You’ve seen all the different ways people try to understand themselves: MBTI, Enneagram, and even our past episode on attachment styles. But for today’s episode, we’re trying a simple questionnaire said to reveal our true selves (or so it claims): the Proust Questionnaire. 

From gratitude-filled questions about what matters most, to deeper ones about fear, regret, and identity, we use this chance to get to know one another even better (than we already do). Along the way, we ask: is there really only one “true self”, or do different “selves” show up in different contexts? Would our answers have been different in our early 20s? And is there a danger in relying too much on personality tests like these? 

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In a world where almost everything happens online, social mixers & social clubs have been on the rise. But what’s really driving this trend — and do they actually work? 

In this episode, we’re exploring why people are craving more face-to-face interaction, and whether digital connection is no longer enough. We also hear from both a social mixer organiser and a social club founder as they share what it takes to bring people together. Along the way, we ask the big question: can these offline spaces truly lead to meaningful, long-lasting friendships?

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You’ve heard of quiet quitting. But what about “quiet cracking”? In this episode, our hosts unpack the latest workplace trend, where employees show up and perform but quietly struggle under pressure, job uncertainty, and stalled growth. We explore why it’s becoming more common, what it means for employer & employee, and healthier ways to manage these feelings.

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Over the years, NS may have changed, but one thing that has remained constant is the endless stories that come with it. From annoying bunkmates and NS relationships to chaotic encounters and horror stories, the hosts react to the good, the bad, and the downright unbelievable.

In this episode, we also unpack the realities of NS — the challenges, camaraderie, and lessons that come with these two years — while hearing advice from past NSFs on how to make the most out of the experience.

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You’ve seen our Reddit episodes. You’ve seen our relationship episodes. Now, we’re combining both. In this episode, we dive into the wildest relationship stories from Paiseh Questions — the anonymous Telegram channel where people confess what they’d never say out loud. From messy situations to full-on chaos, our hosts react, unpack, and try to make sense of it all.

As the stories get wilder, we also ask: is having an anonymous space like this exactly what we all need — a place to vent, confess, and get advice without revealing who we are?

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After the success of our relationship dilemmas and “this or that” debates, we’re turning the spotlight onto friendships. From the lighthearted moments of the initial friendship to more serious issues years into the friendship like lending money and crossing boundaries, we unpack the messy, morally complicated situations that test loyalty, boundaries, and values. 

Along the way, we ask a tougher question: in these moments, are we judging our friends… or revealing what kind of friend we actually are?

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Why do mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships get such a bad rep, especially when boundaries and “mommy’s boy” dynamics come into play?

In this episode, we unpack what it really takes to maintain a healthy relationship with your in-laws — from first meetings and making a good impression, to navigating expectations after marriage. We explore what defines a healthy in-law relationship, whose responsibility it is to set boundaries, the role your partner plays as the bridge between both sides, and whether tension with your partner’s family is a red flag — or simply part of blending two imperfect family systems.

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TW: This video contains discussion with sensitive content on self-harm and suicide. Viewer discretion is advised.

Is our vocab limited to ‘Cheer up’, ‘Don’t be sad’, and ‘It’s okay’ when trying to be present for a friend? Often, we struggle to be there for someone, even though we really want to and feel like we haven't done much for them. Many of us are unsure about how to support or comfort a friend and have yet to learn the best way to do so. In this episode, we learn to respond to different scenarios, explore better ways to show up for the people we care about, and understand when it might be time to encourage seeking professional help.

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Money can feel confusing — and sometimes even intimidating, especially when you’re just starting out. In this episode, the hosts unpack the small steps Gen Zs & young adults can take to better understand and manage their finances. Joining the discussion is a finance professional from @GXSBank – no jargon, no judgement — just an honest conversation about what financial literacy really looks like.

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In this episode, we explore the culture of overconsumption and trend-driven spending, unpacking why these small purchases bring us so much joy, and why it can be so hard to stop. Are we simply following trends, or is there something deeper driving our urge to collect and consume? We take a closer look at the psychology behind our buying habits and whether it’s possible to strike a healthier balance in today’s consumer culture.

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