In this video/podcast, I talk about high conflict personality, empathy, healthy conflict, and why it all matters to the alpha mentality and your dating life.

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Okay, so tonight I was doing a little bit of research. And I ran into I ran into something called high conflict personality.

The actual term Yeah, high conflict personality. And I was like, Well, what is that? You know, because when you're talking about the alpha mentality, when you're talking about dating,

it's important to have conflicts the appropriate way. Like, on one hand, you can be too nice slip people walk all over you. That's not good. That's what conflict averse people do. But on the other hand, if you just you know, are kind of the kind of person who finds conflict in everything. Well, that's not good either. Right? So it's a balance, the more and more I grow accustomed to talking about these things. And the more and more that I learned about these things, the more I learned that there's usually always a balance, there's usually always some good and some bad in it, no matter what you're talking about, until finding a balance, a healthy balance is the right answer, right. So when it comes to your dating life, you don't want to be a doormat. But you also don't want to just be you know, you don't want to be a bud face, either, right? You need to fall somewhere in the middle, you need to be reasonable, rational, but you also need to take no nonsense.

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In this video/podcast, I react to a scene from one of my favorite movies… El Dorado, starring John Wayne, who is also one of my favorite actors. Here are some important alpha-mentality observations I made while watching one of my favorite scenes from the movie.

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Today we're doing something a little bit different. I'm going to

react to a scene from one of my all time favorite movies. In fact, this probably qualifies as my favorite movie of all time. Eldorado starring john wayne, this movie is I think, a masterpiece. And it's so interesting to see some of like the alpha male behavior that has been portrayed in this movie. And I just want to go through it and kind of call some attention to a few different things I noticed in one of my favorite scenes, this is the scene. If you've never seen this movie, you should watch it. But this is the scene where john wayne

his character, Cole Thornton is in a Cantina. And he's you know, he's hanging out with these pretty ladies and playing dominoes. And then these like these gunfighter guys come in, and he notices them. And then this is where he's introduced the character Mississippi, who,

you know, as you'll see, if you're watching this on YouTube, gets into some trouble. And then, if you're listening to this on our podcast, this will be a little bit more difficult to follow, because there's some visuals, but I'm just going to talk through it usually, you'll also hear the audio. But if you want to watch the YouTube video, I'm going to post it in the link, um, you know, the podcasts that you can follow it, listen to it.

In this video/podcast, I’m joined by special guest Jolene Clifford… my girlfriend! We talk about fear of the friendzone, and how this hinders men’s sexual power.

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So the topic of today is men fear of the friendzone is hindering your true sexual power.

And so I'm going to kind of, I'm basically going to say like, what I think about this, and then maybe you can give me what you think. Okay, so. So here's the thing. So it's good for men to be aware of the concept of the friendzone. Because, because what some guys do is they they tried to use being a friend is a backdoor to getting sex. And so the idea, and you know, I've gone back and forth on whether I even like to talk about the friendzone as a real thing, because, because the thing about it is that like, on one hand, being friends with a woman is not a bad thing. On the other hand, there are guys who defeat themselves by

trying to gain sexual access with a woman they're interested in. But they're not like, they're not like being forthright enough to come out and say what they actually want. And so they're kind of using friendship as a backdoor to it. And then when it doesn't happen, they get like mad about it, right. So this is self defeating in many different ways, and for many different reasons. And so my way of thinking about this is sometimes men, like in talking about the friendzone, they swing the pendulum too far. So some men are really afraid of being just friends with a girl to the point where they will make it weird in their pursuit of sex. And so, and actually, that's kind of the point is that pursuing sex is not the goal. Pursuing excellence is the goal and chasing your purpose is the goal. And then spending time with high-quality women should be a byproduct of that process. And so when you make it all about chasing sex, and you make it all about trying to get laid, what you're actually doing is you're focusing on something that is going to take away from your power. Because actually, what you're doing is you're giving all the power to you're giving all your power away to other people when you actually own the Patrizio here.

In this post, I talk about why being brave is so important to men on the alpha male journey. It affects us as we strive to level up our dating lives, win in business, and find our purpose! 

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In this video/podcast, I talk about the book “The Man's Guide to Women” by John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman, and about how the book explains that men and women process their anger in different ways. This video was taken right after I heard it… just a quick-shot rant about why I thought it was important.

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Alright, well, that being said, I've been reading a book.

And it's titled A Man's Guide to women, written by John Gottman.

It's a really, really interesting book. Basically what it is, is it's supposed to be like a primer for men who don't understand women. Okay, so and also my lighting, it's at night, and I'm in my car. So I just wanted to I was listening to the audiobook and I heard something so cool. I just wanted to get my thoughts down on this.

So a lot of the stuff in this book is pretty intuitive to me, you know, and, and I, you know, and I'm enjoying it, you know, but some of it is kind of like, Okay, well, you know, this is all pretty common sense stuff. But he talked about one thing that I've never, I've never heard about before. And it really struck me as very interesting. And I want to share it with you guys and ladies. So men and women get angry for pretty much the same reasons according to scientific research, however they like, it's almost like they process or deal with that anger or like it manifests itself in different way.

In this video/podcast, I talk about a subtle mindset shift that guys need to make if they want to get laid more often, have more sex, increase their attraction, and come off as ‘more desirable’ to women.

I’ll give you a hint. It has nothing to do with pickup lines!

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Now, I want to talk about something that I think a lot of men misunderstand. And when we're asking ourselves how to like, like, how do we get a woman to want to sleep with us as a man, right. And so this specific episode is gonna be more for the men. But ladies, you might want to stick around and listen anyway, because there's quite a bit to go through here. And it might help, it might really open your eyes a little bit to some of the things that men think about and deal with.

So as men, you know, we want to be successful in the dating marketplace, we want beautiful women to want to sleep with us, we want beautiful women to desire us, that sort of thing, right? But it requires a mindset shift that works to the strengths of our natural role in society as men, as masculine men, right. And so, when we look at the primary objective for men, it is to get good results, to affect change, to do things, right. This is the masculine imperative. As men, we need to be effective. See, men are not born into a position of sexual abundance, men are born into a position of sexual scarcity. And then the top performing men inherit the position of sexual abundance. So it's like that top 20% or top 10%, or even top 5% of men. And basically all of the high value women want those men, right, and this is hypergamy.

In this video/podcast, I talk about how ladies can ask a guy for his number. I’ll give you a hint… it is almost exactly the same thing I tell men, but slightly different… because men and women need to operate just a little bit differently. Here’s what you need to know!

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All right, with that being said, let's get into it. This one's for the ladies, how to get a guy's number, how to ask a guy for his number. All right. So a lot of women think that it's off limits for them to ask for guy's number, they think that it makes them seem desperate, which is not true at all. It is 2021 it is there's never been such a great time for women to assert themselves on the dating marketplace. Especially if you see, you know, if you see a gentleman that you fancy, if you see a guy at a party, you know you meet somebody, you are no longer tied down to waiting for him to make the first move, you are absolutely free to make the first move. Now a lot of women then are left with the very, very logical question of Well, how do I do it? Okay, well, my advice for this is very, very similar to my advice for men, which is, but it's a little bit different, too. So the first thing I want to get this chemical. So the first thing I want women to do is when you look at a guy that you are into, you'd like to get his number, I want you to look at him try to make eye contact with him from costume and smile, right.

In this video/podcast, I talk about cold approach, tribal dating, and how they’re different. I also talk about some of the upsides and downsides to each. Here’s what you need to know!

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But I am gonna talk for a minute today about cold approach versus tribal dating,

what the difference is and why it matters. So cold approaches the idea that when you're going around in your day to day life, you know, you're gonna, you know, meet people in line at the coffee shop, you know, you're gonna see people on the street, because people at the bus stop, seem to grocery store, whatever, and then that you're going to want to walk up to them struck, strike up a conversation, and like, you know, get their number or, you know, get their contact information, and then expand your dating social circles that way, is a very classic example of how to, you know, how to meet people in the real world, right.

Of course, the thing that it's called cold approach, because these are people you don't know, right? They're not even, they're not your friends, they're not your acquaintances, they're just people that you see out on the street. And so you, you know, there's a lot of dating coaches to talk about cold approach. And it's actually really fun. Like, you know, I'll often if I see someone really attractive, all I'll try to find a way to say hi, and then you know, maybe engage them in conversation and of asking for their number, right. And so this is a really good way to expand your dating social circles, it's highly, highly preferable to online dating, in my opinion, I say delete all the dating apps, you'd be better off going out for an hour and just going around to the clubs and bars, or to the coffee shops, and just cold approaching women or even on the street, like I would much prefer to see men doing that.

In this video/podcast, I give you 6 dynamite tips to help you crush it in your dating life in 2021 and beyond! Let’s go forward into a new year with hope, focus, and a plan of action to succeed!

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If you're willing to do the work, if you're willing to have good habits, if you are willing to do what it takes to get yourself to that, to that higher level, that alpha mentality level, that level where you are increasing your attraction to the point where you date from a position of sexual abundance, not sexual scarcity, right? That's what it's all about. Solid, the mentality and it's not as difficult as it seems. And today, I've got six steps, six new year's resolutions you can make to crush it in 2021 with your dating life.

All right.

Gonna make these easy gonna make these quick, let's get in here. Step number one, expand your social circles, get out more, do at least one new thing every week, that's going to take you to a new place to be around new people. It doesn't matter if those people are young and attractive. It doesn't matter if those people your age, it doesn't matter if those people have anything in common with you. All that matters is that you go to a new place to do a new thing with new people. If you do that once a week, every week of the year in 2021, that's 52 new things you'll be if you're doing everything else, right, you'll be amazed at how quickly you'll meet new dating partners or potential dating partners. It'll blow your mind.

Number two workout every day.

Being healthier. Keeping your body in good shape, helps you stay attractive, helps you stay vital helps you give off the struggle for fertility signals. Men and women admire beautiful bodies, strive to have a more beautiful body 2021, I'm going to I want to lose this gut, I want to lower my body fat percentage, I want to get that that awesome, like lean look that I've been pushing for the last couple of years that I haven't had the that I haven't had the like the focus to achieve 2021 is going to be the year going to achieve the body I want to make take all the year, that's fine. It may take two years, three years. What matters is this workout every day.

In this video/podcast, you gentlemen are going to learn why women DON’T WANT the men who chase. These guys who pine after women, act like ‘nice guys,’ and put all of their eggs into one basket give off powerful low-value markers. This is why.

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Alright. So today we're going to talk about something real quick. I was watching some videos, and it's become really obvious to me that a lot of men misunderstand. Like, women's attitude toward nice skies and in like how they view that. So here's the thing. Women don't want a quote unquote, nice guy. You know what, once a woman gets older, and she maybe wants to settle down, she may settle down with a nice guy because that's what she wants in her life. Right. But earlier on, especially, she wants a man who is a little bit edgy, right, because she wants that thrills, she has this desire for excitement. And she's getting attention from a lot of different types of men, right. And the type of man who's nice, the type of man who makes sure that she knows that he's always going to be there, he always wants to be there. The type of man who makes a woman feel like she's his only choice, his only option, that kind of man, especially early on in the game is going to lose with women. And here's why women want high value effective men, they want leadership driven men who have a lot to offer on the sexual marketplace. Okay, so this is what's attractive to them. This is attraction, right? And so, the nice guy, the guy who jumps right into putting all of his chips in one basket being the girl, he gives off a powerful low value marker that says, I've saw you I think you're the best sell ever get. I want to totally invest in you. Now. rationally, we might think to ourselves, well, that sounds very sweet. And, and even women will have this conflict. They'll think, oh, that's very sweet. He's such a nice guy. He likes me so much. I really should go with him. But and this is why I've heard women say this over and over again. There'll be like, Why do I always fall for bad guys? Like, why is it always the bad boys, I always felt these men who aren't good, like the nice guys. And there's two reasons for that one.