In this video/podcast, I talk about one of my favorite quotes by Andre Agassi - “Control what you can control.” This is a personal rant about alpha mentality - pure and simple.

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Now, this is actually a quote by Andre Agassi, who is a very, very famous professional tennis player. And so this quote sticks out to me today, because I'm thinking about a couple things. The first thing being that a lot of people feel like they have no control in their lives, right? This is absolutely true of not only your dating life, but this could also be true of your financial life, this could be true of your life, you know, your relationship life could be any of those things, right. And so it's not a very good place to be to feel like you don't have any control over anything. The most important thing is if you feel like you don't have control over your own life, that's the most dangerous. That's the worst place to be right. And that's as, as humans, that's what we want to avoid. And in for stuck there. We want to get out of it. Right? So here's the thing. For the most part, a lot of people give up their power, they give up control. They do that by by making small concessions but compromising on themselves. Right? They do that by saying yes to things they don't really want to say yes to. They do it by being too nice to like step on toes. Maybe, maybe they need to draw healthy boundaries, but they don't do it. Instead, they just go along with with the thing that you know, other people want them to do, right.

In this video/podcast, I talk about a recent experience I had with a very attractive older woman, and how this new acquaintance was able to get my attention and look highly attractive to me without even trying. I realized that she was (probably unknowingly) employing 3 crucial attraction mechanisms that most people don’t even know about!

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And it was like, I don't think she was trying to do it on purpose. But she used all three of these mechanisms, like really, really effectively. And I just was kind of blown away by how attractive that made her look in my like in my field of vision, like in my perception of her. And, and I've noticed that most people do not ever tap into these three things, these three instant attraction mechanisms, as I call it. And I've been aware of these things for a long time. And I've actually talked about these things to a point but, but this just goes to show how powerful

these types of things can be when you understand how to utilize them correctly, and then you do utilize them correctly, right. So I'm just gonna,

I'm just gonna kind of talk about this, I give you these three things that you can do, right.

And, and like I said, I don't think that she was doing it on purpose. I think that this was just a natural byproduct of her having an alpha mentality. And see, that's the thing. When we embrace the alpha mentality, we increase our attraction, by a tremendous amount. And the reason for that is because that puts us in a whole nother bracket, like an intellectual bracket. 

In this post, I talk about how to be physically attractive. And spoiler alert! The secret isn’t to work yourself to death or starve yourself to a size zero! Here’s what you need to know.

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So the first thing you need to understand about this particular thing, how to be physically attractive is that there's an incredible amount of pressure right now in the media to match what all the models look like. So women feel like if they're not a, you know, size zero, they're not beautiful, and men feel like if they're not ripped, like on the cover of the magazine, they're not tracking. And that's not true at all. And I want to dispel that myth, because never in the history of our species, has there been so much pressure to achieve like, you know, a physical ideal, right. And so here's the, here's the straight facts for millennia,

eons and eons, you know, millions of years, humans only really had to compete with the other humans around them. So, you know, a woman really only had to compete with other women in her tribe, you're the woman down the street, the woman, you know, the women within a couple square blocks, you know, the women who went to church, right, so that's like, what, you know, a couple dozen that most men is the same way, they really, really only competing with men in the same tribe.

In this post, I’m going to discuss 1 valuable secret to making women want you. And spoiler alert, it isn’t a six-pack! This is something that a lot of men aren’t focusing on. And you may not even know it exists. Here’s what you need to know to make women want you.

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Men and women also clashed over resources and sexual access. In the evolutionary psychology of human mating. The sexual strategy adopted by one sex can trip up in conflict with a strategy adopted by the other sex. I call these phenomenon strategic interference. Consider the difference in men's and women's proclivities to see casual short term sex. Men and women typically differ in how long and how well, they need to know someone before they consent to have sex. Although there are many exceptions and individual differences, men generally have lower thresholds for engaging in sex. For example, men often express the desire and willingness to have sex with an attractive stranger. Whereas most women refuse anonymous encounters, and prefer to know something about the potential mate prior to sex. There's fundamental conflict between these different sexual strategies. men cannot fulfill their short term wishes without simultaneously interfering with women's long term goals. an insistence on immediate sex interferes with the goal of a longer courtship phase. The interference is reciprocal, since any delay also obstructs the goal of those seeking short term sex. Whenever the strategy adopted by one sex interferes with the strategy adopted by the other strategic interference and conflict ensues. Okay, so this is important to understand because what I'm about to talk about making women once you one valuable secret for men, I'm going to tell you a little story about this too. So when I was younger, I went through like so when I was a teenager.

I struggled, struggled, struggled to get women to notice me, and the reason was because I was kind of needy. And I wasn't very, I wasn't very, like I was very nervous. I was afraid of beautiful women. I was very, I was very needy, and clingy.

In this video/podcast, I’m going to talk about how to vet male dating partners and learn to spot reg flags in a relationship with a man. One of the greatest challenges for women is learning how to figure out if a guy is bad news or not. And in this video/podcast, you’re going to learn 5 red flags to watch out for.

1. He Still Lives With His Ex/Is Super Involved In Her Life

2. He Doesn’t Seem To Make A Sincere Effort To Respond To Your Messages

3. He Complains A Lot

4. He Isn’t A Self-Fulfilled Man With A Purpose

5. He Acts Needy/Clingy/Controlling

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I'm going to give you some guy secrets in this video that are going to, I really hope help you to be able to level up your ability to vet dating partners. And this is really important to me to tell you why

the crucial first step for women to be successful in the dating marketplace. Thank you may think that it starts with getting noticed. But that's actually not true.

Because by default, the majority of women are already born with like the capacity to get noticed, and to have guys want them.

Even if you don't really do anything special, right? So in other words, you wait, you know you're born, you grow up, you wake up in the morning, and the normal things you do to get ready for the day, render you attractive enough and sexy enough and appealing enough that a healthy percentage of men are going to want you. Right. And so attracting men isn't the beginning of the problem for women, if you have a problem attracting men, then that's a thing you may have to address.

In this video, I talk about how to stop being a weak man, and give you 5 important steps you should take to get on-track to being a strong, masculine, alpha man in the world. There are literally hundreds of things you can do to stop being a weak man… but I believe that these are the 5 most important steps to take seriously.

1. Start Taking Responsibility For Yourself

2. Get Rid Of Your Victim Mentality

3. Stop Complaining

4. Start Getting Real Money

5. Start Chasing Your Purpose

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So today, we're gonna talk about how to stop being a weak man.

And I recently published a blog post on this.

And I'm gonna do a video about it because I want to get a little bit more in depth on some of the stuff. And I gave five points in my blog post, which I will have a link to it down below. So you can go check that out. Go read that.

And so I five points. I'm going to kind of go through this. And I'm going to talk a little bit about this, expand on some things I didn't really expand on in the blog post.

Here's the thing. And so this one, this video is more for the gentleman than the ladies. But ladies, obviously you're welcome to listen to this.

In fact, I encourage you to because when it comes to dating, leveling up your dating life, trying to succeed on the dating marketplace,

women have a responsibility to themselves to that their partners correctly. Like that's where the rubber meets the road.

Now for men, it's a little different.

By default, men are acting from a position of sexual scarcity, right. And so for them, where the rubber meets the road is they need to create enough value.

And you could almost insert the term resource potential.

In this post, you’re going to learn all about how to meet MILFs… (Moms I’d Like to F***)... and date them successfully.

Here are the most important 5 points!

1. Be yourself - don’t try to be something you’re not

2. Do not be clingy

3. Spend time where MILFs are spending time, or start using dating apps

4. Don’t be afraid to start conversations

5. Be prepared to have REAL conversations - no booty-call business

Watch the video to hear me go in-depth on each one of these points.

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So for those of you who don't know… well, you probably know, because you searched it, you came here, what is a MILF… A Mom I’d Like to Bang, basically, to give you the YouTube safe version.

Now this is, uh, this is a little bit less sophisticated of a topic.

I found this topic by doing some keyword research. And I thought, this is kind of cool, because I'm gonna be honest with you, this is kind of my specialty.

So like, you know, I have done a lot of dating in this category. So I feel like, like, I saw this, and I thought, yeah, I'm gonna talk about this, I'm gonna make a video, make a podcast about this. Help some guys who are kind of into this thing, you know, here's the thing, guys, there are a lot of men out there talking to other men telling them never to date moms. And I don't necessarily agree with that. I think if you're gonna date a mom, you have to understand

that it's not just her, you know, there are kids involved too. And now handling all of that. That's what this video is about.

In this post, I talk about 3 essential ingredients to attraction that you should be trying to incorporate into your dating life. These ingredients, when incorporated into your day-to-day life and social networks, will really help you to increase your attraction and improve your dating life.

They are...

1. Your individuality

2. The way other people view you

3. Your levels of confidence and self-assurance

Watch the video/listen to the podcast to hear my in-depth thoughts on the subject.

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All right. Today, we're talking about three magic ingredients to magnetic attraction.

And this is some stuff that I've been thinking about lately, oftentimes.

My podcast, YouTube and blog posts, they really mirror the things that I'm working on personally in my own life, right? And so when I'm thinking about things like every day, when I decide what content to make, usually what I do, the first thing I do is I, I think well, what am I dealing with today? Like what am I thinking about today? And so, to a point, this content, sometimes it's kind of a kind of like a looking glass into the things that are going on in my mind every day. And so if you're wondering what the rhyme or reason is, as to what kind of things I talk about, and why that's usually why usually I'm talking about the things that I'm thinking about the most. And today, we're talking about three magic ingredients to make netic attraction. attraction is a fickle thing. Humans are fickle creatures, what attracts us to one another. You know, of course, if you start looking into Dating Tips pick up, you know, talking about how to attract partners. You know, you might think, Oh, well, what's the best pickup line to use?

In this episode, I talk about building connection. What do men and women struggle with in this department? (note: audio is rough in the beginning, but it gets better toward the end because I took shelter from the wind!) I also talk about the common problems men and women tend to face on the dating market. This is a long one, but listen to the end… because there is some gold in it that you don’t want to pass up.

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In this episode, I talk about why you should never give up on your dreams, goals, dating life, passions, or anything else that has been a challenge for you in 2020. This year has been tough, but we will all get through it together. In this episode, I offer some motivation and my own thoughts about moving forward and not giving up on the things that matter.

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I want to give you guys and girls, a quick message, just a quick little boost. Remind you not to give up.

Okay, and here's why 2020 has been a tough year, a lot of people have had a hard time. A lot of people are struggling. A lot of people are, they're like on the verge of giving up. They're very discouraged, you know, very depressed, have a lot of anxiety. Okay, so here's the thing.

It is not easy.

living this life is not an easy thing. Winning in the dating game is not easy. succeeding in business, you know, succeeding and fitness. Success in any way is not easy.

You're going to face challenge after challenge. And they're going to be hard. And it's just not going to be, it's just not going to be easy, no part of it's gonna be easy. If any part of it is easy for you, then count yourself as incredibly fortunate because usually, I can tell you from experience that assault difficult. However, there is a very significant silver lining to all of that. So, in my business, I'm asking given example.