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Mentioned episodes:
Managing emotional capacity with Charlotte Goss
Working with me for 1 month - Hannah’s experience
ADHD and business pivots
Why people do the Inner Work with me
Is coaching worth it? Lucy’s take
Episode 149 - the difference between being needy vs having needs to do your best work
In this episode, I discuss:
* Why you might be so easily knocked in business and the role conditional self-worth could be playing without you realising it.
* The hidden cost of caring too much about results, feedback and what other people think, and why it can leave you playing safe, overthinking and second-guessing yourself.
* Why knowing what you actually want makes you harder to f**k with, and how to stop letting the outside world decide what you should want.
* How to stop turning normal business experiences into evidence about who you are, so rejection, criticism and things not working don’t become identity statements.
* What becoming unf*ckwithable actually looks like: less noise, less worrying, more decisiveness, more resilience …and more freedom to build what you actually want.
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In this episode I’m discussing...
* Why we experience disproportionate disappointment in ourselves.
* How unrealistic expectations create unnecessary suffering.
* Recognising “expectation errors” rather than assuming you’re failing.
* Keeping disappointment in perspective.
In this episode I’m delving into…
* Why comfort isn’t always the enemy.
* How to tell whether comfort is restoring you or keeping you stuck.
* The three questions I now ask myself before choosing the comfortable option.
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What I look for in MY clients - 297
What not to do if you fall off the wagon (308)
Work with me
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Related episodes:
203 - the costs of dodging approval
259 - the secret skill to the success you really want
295 - the confidence cost of pedestalling people
103 - People pleasing - be GONE
LINKED EPISODES
Last episode: What happened when I got out of my own way (344)
What happened to my business when I stopped neglecting myself 304
From self neglect to self respect
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Hear my conversation with Jonathan Stark on Ditching Hourly here: https://podcast.ditchinghourly.com/episodes/nikki-cross-the-private-podcast-book-club
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