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  • You Don't Have To Die To Be A Legend with Tommy Breedlove - Episode 232

    Legendary! You don’t have to wait for it, because we got it right here. This is the legendary episode where we talk about lasting legacies and the ultimate power we have. You will be surprised how much of it starts with yourself.


    Tommy is a former corporate executive who was at the top of his game. One day he woke up in a ditch in downtown LA and realized the costs of his lifestyle and career. He walked away and turned to his true calling, guiding others on how to live a Legendary Life. Tommy goes all the way back to almost being incarcerated for 7 years, getting lucky, taking all that experience and showing that we can live our best life now.

    We all have a finite amount of days. In this episode, we share the principles and values that allow us to live life in alignment and what is most important to us. Being a better husband, friend, father, and overall making life better is our purpose. While Tommy shares how death is a gift, we delve further into creating a lasting legacy while we are alive. We talk about life- changing pain, the stories we tell ourselves and the choices we make.

    The good news is no matter how difficult life has been for us, we can always reprogram. Your legendary story can begin right now with all the actions you choose to take.


    In this episode you will learn about

    12:03 - Breaking the habit of outworking everybody

    14:40 - Finding fulfillment through pain

    19:49 - Can we change without hitting rock bottom?

    21:16 - Making a choice to do inner work

    23:10 - The Power of Choice

    27:10 - The Power of Story

    30:10 - The stories we tell ourselves

    35:16 - The Super Dumb-Intelligent Quadrant

    40:36 - Add an hour a day of positivity

    44:09 - Participate in your own rescue

    52:27 - Legacy and the betterment of life

    58:20 - Legendary and starting with yourself


    Book Reference (Books mentioned):

    https://tommybreedlove.com/get-inspired/book-legendary/


    Connect with Lyrics & Lattes on:

    Websites: 

    www.lifehackmethod.com

    https://tommybreedlove.com/

    Instagram: @tommybreedlove


    Connect with Ian Lobas & the Men on Purpose podcast:

    Website: https://ianlobas.com/podcast/


    Join the Men on Purpose Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/themenonpurposecommunity


    Connect with us on social media:

    https://www.instagram.com/menonpurposepodcast/

    https://www.facebook.com/MenOnPurposePodcast/

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianrlobas/


    Want to watch this and other awesome interviews? Check out our YouTube channel!


    #legendary

    #legacy

    #choice

    1 hr 3 min
  • Being the Best at Everything You Do with Raul Villacis - Episode 231

    In order for you to be the best that you can be, who must you serve first? In this episode, Raul Villacis joins host Ian Lobas to help you discover how to be the best at everything that you do. You will find out how to commit to results, fall in love with the journey and become the needed leader and role model for the people that matter most.

    Raul began his journey as an entrepreneur at the age of 23 when he started his own real estate company, The Next Level Real Estate. By the time he was 30, his real estate company became the largest latino-owned real estate investment firm in Connecticut, with over 150 employees.

    In 2008, the real estate market collapse led to devastating effects on both Raul and his company. Through the chaos of the tribulations feeling discouraged, unrelatable, and overwhelmed, he found the inspiration to start the Next Level Experience. He began his journey to personal re-discovery, turned his life around and invested thousands in personal coaching. He began to practice active meditation and dedicated himself to the relationships with his wife and children.

    If you’ve always wanted to learn more about finding self love so you can be at your best, avoiding the dark and following your own leading light, and the three types of men, then this episode is for you.

    As soon as you’re done listening to this episode, be sure to check out our other incredible shows on real estate investing, including Being Versus Doing and Next Level Authentic


    In this episode you will learn about

    4:18 - The Model of Alignment and Intregrity

    7:05 - Reliving The Moment

    8:32 - Operating From a Place of Never-Ending

    11:26 - Finding Self Love So You Can Be At Your Best

    14:46 - The Light and the Darkness

    23:18 - The Three Types of Men

    29:09 - How to Become a Leader by Embracing the Edge Culture


    Connect with Raul Villacis on:

    Website: https://raulvillacis.com

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/RaultheEDGE?s=20

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raultheedge/?hl=en

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RaulTheEDGE

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/raulvillacis/


    Connect with Ian Lobas & the Men on Purpose podcast:

    Website: https://ianlobas.com/podcast/


    Join the Men on Purpose Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/themenonpurposecommunity


    Connect with us on social media:

    https://www.instagram.com/menonpurposepodcast/

    https://www.facebook.com/MenOnPurposePodcast/

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianrlobas/


    Want to watch this and other awesome interviews? Check out our YouTube channel!

    39 min
  • Confidence, Clarity, Compassion: Always Bet On You with Andrew Undem - Episode 230

    Would you say that having a goal is more important than having a plan? In this episode, Andrew Undem joins host Ian Lobas to help you build a goal oriented mindset and rise above your own limitations. You will find out how to dial in a surefire formula and achieve financial freedom through real estate sales.

    Andrew owns and operates the #1 real estate sales team in the state of Maryland, SURE Group, which was acquired by Berkshire Hathaway Homeservices Homesale Realty in September 2020.

    SURE GROUP was ranked in the top 100 real estate sales teams in the nation three years in a row by Real Trends and The Wall Street Journal, selling over $150 million in sales and over 500 transactions annually.

    If you’ve always wanted to learn about overcoming the pain points of real estate sales, and taking the lead with a good model for employee retention, this episode is for you.

    As soon as you’re done listening to this episode, be sure to check out our other incredible shows on real estate investing, including Corporate Corner Office to Shopping Center Investment Expert and Eliminating Distractions to Calibrate Your Purpose.


    In this episode you will learn about

    0:00 - Why Everyone Should Start Working at a Luxury Car Dealership After College

    7:39 - Overcoming the Pain Points of Sales

    13:15 - The Advantages to Preparing to Become a Millionaire

    12:52 - The Abundance Mindset

    30:42 - A Model for Good Employee Retention


    Connect with Andrew Undem on:

    Website: https://www.suresalesgroup.com

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/andrewundem?lang=en

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/undem/?hl=en

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SUREBALTIMORE/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrew-undem-95872320/


    Connect with Ian Lobas & the Men on Purpose podcast:

    Website: https://ianlobas.com/podcast/

    Join the Men on Purpose Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/themenonpurposecommunity

    Connect with us on social media:

    https://www.instagram.com/menonpurposepodcast/

    https://www.facebook.com/MenOnPurposePodcast/

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianrlobas/

    Want to watch this and other awesome interviews? Check out our YouTube channel!


    #Sales #GoalMindset #GoalSetting

    1 hr 3 min
  • The ADHD Advantage with Dr. Shirag Shemmassian - Episode 229

    In this episode, Shirag Shemmassian joins host Ian Lobas to explore the minds of those who are diagnosed with ADHD. Let’s discover how the disadvantages of ADHD can be turned around as an advantage towards the daily struggles in modern society.

    Dr. Shemmassian is the Founder of Shemmassian Academic Consulting and one of the world’s foremost experts on medical school admissions, college admissions, and graduate school admissions. For nearly 20 years, he and his team have helped thousands of students get into medical school and top colleges using his systematic and proprietary approach.

    Dr. Shemmassian’s admissions expertise has been featured in various media outlets, including The Washington Post and Business Insider. Moreover, he has been invited to speak at Yale, Stanford, UC Berkeley, and other prestigious institutions about various aspects of the admissions process.

    By joining Shirag, you will learn the in-depth meaning of ADHD, how early you can diagnose it, and how someone with ADHD can still learn new things.

    As soon as your adventure in this episode is done, be sure to check out our other incredible shows on being the best version of you, including Living Your Legacy Now and Finding Your Lifelong Passion.


    Connect with Shirag Shemmassian on:

    Website: https://www.shemmassianconsulting.com

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/shemmassian?lang=en

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shiragshemmassian/?hl=en

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shemmassian/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shemmassian/


    Connect with Ian Lobas & the Men on Purpose podcast:

    Website: https://ianlobas.com/podcast/

    Join the Men on Purpose Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/themenonpurposecommunity

    Connect with us on social media:

    https://www.instagram.com/menonpurposepodcast/

    https://www.facebook.com/MenOnPurposePodcast/

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianrlobas/

    Want to watch this and other awesome interviews? Check out our YouTube channel!


    #managingADHD #ADHDstruggles #schooladmission

    1 hr 11 min
  • Corporate Corner Office to Shopping Center Investment Expert with Gene Parkers - Episode 228

    How do you make investment decisions?

    Step by step, Gene walks us through his expert formula to help you create your life and freedom through shopping center investing. If you’re hoping to find the courage to follow your heart, this is the episode for you. Gene Parker joins host Ian Lobas to share how he used his experience and expertise in commercial investing to quit his corporate job to pursue his dream of being his own boss. By starting his own business, helping people learn about investing in commercial real estate, he is making an impact on the lives of others. Step by step, Gene walks us through his expert formula, which is designed to help you create financial freedom through shopping center investing.

    Gene shares how he used his experience and expertise in commercial investing to quit his corporate job to pursue his dream of being his own boss.

    Gene spent 26 years with Continental Realty Corporation (CRC), starting in January 1993. CRC owns and operates shopping centers and multifamily apartments throughout the Mid-Atlantic and Southeast U.S., with more than $2B in assets and 300 employees. During his time at CRC, he held positions including Director, VP, SVP, EVP/COO, and President, for 10 years. While at CRC, Gene was directly involved in raising over $450M for three real estate private equity funds then invested into multifamily and retail properties throughout the mid-Atlantic and southeast U.S.

    As soon as you’re done watching, be sure to check out our other incredible shows on leaving a legacy and discovering your true calling, including Living Your Legacy Now and Finding Your Lifelong Passion.


    Book Mentioned: Good to Great by Jim Collins


    Connect with Gene Parker on:

    Website: www.parkeradvisoryusa.com

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/genepparker

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/geneparkerjr

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/parkeradvisor/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genecparker/


    Connect with Ian Lobas & the Men on Purpose podcast:

    Website: https://ianlobas.com/podcast/

    Join the Men on Purpose Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/themenonpurposecommunity

    Connect with us on social media:

    https://www.instagram.com/menonpurposepodcast/

    https://www.facebook.com/MenOnPurposePodcast/

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianrlobas/

    Want to watch this and other awesome interviews? Check out our YouTube channel!


    #commercialrealestate #investmentformula #retailpropertyinvestment

    1 hr 18 min
  • Being Versus Doing with Eric Rogell - Episode 227

    Let’s discover why being the man you need to be is better than merely doing what needs to be done. In this episode, Eric Rogell joins host Ian Lobas to bring us back into the perspective that matters most, the view from our hearts.

    As a men’s lifestyle journalist Eric traveled around the world writing about gear, gadgets, style, food, drink, cars, and adventure travel for many major publications.

    He has hiked the Ma′unga Terevaka volcano on Easter Island, driven race cars on some of the most noted tracks in the country, and threw back shots of Jagermeister suspended 150-feet above the crowd at the Wacken Open Air heavy metal festival in Germany.

    For over a decade, Eric has interviewed hundreds of men—from celebrities, to athletes, to entrepreneurs, to military vets—getting them to dive deep into their stories of what made them the men they are today.

    By joining Eric, you embark on a mission to tap back into your inner Wild Man by reconnecting with nature on unforgettable adventure experiences. While getting the strategies you need to perform at your highest level, step into greatness as leaders, and forge deeper connections as husbands and fathers.

    As soon as your adventure in this episode is done, be sure to check out our other incredible shows on being the best version of you, including Living Your Legacy Now and Finding Your Lifelong Passion.


    In this episode you will learn about

    5:05 - Being Raised in Fear and Anxiety

    11:10 - What Does it Mean to Be a Man?

    15:29 - How Many Men See Themselves Differently than Others See Them?

    32:17 - The Seven Sacred Core Values

    53:09 - The Four Questions


    Connect with Eric Rogell on:

    Website: https://www.ericrogell.com

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/ericrogell

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ericrogell

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ericrogell.podcast/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ericrogell/


    Connect with Ian Lobas & the Men on Purpose podcast:

    Website: https://ianlobas.com/podcast/

    Join the Men on Purpose Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/themenonpurposecommunity

    Connect with us on social media:

    https://www.instagram.com/menonpurposepodcast/

    https://www.facebook.com/MenOnPurposePodcast/

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianrlobas/

    Want to watch this and other awesome interviews? Check out our YouTube channel!

    1 hr 5 min
  • Breaking the Money Hierarchy with Jonathan DeYoe - Episode 226

    The money hierarchy has snuck up on us in this day and age, and we need to discuss why we need to guide the next generation and upgrade their level of awareness to it. In this episode, Jonathan DeYoe joins host Ian Lobas to enlighten us with crucial knowledge on how identity is viewed today.

    Jonathan started as a Financial Advisor in a Wall Street firm in 1996 - right out of graduate school. Jonathan started DeYoe Wealth Management in 2001 to simplify personal finance and help busy people live meaningful lives. Their dedication to first class service, the commitment to evidence-based investing, and a client first philosophy have placed their firm in a category by itself.

    Financial planning is not about money and the real benefits of financial planning are not financial. At its best, financial planning is about building futures, protecting families, creating legacies and encouraging clients to pursue their passions. Jonathan does his best work in the place where love and money overlap.

    Investment success is determined more by choices than by market and economic data. They have created a comprehensive ecosystem of advice to simplify decisions, reduce anxiety and empower clients to stay true to both their life-purpose and the financial plan that they have designed together.

    When you’re done listening, be sure to check out our other amazing shows on building a meaningful legacy, including Living Your Legacy Now and Finding Your Lifelong Passion.


    In this episode, you will learn about

    6:41 - A Relationship with Money

    12:08 - Behavioral Psychology

    16:00 - Finding Your Identity

    25:51 - The Generational Financial Transition

    45:53 - Turning the Tension Around

    Book Mentioned:

    Mindful Money by Jonathan DeYoe

    Connect with Jonathan DeYoe on:

    Website: https://mindful.money

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/DeYoeWealth

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mindfulmoneyplan

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DeYoeWealth/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonathandeyoe/

    Connect with Ian Lobas & the Men on Purpose podcast:

    Website: https://ianlobas.com/podcast/

    Join the Men on Purpose Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/themenonpurposecommunity

    Connect with us on social media:

    https://www.instagram.com/menonpurposepodcast/

    https://www.facebook.com/MenOnPurposePodcast/

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianrlobas/

    Want to watch this and other awesome interviews? Check out our YouTube channel!

    1 hr 4 min
  • Next Level Authentic with Alan Lazaros - Episode 225

    Has anything happened in your life that rocked you to the core and dramatically changed how you view everything? In this episode, Alan Lazaros joins host Ian Lobas to present his outlook on life and the choices that impact every single thing around it.

    After being involved in a nearly fatal car accident, Alan questioned everything.  His father passed away in a car accident at age 28 when he was only 2.  This really shook him up...  He asked himself, “Did I live a life true to myself? How courageously did I fight for what I believe in? How fiercely did I love?”  Not liking his answers, he decided to change forever. Today, Alan’s a professional speaker, business coach and consultant, and the host of The Next Level University Podcast.

    Between speaking, podcasting, coaching and consulting, Alan's invested thousands of hours inspiring, motivating and educating others on how to become more successful on their own terms.  Alan believes life's about choices.  He grew up hearing stories about his father, and he can tell you from experience that how you die isn’t going to matter.  What matters is how you choose to live.

    When you’re done listening, be sure to check out our other amazing shows on choosing a perspective that serves and fulfills you, including Episode 219 and Episode 214.


    In this episode you will learn about

    5:16 - How Your Life Can Change

    20:02 - Why Going Big is Good For You

    33:00 - Finding a Framework that Changes the Game

    40:00 - Rock Bottom Doesn’t Have to Be the Reason for Change


    Notable quotes:

    6:25 - “If you’re a CEO and you aim high, you can wake up one day and decide to be a farmer, but you can’t necessarily flip the switch the other way around” - Alan Lazaros

    6:54 - “What choices you make today, are going to make your tomorrow”. - Alan Lazaros

    13:54 - “You cannot see the stars during the day. They’re always there, but sometimes it takes the darkness to see clearly what you simply could not within the light”. - Alan Lazaros

    24:51 - “In every moment, you have a choice”. - Ian Lobas

    32:52 - “Take the great, evolve the rest”. - Ian Lobas

    46:33 - “You do not have to hit rock bottom in order to improve, you just have to be proactive”.

    51:59 - “Make the choices to advance yourself, 1% every day”. - Ian Lobas

    55:54 - “Life is about choices, the choice of what to say and not to say.” - Alan Lazaros


    Book Mentioned:

    The Top 5 Regrets of the Dying by Bronnie Ware

    Connect with Alan Lazaros on:

    Website: https://nextleveluniverse.com

    Twitter: @alazaros

    Instagram: @alazaros88

    Facebook: @alanlazarosllc

    LinkedIn: @alanlazarosllc


    Connect with Ian Lobas & the Men on Purpose podcast:

    Website: https://ianlobas.com/podcast/

    Join the Men on Purpose Community:

    @themenonpurposecommunity

    Connect with us on social media:

    Instagram: @menonpurposepodcast

    Facebook: @MenOnPurposePodcast

    LinkedIn: @ianrlobas

    Want to watch this and other awesome interviews? Check out our YouTube channel!

    58 min
  • Play to Win with Tom Fairey - Episode 224

    What’s your version of success? Are you willing to go all in to get it?

    In this episode, Tom Fairey joins host Ian Lobas to share what he has learned over the years about business and life. Tom is a great example of how a super-competitive nature makes everything possible. He left his “vanilla” lifestyle on a little island in the UK and moved to the city where he worked for 15 years..

    Tom is the founder of Stakester, which he started with almost no money, no coding experience and having never worked in gaming or even owning a PlayStation. Stakester is an entertainment platform that gives gamers a platform to add monetary pride to the online gaming experience. Through proprietary technology, Stakester acts as the third partner in gaming challenges to ensure payouts are handled correctly.

    Less than three years later it’s the fastest growing competition platform on the planet, having raised over 5 million bucks. The company is worth over $70 million today.

    Tom and Ian discuss the distinction between success and happiness, noting that happiness is fleeting yet it isn’t wise to chase a perception of success only to be unhappy. After all, as they point out, the universe is going to reward you when you remove distractions from your life.

    When you’re done listening, be sure to check out our other amazing shows on believing anything is possible, including Dig to Fly and Limitless Possibilities.


    In this episode you will learn about

    8:28 - How to know if you’re staying in a specific job too long

    10:00 - The truth about happiness

    27:28 - Limitless possibilities

    29:35 - How to go all in

    41:03 - The force factor


    Book Mentioned:

    Greenlights by Matthew McConaughey

    Connect with Tom Fairey on:

    Website: https://www.stakester.com/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/backyourselfpod

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/backyourselfshow/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tom.fairey.399

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thomasfairey/


    Connect with Ian Lobas & the Men on Purpose podcast:

    Website: https://ianlobas.com/podcast/

    Join the Men on Purpose Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/themenonpurposecommunity

    Connect with us on social media:

    https://www.instagram.com/menonpurposepodcast/

    https://www.facebook.com/MenOnPurposePodcast/

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianrlobas/

    Want to watch this and other awesome interviews? Check out our YouTube channel!

    1 hr 11 min
  • The Secret To Purposeful, Powerful Partnerships with Ian & Meredith Lobas - Episode 223

    Do you make a conscious choice to check in with yourself and your partner regularly? The truth is that every day you wake up, you get to decide how you handle the stress and pressure brought on by events in your day or by your relationship.

    In this episode, the entrepreneurial husband and wife team of Ian and Meredith Lobas share the secrets of their partnership. They point out that communication is key and we need to be vulnerable without making our own meaning of things that happen. Although it might be hard to surrender to what’s to come without a Plan B, this is a crucial test of trust.

    Ian and Meredith also advise individuals to be honest and accountable with themselves and blame no one but yourself for your successes and failures. After all, you have to put all the chips on you and bet on yourself. They remind listeners that it is best to focus your energy on trust and faith, rather than blame and anger, bearing in mind that you will attract what you focus on.

    There are tons of valuable tips in this episode, including the importance of giving yourself grace and learning one thing today to make tomorrow better. Ian and Meredith also warn that if your partner isn’t willing to trust and grow with you, if they cannot take a leap and trust in challenging themselves, it will hold you back, yet you must allow your partner to work through things at their pace in their own way, as long as they are committed.

    At the end of the episode listen for your challenge: think back to the things that you felt helped you as a couple, like communication or surrender or faith and trust or genuine curiosity about learning. Make a list of all the things that were mentioned in the conversation and then review.

    When you’re done listening, be sure to check out our other amazing shows with Ian & Meredith Lobas, including Supporting the Growth of a Vision and The Ins & Outs of an Entrepreneurial Family on Purpose.


    In this episode you will learn about

    25:17 - How to stress test your relationship

    46:00 - The value of a good mentor

    41:42 - Why it’s important to check in with yourself

    44:25 - The power of faith and trust

    46:00 - The importance of choosing the right mentor

    47:34 - Why growth is important in a relationship

    50:03 - People grow differently

    1:01:19 - How surrender allows the universe to open doors for you


    Connect with Ian Lobas & the Men on Purpose podcast:

    Website: https://ianlobas.com/podcast/

    Join the Men on Purpose Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/themenonpurposecommunity

    Connect with us on social media:

    https://www.instagram.com/menonpurposepodcast/

    https://www.facebook.com/MenOnPurposePodcast/

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianrlobas/

    Want to watch this and other awesome interviews? Check out our YouTube channel!

    1 hr 9 min

About The Irreplaceable Man Podcast

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Welcome to The Irreplaceable Man Podcast, where we believe that every man has the potential to become the irreplaceable man and husband that he knows he is capable of being - and the one that his wife would never want to leave.