therapist; however, anything that is discussed or advised on the podcast is not provided through a clinical lens. Please utilise support services if you seek help related to your health and well-being, and be sure to take any experiences and advice from the girls, as advice and lived-experience from 20 something year old girls, not clinical practitioners. 

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

New Zealand HELPLINES:
- Need to talk? - free text or call 1737
- Lifeline – 0800 543 354 (0800 LIFELINE) or free text 4357 (HELP).
- Youthline - 0800 376 633 or free text 234.
- Samaritans -0800 726 666
- Suicide Crisis Helpline - 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO).
- Helpline - 0800 611 116

THIS WEEK... we open the safe space and expose YOUR secrets along with ourselves by telling you what we get up to behind close doors!

(Turns out, no ones had a unique experience 😂)

Where to find The Melodramatic Vibes:
INSTA - https://www.instagram.com/melodramaticvibes

EXCLUSIVE CONTENT ON TIKTOK

TIKTOK - https://www.tiktok.com/@melodramaticvibespod 

Where to find Maddie:
https://www.instagram.com/maddielanglois/

Where to find Molly:
https://www.instagram.com/mollyyblanchard/

New Zealand HELPLINES:
- Lifeline – 0800 543 354 (0800 LIFELINE) or free text 4357 (HELP).
- Youthline - 0800 376 633 or free text 234.
- Samaritans -0800 726 666
- Suicide Crisis Helpline - 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO).
- Helpline - 0800 611 116

Disclaimer:

Molly is a mental health occupational therapist; however, anything that is discussed or advised on the podcast is not provided through a clinical lens. Please utilise support services if you seek help related to your health and well-being, and be sure to take any experiences and advice from the girls, as advice and lived-experience from 20 something year old girls, not clinical practitioners. 

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

New Zealand HELPLINES:
- Need to talk? - free text or call 1737
- Lifeline – 0800 543 354 (0800 LIFELINE) or free text 4357 (HELP).
- Youthline - 0800 376 633 or free text 234.
- Samaritans -0800 726 666
- Suicide Crisis Helpline - 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO).
- Helpline - 0800 611 116

This week, we chat about how everyone is moving away, this leads them to getting tested on their NZ knowledge by Producer Meg! SPOILER ALERT: They don't know much!! 

Rounding out with everybody's favourite... ICKS and STICKS! If you have any you would like us to read out DM US ON INSTA OR TIKTOK (links Below)

Where to find The Melodramatic Vibes:
INSTA - https://www.instagram.com/melodramaticvibes

TIKTOK - https://www.tiktok.com/@melodramaticvibespod 

Where to find Maddie:
https://www.instagram.com/maddielanglois/

Where to find Molly:
https://www.instagram.com/mollyyblanchard/

New Zealand HELPLINES:
- Lifeline – 0800 543 354 (0800 LIFELINE) or free text 4357 (HELP).
- Youthline - 0800 376 633 or free text 234.
- Samaritans -0800 726 666
- Suicide Crisis Helpline - 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO).
- Helpline - 0800 611 116

Disclaimer:

Molly is a mental health occupational therapist; however, anything that is discussed or advised on the podcast is not provided through a clinical lens. Please utilise support services if you seek help related to your health and well-being, and be sure to take any experiences and advice from the girls, as advice and lived-experience from 20 something year old girls, not clinical practitioners

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

New Zealand HELPLINES:
- Need to talk? - free text or call 1737
- Lifeline – 0800 543 354 (0800 LIFELINE) or free text 4357 (HELP).
- Youthline - 0800 376 633 or free text 234.
- Samaritans -0800 726 666
- Suicide Crisis Helpline - 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO).
- Helpline - 0800 611 116

This week, we deep dive into ‘Imposter Syndrome’ and how both of us are in the trenches dealing with it at the moment!  

We read up on ‘recommended’ ways to cope with Imposter Syndrome and then go into the ways we ACTUALLY deal with it (healthy and unhealthy lol).

A week of us expressing the real truths behind being working wahine, who have their shit together… along with many laughs as well!

Where to find The Melodramatic Vibes:
INSTA - https://www.instagram.com/melodramaticvibes

TIKTOK - https://www.tiktok.com/@melodramaticvibespod 

Where to find Maddie:
https://www.instagram.com/maddielanglois/

Where to find Molly:
https://www.instagram.com/mollyyblanchard/

New Zealand HELPLINES:
- Lifeline – 0800 543 354 (0800 LIFELINE) or free text 4357 (HELP).
- Youthline - 0800 376 633 or free text 234.
- Samaritans -0800 726 666
- Suicide Crisis Helpline - 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO).
- Helpline - 0800 611 116

Disclaimer:

Molly is a mental health occupational therapist; however, anything that is discussed or advised on the podcast is not provided through a clinical lens. Please utilise support services if you seek help related to your health and well-being, and be sure to take any experiences and advice from the girls, as advice and lived-experience from 20 something year old girls, not clinical practitioners

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

New Zealand HELPLINES:
- Need to talk? - free text or call 1737
- Lifeline – 0800 543 354 (0800 LIFELINE) or free text 4357 (HELP).
- Youthline - 0800 376 633 or free text 234.
- Samaritans -0800 726 666
- Suicide Crisis Helpline - 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO).
- Helpline - 0800 611 116