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This transcript with our Jameson Files host Carrie Webber has been lightly edited for flow. To enjoy the audio, you can watch on YouTube or listen to our podcast on iTunes, Google Play, or Spotify.
Carrie:
Welcome to the Jameson Files. I'm your host, Carrie Webber, and it's always so great to be with the Jameson community introducing you to amazing people in our profession that are doing amazing things for dentists and teams. I'm really happy to have Geri Gottlieb on my podcast today. Geri, if you don't know Geri and, and her company, GG Practice Coaching and Development.... Did I get it right, Geri?
Geri Gottlieb:
You did.
Carrie:
…she's doing amazing things and has been in the dental industry for, goodness, almost 30 years.
Geri Gottlieb:
32
Carrie:
Over 30 years. So doing great things throughout that history.
Geri Gottlieb:
Started in ortho.
Carrie:
Oh, wow. So, this is a woman that if you don't know this person, you need to know this person, if for nothing else, then if you need a good dose of energy in your life, Geri's the person to bring it to you. So, Geri, thank you for being with me today. I appreciate you.
Geri Gottlieb:
My pleasure. My pleasure. As soon as I got the invitation, I said, of course, I would spend time with Carrie. You kidding?
Carrie:
I have a feeling this conversation may go off the rails at least three times, but I'm gonna love every minute of it.
Geri Gottlieb:
Exactly.
Geri Gottlieb’s Beginning in Dentistry
Carrie:
So obviously I need to learn a little bit more about your story into dentistry, too. So let's start there. Tell me a little bit about how you started, how you found yourself where you are today. I'm sure there's a lot of interesting stuff in that journey.
Geri Gottlieb:
So, I was recruited into my first dental practice, which was an ortho practice, while I was in college pursuing a degree in psychology with a minor in music.
Carrie:
Oh my gosh.
Geri Gottlieb:
I know Miss. Singer, we're twins, like, we're spirits.
Carrie:
Okay, keep going.
Geri Gottlieb:
So I was, and I was working full-time for Macy's. It wasn't Macy's at the time. So I'm from Seattle area, and at the time it was actually called the Bon Marché, and then Macy's bought them out. But I was managing a Clinique cosmetic counter and going to school, and one day I was helping a gentleman with skincare products, and he said, “I want you to come work for me.” And I said, “What do you do?” And he said, “Well, I'm a dentist.” And do you know that little Christmas story cartoon thing where the little elves and the one little elf that wants to be the dentist? And then he says that at the table and everybody goes, “Ah dentist!”
This is what's happening in my brain. And I'm like, I have teeth. I go to the dentist. Never, never had it ever been a thought in my brain of possible career choices or jobs that I would look to have. And he said “You know, I’m an orthodontist and I'm opening a practice, and I could train you on to be an assistant and everything. I could train you to do everything I need you to do, but I can't train you to be you.”
And I thought, well, I gotta really think about this. And I was newly married at the time, and I said, “Well, tell me a little bit more.” And he told me to come visit the practice, kick the tires, see what it's like. Here's what I knew. They worked four days a week, no evenings or weekends. And my whole life, and even going to school, I was working in retail, and working that evenings and weekends and holidays. So for me, I was like, “Oh, yeah.”
Carrie:
This sounds cushy.
Geri Gottlieb:
And he said, “You could still finish school. Work around it.” And I was like, “Okay.” Long story short, I started off as an assistant. A couple of really unexpected things happened, Carrie. One is I fell in love with dentistry. I fell in love with watching people's lives change. Countenances change. I fell in love with having relationships with patients that were coming in and then seeing them again. Team–I'd never really done team sports or things like that–so I was loving that aspect of it.
About six months in, I don't know where it was. It is 32 years ago now. So it could have been six weeks, it could have been six months. But at some point this doctor says to me, “Geri, do you have a few minutes after work today or tomorrow, whatever, to sit down? And I'd like to talk about how it's going.” So basically a review. And I was like, “Yeah, of course.” And so we sit down and he said, “How do you think it's going?” And I started just jabbering on about all the things I think are so great and that I love, and I love being there. And he said, “And we love having you here, and assisting is not your gift.”
Carrie:
Okay.
Geri Gottlieb:
And so I thought like, “Oh, I'm getting fired. Okay, well, we tried it, you know? Whatever.” And he said, “But if you're willing, would you consider the role of treatment coordinator?”
Carrie:
Oh, wow.
Geri Gottlieb:
It turns out I was really good at that. So I said, “ Of course.”
Fast forward, then I became a practice manager, went on to work in other practices and then other disciplines in dentistry. But perio didn't come into the picture until my 21st year in dentistry at that point. So, you know, I continued my education, but I also dove into dentistry. I loved everything about it. And I was pretty fortunate to get to work with, and in, practices that truly were about continuing education, growing and developing people, which was right up my alley because my degree in psychology was meant to be child development.
I wanted to work with teenage and preteen girls, because I really just wanted to help. Back when I decided that's what I was going to do at 18, it was how can we work together better? Why do we have to compete with each other? Why aren't we just working together on things and helping each other have better lives and be better? So I thought, well, I'll catch 'em when they're young and try them through high school and get them, you know, whatever.
Carrie:
I'll fix this early.
How Geri Became Involved in Dental Coaching
Geri Gottlieb:
So fast forward, I'm in practice management, you know, over in practice administration– big practices, little practices–and I was divorced with two little girls and was a part of the Seattle Study Club with one of the practices I was managing. We were Seattle Study Club members, and it was through the Seattle Study Club that I met my periodontist husband.
And I did not work for him or them. I wasn't their coach. We met through the Seattle Study Club, and I had already started my journey into coaching. And at the same time, Carrie, I had gone back to school to get a master's in psychology. Because I thought I had to leave dentistry. I thought, I, as a single mom, was gonna raise these two girls. I wanted them to go to college. I wanted them to not have to work through college and those sorts of things. So I thought, well, I’ve got to do some more things.
Which is sort of right at the same time as when I started going into consulting coaching. I was going to school and one of my mentors said to me, “What are you going to do with it? What are you going to do with that mask? Are you leaving dentistry, an industry that you know and love?” And I was like, “I don't, oh, I don't know.” And she said, “Why can't you do what you want to do in the industry that you already know and love?”
So that's how I stepped into the consulting and coaching arena. I proxy got into the perio, and I actually never worked in the practices.
Carrie:
Oh, wow!
Geri Gottlieb:
I coached the leadership team of those practices, but I never actually worked in them.
Carrie:
I think your story is so fascinating from the perspective of that orthodontist. All of us that teach doctors on building a strong team, and hiring, and also leading a team, he checked all the boxes. He found a person who didn't have dental experience, but had the potential or had the characteristics that would make a tremendous team member in the culture of their practice.
And then you weren't in the right seat, and he saw that. So he had the right team member on the bus, but in the wrong seat. And he put you in the right seat, and the rest is history. That's a pretty phenomenal story. I'm sure you share that story a lot with teams and doctors, because that's the ticket right there. If doctors can have this “aha” moment as a business owner of, “hire the talent, make room to train talent in your culture and in your practice, and then have this awareness of the talent on your team, and make sure you have the right people in the right places so that everyone can thrive.” I mean, you're the story.
How Being a Business Owner Affected Geri’s Coaching
Geri Gottlieb:
Correct. Right. And actually then stepping out– so practice management, and thinking then I'm going to be a consultant. I know all the things. I'm real, I'm good. Look at me. I'm really good at all the things too, by the way. And when I stepped into ownership shoes, it was like a gut punch and all this awareness that I had no idea what I didn't know, and how hard it is to be the practice owner, the dentist, and be a great leader, and a great practitioner, and, and, and….
So between what you just said, Carrie and my own stepping into those shoes and seeing it from this 10,000 foot view as well as having been on the ground, I've gotta help not just build leadership teams, like it was done for me. But even more than that to help teams develop and be so strong around their doctor owners that we don't even know who that boss is.
Carrie:
Yes. Yes.
Geri Gottlieb:
Because I had had that.
Carrie: