Perfectionism Rewired

The Hidden Truth About Arrival Fallacy


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Do your achievements feel hollow? Success not as satisfying as it used to be? You've worked tirelessly to achieve your goals, convinced that reaching them would bring you happiness. But once you get there...the joy is fleeting and you're left wondering "Is this it?" Welcome to the world of arrival fallacy, a perfectionism trap that convinces us overachievers to tie our self-worth to external milestones and go on a miserable never-ending chase of enough. Inside this episode is the solution: Uncovering what's motivating you and that satisfaction is not a box to be checked off.

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Inside This Episode You'll Discover:
00:00:00-Introduction and The Perfectionist's Guide
00:01:10-The Growth of Change vs. Allowing
00:01:59-CLG's Journey 
00:03:20-The Fear Factor
00:04:05-The Danger Zone
00:05:09- Phantom Promise of Moving the Goalposts
00:06:34-The Unconscious Motivation
00:08:01-Arrival Fallacy Examples
00:09:10-The Power of Awareness
00:10:11-Perfectionism Trap
00:11:22-Cracking the Code To Perfectionism
00:12:19-The Change of Allowing
00:14:09-Self Awareness
00:15:01-Why You Deserve Better Professional Fulfillment

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

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