The Introspective and Hot Podcast w/ Kat Blaque

A controversial post-date voicemail has started a debate about the ethics of casual sex. After the first date didn’t go exactly as planned, the man sent a voice memo saying he wanted sex on the second date, which was apparently supposed to take place at the woman’s house. Some are cheering the message as clear and effective communication, while older women are especially able to read between the lines.

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videos: https://www.tiktok.com/@katblaque/collection/Voice%20memo%20guy-7660325070979615502

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Kat Blaque has been blogging with passion for years. She launched her first YouTube channel in 2005 and has since built an audience of nearly 700,000 subscribers. Kat shares her experiences as a Black, alternative, polyamorous, transgender woman, focusing on content that informs and educates. 

00:00 Introduction

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After his transgender girlfriend came forward, I have to admit, I was wrong about Chud The Builder...

See her original video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mmiW1vm6HS8
Website: https://blaqueinthecity.com
Follow me: https://linktr.ee/katblaque
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Kat Blaque has been blogging with passion for years. She launched her first YouTube channel in 2005 and has since built an audience of nearly 700,000 subscribers. Kat shares her experiences as a Black, alternative, polyamorous, transgender woman, focusing on content that informs and educates. 

00:00 Introduction

Support the show

If you enjoy the podcast, help support it by joining my Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/katblaque

Can you be MAGA and Goth? From Jake Munroe's joker-inspired grift, to crispy Amazon Prime Goths, let's chat about whether or not Goth is political!

PHD Goth's Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SXXrP8zxdF8
The Best Goth/Industrial Events in LA: https://blaqueinthecity.com/2026/05/27/the-best-goth-and-industrial-events-in-la-and-oc-a-guide-for-baby-bats/
The bop house: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JulAIPU0ICs

Website: https://blaqueinthecity.com
Follow me: https://linktr.ee/katblaque
Merch: https://katblaque.store
Booking: [email protected]
Collaboration: [email protected]

Kat Blaque has been blogging with passion for years. She launched her first YouTube channel in 2005 and has since built an audience of nearly 700,000 subscribers. Kat shares her experiences as a Black, alternative, polyamorous, transgender woman, focusing on content that informs and educates. 

00:00 Introduction

Support the show

If you enjoy the podcast, help support it by joining my Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/katblaque

Hip Hop artist YG released a song called "Tiffany" about a trans woman who tricked a man that she met at the club. As a trans Woman, I wanted to break down the problem with YG's newest song. 

Website: https://blaqueinthecity.com
Follow me: https://linktr.ee/katblaque
Merch: https://katblaque.store
Booking: [email protected]
Collaboration: [email protected]

Kat Blaque has been blogging with passion for years. She launched her first YouTube channel in 2005 and has since built an audience of nearly 700,000 subscribers. Kat shares her experiences as a Black, alternative, polyamorous, transgender woman, focusing on content that informs and educates. 


0:00-1:30: Introduction

1:31-6:54: Assumptions About Dominance

6:55-19:28: Reality TV Depictions: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

19:29-31:20: Why Men Suck & How to Move On

31:21-35:31: Transphobia, Misogyny, and Objectification

35:32-45:37: Deception Fantasies as a Shield for Desire

45:38-46:26: Closing Thoughts

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TLC's newest reality TV show has me questioning my life.

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Decolonizing Love has become a central platform for the polycurious, but some of its content feels as if it's doing anything but....

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My perspective as a trans woman who doesn't prefer heterosexual men.

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Sabrina Carpenters newest album cover is certainly causing a bit of controversy, which is the point of course!

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Kanye West and Sneako "accidentally' revealed that they are both into a very controversial fetish and I'm here to explain why so many men are into cuckoldry. 


My Website 
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Patreon
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Become a member for exclusive content
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Merch
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Socials
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♠️ http://www.instagram.com/kat_blaque
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♣️ https://bsky.app/profile/katblaque.bsky.social

Booking: [email protected]
Collaboration: [email protected]

Support the show

If you enjoy the podcast, help support it by joining my Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/katblaque

Based on a previous discussion we had, I thought I'd speak about my desires to have or not have children and how it relates to my transness or doesn't. As an adoptee, I have some pretty strong feelings about adoption and being ready when you have children. I thought I'd share my thoughts on having children and open the question up to my audience. 

Support the show

If you enjoy the podcast, help support it by joining my Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/katblaque