The Heartbeat

The Heartbeat

By Kevin CrenshawSociety & CultureRelationships
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The Heartbeat episodes

  • Overcome Fear of Intimacy - Dominique D'Vita

    Dominique D'Vita (yestantra) discusses the challenges people face in keeping their hearts open during intimacy and lovemaking. She explains that many people have been miseducated about sex and have learned to disconnect their sexual energy from their emotions and heart space. This podcast uncovers the blocks to human connection and intimacy and what to do about it0:00:00 How to connect while having sex
    0:05:30 Blocks to intimacy0:08:19 Breaking free from societal conditioning 0:10:54 Sharing sexual needs0:14:37 How to receive more pleasure0:16:11 What is Tantra0:18:21 The brain on sex0:20:00 Different types of tantra0:26:00 Overcoming performance anxiety and pressure in sexual experiences0:26:33 The disempowerment of men0:30:53 Supporting men in overcoming performance issues

    37 min
  • Boundaries 101: Don't Settle For Breadcrumbs w/ Jillian Turecki

    Jillian explores the concept of self-worth and its role in setting boundaries. Many people struggle with self-abandonment and fear of losing love, leading them to prioritize others' needs over their own. Jillian emphasizes the need to retrain our minds and beliefs about relationships, understanding that self-love and self-worth are essential for healthy connections. She encourages individuals to value themselves and their needs, while also being compassionate and understanding towards others.Jillian delves into the topic of settling for breadcrumbs in relationships and the importance of not accepting less than what you deserve. She advises individuals to seek partners who are thrilled to be with them and to avoid relationships where they are not receiving the love and attention they desire.The conversation also touches on the mirror effect in relationships, where the qualities we dislike in our partners often reflect aspects of ourselves that we have not fully embraced. Jillian encourages individuals to explore their own triggers and judgments, recognizing that they may be projecting their own insecurities onto their partners.The interview concludes with a discussion on rebuilding trust in relationships and the importance of seeking professional help, such as therapy or counseling, when dealing with betrayal or ruptured foundations. Jillian emphasizes the need for transparency, loyalty, and open communication to rebuild trust.

    42 min
  • How To Stop Fantasizing Love W/ Lori Jean Glass

    Lori Jean Glass, author of "Healthy Adult," discusses the topic of love addiction and fantasy in relationships. We explored the importance of understanding one's own developmental parts, how to set effective boundaries, and a deeper look at the different attachment styles.
    Visit Lovetopivot.com for more information on her work.
    0:00:00 Love Addiction
    0:01:33 Reasons why people cling in relationships
    0:04:05 Importance of understanding individual experiences in relationships
    0:05:28 Exploring developmental parts
    0:10:24 Different attachment styles and their impact on relationships
    0:14:39 Understanding and navigating different energy dynamics in relationships
    0:18:46 Reparenting in relationship
    0:23:59 Understanding Relational Gridlock
    0:26:11 The significance of choosing oneself in relationships
    0:33:21 Healthy Relationships

    38 min
  • Why Men Struggle In Relationships w/ Bryan Withrow Reeves

    In this episode of The Heartbeat, Brian Withrow Reeves discusses the differences between men and women when it comes to intimacy and relationships. He explains that while men and women have the same essential needs for safety, love, and acceptance, they often approach relationships and problem-solving differently. Brian also talks about the challenges men face in today's society and the importance of connection in relationships. He shares insights from his own personal journey and offers advice for men who are seeking more fulfillment in their relationships.


    Key Takeaways:

    • Men and women have the same essential needs for safety, love, and acceptance.
    • Men and women often approach relationships and problem-solving differently, which can lead to conflict and disconnect.
    • The culture we live in rewards men for solving problems and achieving outcomes, which can create a disconnect in relationships.
    • Men need to learn how to be more relational and connect with their partners on a deeper level.
    • The crisis in relationships is a crisis of connection, not of money, sex, or social media.


      • About The Guest:

      Brian Reeves is a relationship coach, author, and speaker. He has been coaching couples for ten years and has worked with countless men and women to help them improve their relationships. Brian is the author of the book "Choose Her Every Day or Leave Her," which has been read by millions of people.

      Quotes:

      • "Men and women tend to come at things very differently and from a different set of initial priorities and values, and that can create endless conflict or disconnect."
      • "The real crisis in relationships is a crisis of connection, not of money or sex or social media."
      • "Men and women are constantly experiencing a disconnect because men are problem resolution-oriented, while women are in the conversation to create connection."
      • "We are rewarded for solving problems and achieving outcomes, but we are not rewarded for collaborative, nurturing ways of being."
      • "Men need to learn how to be more relational and connect with their partners on a deeper level."

        • Links:

        • Brian Reeves' website
        • Brian Reeves' book, "Choose Her Every Day or Leave Her"



          • 0:00:00 Mens needs / womens needs
          0:01:02 Disconnect between men and women
          0:03:45 The crisis in modern dating / The crisis in modern relationships
          0:04:31 Masculine culture
          0:05:41 Selfish thinking vs inclusive thinking
          0:08:26 How to respect needs and boundaries
          0:10:28 Responsibility in relationship
          0:13:39 How to be compassionate and assertive
          0:17:59 Men's initiation
          0:30:17 Survival mode in relationships
          0:37:27 How to make inclusive choices
          0:38:50 Men need to seek wise counsel and support
          0:43:30 What men find attractive in a woman
          0:46:14 The challenge in relationships
          0:57:09 Brian Reeves' book "Choose Her Every Day or Leave Her"

          59 min
        • How To Be The Love you Seek W/ The Holistic Psychologist

          In this episode, Dr. Nicole LePera AKA The Holistic Psychologist talks about her own intimate relationship, her new book, and how inner work is the gateway to healthy relationships. She has a background in couples therapy that has greatly influenced her new book - How To Be The Love You Seek. She has gained a massive following on social media for her insightful and relatable content and is passionate about helping individuals improve their relationships and find healing.


          Dr. Nicole LePera discusses the reasons behind her rapid rise in popularity and the universal appeal of her content. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing our past and how it shapes our choices and the growing awareness of the possibility of change. Dr. LePera also explores the shift in societal attitudes toward relationships and the importance of vulnerability and authenticity. She shares her personal journey of overcoming fear and learning to share herself honestly. Dr. LePera highlights the significance of creating safety and security within ourselves before seeking it in relationships with others. The book, "How to Be the Love You Seek," provides practical tools and prompts for self-exploration and creating change in relationships.


          Chapters


          0:05:47 Dr. Nicole LePera's personal growth and journey in the public eye

          0:08:12 The purpose of intimate relationships and the importance of safety and security

          0:18:28 The balance between hyper-independence / self-reliance and interdependence in relationships

          0:23:34 Dr. Nicole LePera's personal relationships and the challenges faced

          0:30:04 How to have open and honest communication in relationships

          0:38:40 The process of personal growth and change in relationships

          0:44:14 The unique perspective of the book and the focus on self-change

          0:49:19 The importance of staying true to oneself and finding like-minded individuals

          0:54:58 Accepting that others may not change and finding peace within oneself

          0:58:01 The challenges of trying to change others and the importance of acceptance

          1:00:24 The importance of acceptance in relationships

          1:00:39 Overview of Dr. Nicole LePera's book and what readers can expect

          1:01:26 The structure and content of the book

          1:02:09 The focus on nervous system wellness and emotional exploration

          1:02:26 The inclusion of human attachment in the book

          1:04:05 The possibility of change at any age

          1:04:27 The emotional labor of writing a book and the importance of processing emotions

          1:07:39 Information about the release date and where to learn more about the book

          1:10:14 How to get over an ex if you still love them

          1:11:27 Gaps in the healing space

          1:12:22 How to open up to a partner about sexual needs and desires

          1:13:15 How to create a safe space for communication in relationships

          1:14:18 Relationships and higher levels of consciousness

          1:17:00 Definind love

          1:19:48 Information about Dr. Nicole LePera's new book and website

          1:20:52 Final words of gratitude and appreciation for the community


          Quotes:

          • "We're all struggling the same way, wondering what's wrong with us and seeking change."
          • "As a species, we're starting to see the possibility of change and becoming more empowered."
          • "We're expanding the definition of human and considering the role of emotions in our lives."
          • "Creating safety and security within ourselves allows us to show up more authentically in relationships."
          • "Relationships are a space for challenge and growth, where we can learn to be vulnerable and connected."




            • Dr Nicole LePera Relationship

            The Holistic Psychologist Relationship

            Dr Nicole LePera Relationship Relationship Book

            The Holistic Psychologist New Relationship Book

            How To Be The Love You Seek Podcast Interview

            1 hr 22 min
          • Patrick and Jenna Kennedy Love Story

            @thejennkennedy and @patrick.kennedy__ have an amazing love story that is unconventional to societal standards. They share how they have navigated spiritual awakenings individually and as a couple that ultimately drew them closer together. I believe they are a prime example of what is possible in a relationship and what it means to navigate life changes and challenges, together.

            55 min
          • Your Brain On Love W/ Dr. Stan Tatkin

            Dr. Stan has been one of my favorite Authors on relationships for a while now, and my relationship has improved since implementing some of the tools he gives in his book Your Brain On Love. 

            In this episode, we talked about his story getting into his work, how he thinks about relationships, and his view of what makes relationships last! 

            Dr. Stan Tatkin is the developer of the Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT). PACT is a polytheoretical, non-linear approach to dyadic systems that integrates developmental neuroscience, arousal regulation, and attachment theory. PACT has a reputation for effectively treating the most challenging couples.

            1 hr 4 min
          • Scott Seymour and Emily Fitz Love Story

            Scott and Emily are friends of mine and it was so fun to interview them for the podcast! They have such a fantastic story AND we talked nitty gritty on:  -How to navigate triggers with your partner  -Supporting your partner in their healing -Creating Safety in relationships Scott and Emily are incredible space holders and I've seen it firsthand working alongside them. You can follow them on Instagram @journey_of_man and @the.emilyfitz

            58 min
          • Blair and Garrain Jones Love Story - Relationship Wisdom

            This powerhouse couple is one of the most inspiring couples I've had the pleasure of interviewing AND knowing. Not only do they have an amazing relationship and are super fun to hang with, but they are also millionaires through companies that truly serve and leave a positive impact on people's lives. I am friends with both of them and have witnessed their relationship blossom over the years - and especially seeing "behind the scenes" - they are the same off camera as they are ON camera which says A LOT.  

            This episode goes deep into how they manifested partnership AND everything they have done to work on their relationship to get it to where it is today. How to fight, weekly love meetings, and understanding how to collaborate as two very powerful people on their own, they shared TONS of practical guidance that can help you create the love you desire.  

            Follow Blair Jones - @Blair.rachel.jones on Instagram 

            Follow Garrain Jones - @Garrain.jones on Instagram and Garrainjones.com

            1 hr 17 min
          • Supporting Your Partner Emotionally W/ Marissa + Kathleen

            This was such a fun episode! We talked about healing codependency within your relationship and what it really means to build a partnership despite what it's "supposed" to look like in the beginning and going with what feels right for YOU! 


            Shoutout @marissa.hamon on IG! 


            If you're new here, welcome to The Heartbeat podcast! 

            57 min

          About The Heartbeat

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          Learn from inspirational couples and top relationship experts as they share their stories and wisdom to help you live with more love, peace, and connection. w/ host - Kevin Crenshaw AKA The Heart Guy

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