"A woman's fury holds lifetimes of wisdom." — Tracee Ellis Ross

So why are we still being told to calm down?

In this episode SJ and Pegsy explore one of the most loaded words in a woman's emotional vocabulary — fury — and what happens when we stop pathologising it and start listening to it instead.

Drawing on Tracee Ellis Ross's extraordinary TED talk, they unpack the micro-aggressive language around women's anger, the double standard that sees men called passionate and women called hysterical, and the accumulated weight of being dismissed, disrespected, and unheard — until one moment becomes the final straw for something that has been building for years.

This is not an episode about fixing anger. It's about understanding it.

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And we close with five questions worth sitting with:

This episode is for every woman who has ever been told her response is the problem.

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You know their names. You know their achievements. But do you know what happened in between?

SJ and Pegsy are back — and this week they're doing something a little different.

Rather than a highlights reel in the latest of our looks at Inspirational Women, this episode goes behind the polished, press-ready versions of four extraordinary women — Reese Witherspoon, Maya Jama, Brené Brown, and Michelle Obama — and into the messy, uncertain, often uncomfortable middle ground that actually shaped who they became.

Because leadership isn't built in the spotlight. It's built in the struggle before anyone was watching.

What connects these four women isn't fame. It's something far more interesting — the gap between how the world saw them and how they actually felt inside. The quiet, persistent friction of not quite fitting the version of themselves that existed in other people's minds. And the series of small, often unglamorous decisions to choose themselves anyway.

In this episode:

And we close with the one question worth sitting with today:

Where in your life right now is there a gap between how the world sees you and who you actually are?

You don't have to answer it today. You just have to be honest enough to ask it.

Someone in your life needs to hear this one. Share it.

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SJ and Pegsy welcome you back to Heels in the Hierarchy - and this week SJ sits down with someone whose career story genuinely stopped us in our tracks.

She welcomes Debbie - a woman who built a successful, people-focused career in beauty and medical sales, and then made one of the most unexpected pivots you'll hear about on this podcast: into a technical, commercial, male-dominated manufacturing environment.

"I've built confidence in one world — and suddenly none of it seemed to apply anymore."

That's where this conversation begins. And it might be where you are right now too.  

Different language. Different culture. Different rules. And COVID hitting just as she was trying to find her feet, derailing the hands-on training she desperately needed.

What unfolds is one of the most honest conversations we've had about what identity and confidence actually feel like when you step into a space that wasn't built with you in mind — and what it takes not just to survive it, but to stay, grow, and discover strengths you didn't know you had.

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If you've ever walked into a room and wondered whether you belonged there — this one's for you.

And if you know someone standing at the edge of a big career change, send this to them today.

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Everyone talks about the glass ceiling. SJ and Pegsy ask a more interesting question: is it always someone else's doing?

In this episode SJ and Pegsy have an honest, nuanced conversation about career progression — the real structural barriers women face, and the ones we sometimes build for ourselves. Because quite often, it's both happening at the same time.

From crowded leadership tiers and the difference between a mentor and a sponsor, to the confidence gap, the broken promises of "great progression opportunities," and the invisible emotional weight women carry around ambition — this is the glass ceiling conversation that goes beyond the headlines.

And crucially: it ends with practical routes forward. Not just what's in the way, but how to find the elevator when the ceiling won't budge.

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Have you hit a genuine glass ceiling — or looked back and realised you'd underestimated yourself? We'd love to hear from you.

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Some of the best management conversations don't happen in a meeting room. They happen on a walk.

In this episode SJ and Pegsy explore the real evidence behind walking meetings — why movement boosts creativity, reduces fatigue, and quietly shifts the power dynamic in ways that make difficult conversations easier and honest ones more likely.

Drawing on research-backed insights and their own expertise in wellbeing and HR, they get practical about when walking meetings genuinely work best — appraisals, onboarding new starters, early performance conversations — and when they don't. Crucially, they also tackle accessibility, because any wellbeing initiative that excludes people isn't really a wellbeing initiative at all.

In this episode:

Try it once this week — with one person, one conversation. See what comes up that wouldn't have at a desk.

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She failed the exams that were meant to define her future. It turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to her career.

In this episode SJ speak with Emmy, a payments product manager, about a journey that didn't start where she expected — or wanted — it to. Failing anatomy exams meant letting go of a lifelong plan to become a doctor, and facing a version of failure that felt deeply personal. What followed was a rebuild: new direction, new identity, and ultimately, a career and sense of fulfilment she couldn't have planned for.

This is a story about what failure actually teaches us, if we let it — and how the lowest point can end up being the turning point.

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Ever turned a failure into your biggest win? This episode will resonate.

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A career break isn't a gap. It's a chapter — and it's time the workplace started reading it that way.

In this episode SJ and Pegsy explore Carol Fishman Cohen's influential TED Talk on "relaunchers" — women returning to work after stepping away for caregiving, health, or simply a different season of life. Rather than treating that time as something to explain away, this episode reframes it as exactly what it is: an intentional restart, not an ending.

They dig into why confidence often takes the biggest hit during a break, how outdated recruitment practices quietly penalise relaunchers, and the transferable skills — resilience, perspective, problem-solving — that so often go unrecognised on a CV. And crucially, they offer practical, actionable steps for both employers and candidates to make re-entry genuinely successful, not just survivable.

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Know someone relaunching their career? This episode is for them — and for the manager hiring them.

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This episode explores the growing, often-hidden impact of elder care on women in the workforce — from 600 people quitting daily in the UK to the 1.4 million ‘sandwich carers’ balancing children, careers and aging relatives.

Hosts SJ and Pegsy discuss the emotional toll, anticipatory grief, financial pressures, workplace stigma and practical resources, and offer compassionate advice for both carers and managers on how to navigate and support this major life transition.

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The difference between an ordeal and an adventure is your attitude. This episode is pure adventure.

To celebrate one year of Heels in the Hierarchy, SJ and Pegsy are throwing open the outtakes reel — the bloopers, the behind-the-scenes moments, and the bits that didn't quite make the cut. But amid the laughter there's something genuinely valuable here too: honest conversation about vulnerability, neurodiversity, feedback, and the wonderfully messy human side of putting yourself out there.

If you've ever wondered what goes on when the recording light is on and everything goes slightly sideways — this one's for you.

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A year in. What have we learned? More than we expected.

SJ and Pegsy mark one year of Heels in the Hierarchy by revisiting the themes that have resonated most deeply with their listeners: women's health, late and missed diagnoses, neurodivergence, and the systemic barriers that too many women still face at work every single day.

With personal stories, listener responses, and a call for workplaces to move beyond policy and into genuine action, this is a milestone episode that's as forward-looking as it is reflective.

In this episode:

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