The Jar Podcast | Marriage Counseling, Healthy Communication, Conflict Resolution, Rebuild Trust

The Jar Podcast | Marriage Counseling, Healthy Communication, Conflict Resolution, Rebuild Trust

By Lydia Santos - Christian Wife Coach, Marriage Ministry Leader, BoymomSociety & CultureRelationships
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The Jar Podcast | Marriage Counseling, Healthy Communication, Conflict Resolution, Rebuild Trust episodes

  • #16.1 Lessons Learned in My Marriage w/ an EXTRA Special Guest
    Yep! You probably guessed correctly: my husband is my special guest, and we are spilling all the beans on what we've learned in our dozen years of marriage.
    As we crossed the 12 year mark this month, we looked back and remembered all God's done and some lessons we've learned along the way--lessons from the good, bad, and the ugly. And we sure have been through some "uuuuglay" (She's the Man reference). IYKYK
    Tune in to Part 1 to laugh with us and hear the hope we found!
    Loads of Love,
    Lydia
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    19 min
  • #15 How to Minimize the Sting of Your Husband’s Words and Believe What God Says About You
    Ouch. The words your spouse just said stung. Or maybe it’s something a parent or childhood bully said to you years ago, and you can still feel that pain now. What if you were able to lessen the sting, to confidently forgive those hurtful words, and to resolve conflict because you know who you are and Whose you are... because what He says matters more, and His words hold more weight?
    Tune in today to hear how to minimize the effects of someone's harsh words and turn to God's Word for comfort and healing those wounds with what He says, because His words about you mean MORE!
    Loads of Love,
    Lydia
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    21 min
  • #14 How Do You Handle Conflicts in Your Marriage? You Have a CHOICE to Make!
    Tired of the blame game? Feeling like a victim during conflicts? Ever find yourself saying things like “You make me feel mad every time you...”? 
    Listen, Linda, we have a CHOICE in how we feel and in how we respond to someone in a conflict that either helps us resolve the conflict or makes it worse. Let’s start owning our part and see how the Lord brings unity and understanding to our relationships when we do!
    Come gain insight and get some TOOLS to help you resolve conflicts in a God-honoring way.
    Loads of Love,
    Lydia
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    23 min
  • #13 Pouring from an Empty Cup? How to RESET Your Motherhood w/ Guest: Karissa Barber

    Mamas, we’ve all been there, or you ARE there: as you sweep Cheerios off the floor for the hundredth time today the thought crosses your mind, “Who am I now?” You pass by your reflection in a mirror and roll your eyes as you tighten your mom bun back up to the top of your head where it belongs. “How did I go from actress/ athlete/ CEO... to glorified butt wiper??” 


    The Acting Mom, Karissa Barber, is on the show today to share how she went from a post-adoption depression fog to a mama on a mission to help others! Tune in for some truth, a good laugh, and tons of encouragement. Follow her on IG @theactingmom and sign up for her course @ motherhoodreset.com!


    Loads of Love,

    Lydia

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    33 min
  • #12 Tired of Arguing with Your Spouse? How YOU Might Be Making It Worse...
    Ever feel like no matter what you say, your conversations with your spouse/ family member/ coworker turn into arguments or disagreements? You might not have started it, but you may be unintentionally contributing to the conflict instead of resolving it. 
    Listen in, Linda, and jot down some notes today as we dive into how to have a better communication habit that diffuses an argument instead of making it worse.
    Notes from NonViolent Communication by Marshall B. Rosenberg
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    22 min
  • # 11 Feeling Defeated, Weary, and Discouraged? Try THIS One Thing...

    Quit pickin' yourself up by your bootstraps. Let go of trying to control your pain, pretending it doesn't exist, or thinking you can fix yourself. You've tried in your own strength for so long that it's left you weary, filled with doubt, and suppressing any ounce of hope left. 

    Good news is: Hope has found you. He is kneeling down right in front of you and asking you, "Do you want to be healed?" 

    What's your answer?

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    20 min
  • #10 Hiding in Shame After Sinning in Your Marriage? Jesus Meets You Where You Are
    Running and hiding has been the human response to pain, shame, guilt, and grief ever since Adam and Eve. Isolating in our pain and inability to be vulnerable leads to staying stuck. But El Roi, The God Who Sees, sees every bit of what we are trying to avoid or hide. And He has healing and wholeness in store for those that honestly and humbly bring our brokenness to Him.                                                                                                     
    Loads of Love,
    Lydia
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    21 min
  • #9 How Do You Keep God First in Your Marriage? It’s Time to Identify, Dismantle, and Replace Idols
    When asked about priorities, most people say, “God. Family. Friends. Job.” But according to Timothy Keller, “The true god of your heart is what your thoughts effortlessly go to when there is nothing else demanding your attention.” Can you still say God is first? What good (or bad) things have moved from good to “god” of your life? How do we dethrone them? Listen, Linda, we need to “wake up & pay attention” (Sister Act, anyone?). It’s time to put God back where He belongs: FIRST, ONLY, & ULTIMATE God of our hearts. 
    Loads of Love,
    Lydia
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    20 min
  • #8 Overcome Shame & Reclaim Your Identity in Christ w/ guest Dub Jones

    Are we on two different planets?! Ugh. Miscommunication in marriage can be so frustrating, right? How about more serious issues like pain and shame that make reconciliation in marriage that much harder? WWJD? (Does that age me? Ha!) For real, though, what does Jesus’ example empower you as a wife or SO to do? How does forgiving others heal YOU?? Girl, this special episode with my guest, my former counselor, is filled with biblical truths that will encourage you and challenge you.  


    ((*Side note, toward the end I mention “Elijah and the dry bones,” and it was totally Ezekiel. Don’t mind me.))  

    You can find Dub Jones at https://libertyalliancegroup.com/   


    Loads of Love,

    Lydia

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    30 min
  • #7 Do You Want to Grow Spiritually? How to Stay Rooted in Christ (Part 2)
    What would you do if a tornado or a hurricane was headed your way? You’d follow your emergency plan! Do you have an *spiritual* emergency plan? When life falls apart, what’s going to get your through it? Come listen to how being rooted in Christ can help you weather the storms of life. 
    Loads of Love,
    Lydia
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    14 min

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