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Can a 16-year-old girl command respect on the soccer field as a referee? Today, we’re thrilled to welcome Katie and Scott Millsap from the YouTube channel "Reffing with the Sappers" to share their incredible journey into officiating. Scott started refereeing to bond with his son, while Katie, initially motivated by potential earnings, discovered a passion for the sport she’s never played. Listen as they recount the joys and challenges they've faced, from dealing with difficult coaches and parents to the unique family bonding experiences that refereeing has provided.

Katie's experiences as a young referee shine a light on the hurdles young officials face. Despite concerns about her safety and treatment on the field, Katie has developed strategies to command respect and manage difficult situations. Hear how she handles public dissent, sets boundaries with coaches, and maintains her composure under pressure. Scott shares his insights on what it takes to succeed as a referee, emphasizing politeness, resilience, and the maturity that Katie has gained through her experiences.

We also delve into the broader impact of refereeing, from game analysis and continuous learning to the importance of mentorship and positive behavior in youth sports. Scott and Katie discuss the critical role of constructive criticism and the negative impact of poor coaching. Katie’s aspirations to reach national levels as a young female referee highlight the importance of resilience and mentorship in officiating. Join us as we celebrate the Millsap family's contributions to the sport and discover how you can support and connect with their initiatives to improve the refereeing community.