In this post, I talk about how women should deal with emotionally unavailable men. Spoiler alert… as usual, it all goes back to the alpha male mentality. My specific answer, however, may surprise you.

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Today we are talking about how to connect with an emotionally unavailable man, this one's for the ladies mostly. But men, you might want to listen to this as well, because this is going to give you some really good information about what women are dealing with. And kind of just like the general state of being for a lot of women, when it comes to trying to deal with men on the dating marketplace. I'm not gonna lie to you. If there has never been a better time to be a man. Do you want to know why? Is because there's no competition. Now, this is very good news for men who want to embrace the alpha mentality and win. This is very bad news for women who want to have a great dating life, date man, and have a good time doing it. A lot of women have a bad time dating. That's just straight facts. The men who are really good at dating tend to have a really good time. Because, like I said, there's no competition. It is literally like, like once you learn the alpha mentality, you stand out so powerfully from all of the other men in the world who don't embrace the alpha mentality. But for women, this is a little bit different. Women who embrace the alpha mentality still sometimes struggle with just finding high value men to spend time with right now, in a way this is natural, right?

In this post, I react to some Facebook comments where a woman was bragging about her husband doing homework. Lot’s of good stuff in here! Give it a listen.

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I basically I have a friend who shares a lot of interesting posts, and she shared a post about, well, I'm going to read it to you, I'm going to show it to you on the screen here in a minute. And then there was a lot of, you know, pretty good conversation. And I'm just going to go through and I'm going to give my take on it. I kind of told them that

I kind of posted and asked if they wanted me to film a video to talk about what I thought about this post. And you know, I got a couple of yeses. So I was like, Alright, let's do it.

Alright, so with that being said,

let's jump into exactly what this means. So here's the post.

Not to brag or anything, but my husband cooks, cleans does laundry, and yard work, goes grocery shopping, and to work every day remembers special occasions, pays bills, all while being an excellent dad and husband. So what I'm trying to say is he's a grown ass man, marry one. So this posts published by seems like user, Mrs. Ashley.

I'm not sure who that is. I don't know if that's like a celebrity or if it's, you know, I'm not sure, but whatever. So she posted this sounds like she was bragging on her bragging under man. And there's a lot of interesting discussion about this. And I'm going to kind of go through the comments. One comment said, it used to be me. I don't think I don't think that commandment that used to be married to this woman.

Men and women suffer from a lack of genuine connection while dating. But even more importantly, they fail to understand how to move past the connection phase, and into the sexual escalation phase. In this video/podcast, you’re going to learn how to do it.

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All right. Today we're going to be talking about genuine connection. And the reason why I'm talking about this today is because I've been thinking about this a lot. And I actually

wrote an article about this earlier today. And I'm going to kind of go through that a little bit and share some deeper things. And I'm going to link to the article in the description below. I'm also going to embed this video in the post to try to really make sure that I get all the information in there. Here's the thing that's going on.

We're having a lack of connection in our society. We're not connecting, like we want to or like we should.

But I think that it goes under the radar. It goes under the radar because people people think that it's normal.

So people think that it's normal. And the reason they think that way is because we've kind of gotten so accustomed to online interactions and online dating, that we have forgotten a bit what true connection feels like and what, what it looks like. Now, that's not necessarily to say that I think the online stuff is, is bad. I'm not like a conspiracy person, I don't think that the world is being ruined by the internet. I love the internet. I think that dating apps aren't even inherently terrible. They just don't do a super good job.

In this video/podcast, I talk about the need for men and women (especially women) to trust their gut feelings when it comes to red flags. This is an important episode… you’re not going to want to miss this one.

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I had a really awesome call the other day with a young woman who was talking about a relationship she'd recently gotten out of. And one thing stuck out to me that I really want to talk about. And she brought up the fact that she noticed a lot of red flags early on with the guy that she ended up, you know, breaking up with. But, you know, she kind of overlooked them thinking, well, she didn't wanna make a big deal out of it. Maybe it wasn't such a big deal, you know, things like that. Now, this is really normal. We all do this to a point. We like to overlook, you know, potential red flags and people that we like, people that we're attracted to. And that's reasonable, like, you know, that's it's understandable that we would want to do that, because we want to have good relationships, we don't want to make a big deal out of it. We don't want to make things weird, but they don't have to be right.

Here's the thing.

This is what's really, really crucial to understand about this, you have come from a long, unbroken line of evolutionary successes. Think about this, every single one of your evolutionary ancestors successfully navigated the dating marketplace, created offspring, and got at least one of those offspring, your next ancestor, down the line to adulthood successful, right? That is a lot of success. And a lot of adaptive evolutionary habits, and skills, like skills, skills is probably the wrong word. Adaptive evolutionary instincts passed down, that we make use of things like our emotions, things like our reactions to things.

I got ghosted! I filmed a video instead of going on the date, talking about ghosting, why it happens, and why women sometimes do this. It’s important to understand. The sexual marketplace can be a rough place. This is why we need the alpha mentality!

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Alright, with that being said, let's get on with it. I got stood up tonight.

I was gonna go on a date met this girl online, gonna talk you know get together for coffee. We decided on a time and place I showed up.

Waited for 15 minutes. I tried to call her

ring once went to voicemail.

No response.

So why?

I'm not the only guy that this happens to.

This even happens to some women.

But why does it happen?

I'm gonna be honest with you.

This has happened a handful of times in my life.

Not a lot. For the most part. Most people, you know, are polite enough to cancel or to say no, I don't want to meet up or something like that, right?

However, there are times when people do not do that there are times when they just they just you know, they don't. They just don't show up.

Why? Right. So why is this? I'm going to try to break it down for you.

In this video/podcast, I talk about the ‘pick me girl.’ What does it mean? Why do women say it? And perhaps more importantly… why are these types of girls so hated by most other women?

Here’s the truth.

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Alright, today we're gonna be talking about something kind of interesting. We're gonna be talking about the pygmy girl. Now, there's a lot that people have to say about this. And for those of you who don't know what this is, it's kind of like a bash, calling someone to pick me girl, and I'm going to explain, I'm going to explain what it is. But more importantly, I'm going to explain why.

This is such an unpopular idea, especially among women.

And it actually has roots in evolutionary psychology.

Now, first, let's talk about what it is going to go to the urban dictionary. And by the way, I'm going to post the links to all this stuff down in the description.

In this video/podcast, I talk about double texting, and why men SHOULD STOP DOING IT IMMEDIATELY. I’ve tested it, and I know what’s up. Check it out.

I go through it all in this video/podcast!

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What we have is a situation today guys, where this one's mostly for the gentlemen, ladies, you can obviously listen to this glean some insight from it, learn about your your counterparts on the male side of the spectrum. But for the most part, this was for the men. And what we have today is a real problem with men wasting their time.

Texting the wrong way. And what I'm talking about specifically is double texting. Now double texting is what happens when you send a message, you don't get a reply. So then you send another message, right? And so you have said two in a row. Now,

here's the thing.

When someone doesn't respond to your text message for whatever reason, maybe you match on a dating app, maybe you are texting each other. Maybe you're on social media, your messaging back and forth, whatever it is.

There's a thought that comes to mind when you text someone and they don't text back, you think well, maybe I'll send another one. Maybe it'll remind them maybe they forgot me that busy. Or there's this thought of like maybe, you know, if it's on dating app, maybe I didn't stand out enough, maybe I need to, like send a message.

Like, if they're texting a whole bunch of guys, which they are on, you know, dating apps, then maybe my that one message I sent didn't stand out enough, maybe I need to, you know, make myself seem more interesting. So I need to send another message I need to kind of, you know, get in her frame of vision. And okay, here's the thing.

I can see how men think this because I used to think the same way. We've got to understand it's not how it is. The truth of the matter is that yes, if she's not texting you back, you may not have stood up to her enough. But sending a follow up message isn't going to change that. It's very rare that it changes that.

In this video/podcast, I talk about some of my stoic beliefs, but also explore the question of whether we should be stifling our emotions. Does stoicism require this… or is there a different path that we should be taking?

I go through it all in this video/podcast!

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Today we're going to talk about stoicism More importantly, modern stoicism and whether or not you should stifle your emotion. I've been reading a really interesting book.

It's titled Mama's last hug by Frans De Wall.

And I'm just gonna read to you like what it means.

It's called Mama's last hug animal emotions what they tell us about ourselves. And let's see I'm gonna try to read the description, but I don't actually see the description.

Let's see I really want to okay. me My goodness.

Mama's last hug opens our hearts and minds to the many ways in which humans and other animals are connected, transforming how we view the living world around us primatologist friends, the wall, explores the fascinating world of animal and human emotions. Okay, so that's kind of the that's the little the snippet, the description of it. And you know, when I google it, just real quick now. I'm reading this book, and he points out something really interesting, right? He points out that, especially in the Western world, humans are kind of obsessed with the mind, that the mind, you know, we can through our intelligence and our rationality, we can accomplish anything. This is kind of a stoic idea, right. We're a little bit obsessed with stoicism. And, in fact, there's such a thing called modern stoicism, which I have been reading about a little bit now I'm not a, I'm not a not a student of stoicism. I'm not really a, you know, stoic philosophy, I haven't really read anything about it. I've probably read things that loosely fall under that category. But in my life, I have, for the most part, always been of the belief that we should try to live our lives in accordance with like balancing our intelligence and our emotion. And if we go too far over to one or the other, we're gonna kind of suffer a deficit, right?

In this video/podcast, I talk candidly about what a ‘high value man’ is.

I also talk about why it’s important, and tell a few personal stories along the way.

Tune in! You’re not going to want to miss this one.

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So today we're gonna be talking about high value men being a high value, man.

The reason I'm talking about this is because I I just went over an old blog post I'd written and i revamped it, I added a bunch of stuff that, you know, I didn't include the first time I wrote it. And, you know, I think it's a lot better now. And I'll link it down below so you can read it. But here's the thing, I'm going to tell you a little story.

I didn't I used to be a high value, man. I used to complain all the time. I used to.

I used to be such a victim. Like anytime anything went wrong. I just blamed it on other people, you know, just poor me. Poor me. I remember when, you know, when my life would get hard when things wouldn't happen the way that I kind of wanted them to, I would just it was like I couldn't handle it. Like, I just it's like my inability, there's a cat over here and I'm petting it. If you're wondering what I'm doing on the screen. The cat is being relentless today.

It was like I couldn't handle things not going my way. Right? Is because I was not a high value man.

In this video/podcast, I talk about Alpha dating.

What is it? How can it help your dating life? And why does it all matter?

In this podcast, you’re going to learn. I also talk about my past, and how Alpha Dating helped me to straighten out my dating life for good.

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Now, today we're gonna talk about alpha dating. And I want to talk a little bit about what it means. Dating as an alpha, an alpha male or a female is not the same as dating, like a normal person. There are a lot of different things you have to take into account. And I'm going to kind of talk about this in the sense of mine my life and how it unfolded for me. If you want to level up your attraction, if you want to make your dating life, the dating life of your dreams, like you actually want to achieve the specifics of the dating life you want, then this is absolutely what you need to do. The Alpha, the alpha mentality is number one, the biggest factor that you need to take into account. But it's not just gonna factor into your dating life. The thing about your dating life is that if it's not working out, it's generally a symptom of a bigger underlying problem. Or a couple big underlying problems. You got to solve those problems. You can't just slap a bandaid on it. A lot of dating coaches will say, Oh, yeah, you can fix it just, you know, just learn some new pickup lines, or, oh, no, this is how you talk to women. This is how you make a perfect profile on online dating and all of that, most of the time. They're just symptoms. And even if they do get you a couple more shots at a high value partner, it's not going to work in the long term. Because building attraction isn't just something you do to get with somebody. It's something you do to level up your life. It's something that you do, to make yourself the best version of yourself that you can possibly be to get the most out of life, because all of life is sex, all of life is a grand mating dance that is so intricate, and, and permeates our existence to such a substantial degree, that even if you're not directly playing the game, you're still in the game.