We all experience jealousy and feel it on a spectrum: learn how to manage it with relationship-building expert Dr Joli Hamilton.

3:00 different relationship styles 

6:00 why call it CNM instead of ENM 

14:00 what purposes does jealousy serve?

18:00 people don’t like identifying they are jealous - feeling shame about feeling jealous

19:00 how mismanaged jealousy can do great harm

24:00 how do I ask to open up an existing relationship? 

29:00 I hate my partner’s partner - what to do?

38:00 how to own your jealousy

48:00 germophobes and sharing

52:00 celebrities who can’t be open

55:00 polyamorous and parenting rights?

1:00:00 stories can be helpful

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