If you are a nitpicker, passive aggressive and certified people pleaser, chances are that you too are operating from wounded feminine energy.
On top of that, I, like many of us, did not have healthy masculine energy as an example growing up (father, abusive ex boyfriends, etc). This leads to a distrust in the masculine energy, which leads to mainly operating from wounded masculine energy (control, hyper-independence etc) which then also wounds the feminine energy, because we don't have the healthy basis of flowing, being receptive and in surrender.