The Kendall Mariah Show

In this heartfelt solo episode, I share insights into how embracing authenticity, trusting my gut, and often avoiding rigid systems have led me to true success. I reflect on my journey of overcoming perfectionism and comparison to follow a path aligned with my spirit and talents. Main Topics:

• The danger of over-planning and seeking perfection in pursuit of success
• How trusting my instincts and spiritual discernment guides genuine progress
• The importance of putting blinders on and staying true to my authentic self
• Breaking free from societal and industry expectations and formulas
• Recognizing that sometimes, I am the exception to the rule
• The power of being a good steward of my talents, resources, and opportunities
• Overcoming fear of failure and perfectionism to take imperfect action
• How comparison stifles creativity and joy
• Trusting God's orchestration outside of societal frameworks
• Encouragement to create my own 'formula' and trust my unique process

Timestamps: 00:01 - Introducing a new approach: raw and unfiltered sharing 02:25 - Recognizing success doesn't follow a step-by-step plan 05:15 - How reliance on industry professionals can disconnect us from our roots 07:11 - Content creation fueled by vulnerability and authenticity 10:25 - The challenges of social media comparison 14:11 - Rewiring my mind to trust my God-given talents 16:19 - How spiritual alignment attracts success and opportunities 19:16 - Navigating non-traditional paths and trusting my unique process 21:12 - Recognizing the unseen impact of my stories and effortsResources & Links:

• Book: This Little Fire of Mine (Note: replace with actual link when available)
• My Website
• Follow me on Instagram

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Join Kendall as she records from the carpool line, sharing insights on parenting, faith, and community. This episode delves into the juxtaposition of everyday life with larger societal issues, offering a heartfelt perspective on how to navigate them with grace and intention.

Reflections on school shootings and the need for action beyond prayer. The importance of asking questions and doing personal research. Insights into military family life and reintegration after deployment. The upcoming Bible study on the book of Nehemiah and its relevance today.


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Link for Bible Study 

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In this episode, Kendall reflects on the holiday season and the transition into the new year, discussing the importance of setting realistic goals and intentions. She shares her personal journey of navigating life changes, including her decision to go unmedicated while trying to conceive. Kendall emphasizes the significance of choosing a word of the year to guide personal growth and the power of vision boards in manifesting goals. She also highlights the importance of creating measurable habits and accountability to achieve these goals throughout the year.

takeaways

• The holiday season can feel rushed and fragmented.
• It's important to take a buffer week to transition into the new year.
• Setting realistic goals requires taking inventory of your current life.
• Choosing a word of the year can provide focus and intention.
• Vision boards can help visualize and manifest goals.
• Goals should be measurable and attainable to avoid disappointment.
• Personal, professional, and family goals can be categorized for clarity.
• Creating habits takes time and consistency.
• Accountability can enhance goal achievement.
• Reflection and intention-setting are essential for personal growth.

Chapters

00:00
Holiday Reflections and New Beginnings

05:14
The Importance of Intentionality in Goal Setting

10:27
Choosing a Word of the Year

15:56
Setting Measurable Goals for Personal Growth

20:56
Vision Boarding and Manifestation

30:49
Creating Habits and Accountability

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In this conversation, Kendall discusses her journey of writing a book while grappling with imposter syndrome, the creative process, and the challenges of being a Christian author. She shares her fears and hopes for the book's reception, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and vulnerability in her writing. Kendall reflects on her faith and the desire to connect with readers who may feel disconnected from traditional Christian narratives.

keywords

Imposter Syndrome, Book Writing, Faith, Authenticity, Christian Author, Creative Process, Vulnerability, Overcoming Fear, Writing Journey, Personal Growth

00:00
Introduction and Book Update

06:26
The Writing Process: How Long Does It Take?

08:01
Book Release Timeline and Preparation

10:18
Exploring the Book's Themes and Purpose

12:29
Challenges of Writing a Faith-Based Book

17:33
Current Feelings About the Book

20:35
Engagement with the Audience

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In this conversation, Kendall speaks with Western North Carolina Native and Pastor, Rev. Will Raybon about the recent devastation and response to Hurricane Helene.Kendall and  Will discuss the impact of Hurricane Helene on Will's community, emphasizing personal connections to the disaster and the importance of effective disaster relief. They explore the immediate needs for aid, the logistics of delivering support, and the long-term recovery efforts required. 

The conversation also touches on theological reflections regarding suffering, how to talk to children about disasters, and actionable steps individuals can take to help their community. Ultimately, they stress the importance of grace, understanding, and sustained support in the aftermath of such tragedies.

Giving

• Give to support disaster response efforts through CBFNC at: https://cbfnc.org/give/
  • Please select “Disaster Response” in the dropdown menu when asked where to direct your support.
• Swannananoa Valley Christian Ministry 
• BPR 
• https://donate.mannafoodbank.org/

Serving

Volunteer with Baptists on Mission: For hands-on opportunities for work teams, please refer to the opportunities through CBFNC partner ministry, Baptists on Mission. Click here for more information and to sign up.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Impact of Natural Disasters

06:07 Personal Connections to the Hurricane

09:00 Effective Ways to Help After a Disaster

14:23 Long-Term Recovery and Support

17:11 The Role of Community and Faith in Recovery

28:22 Talking to Children About Natural Disasters

30:54 Finding God in Times of Crisis

33:50 Encouraging Action Beyond Prayer

36:34 Final Thoughts on Community Resilience

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In this conversation, Kendall Mariah shares her personal journey through the adoption process, highlighting the complexities, emotional challenges, and unexpected turns that arise. Even sharing about THE ONE person she confided her fears in, Zadie Ann's first mama, and how her conversation was assurance she needed.

Kendall also discusses the importance of ethical adoption practices, the financial implications, and the significance of building relationships with birth mothers. The conversation also touches on the heartbreak of not being chosen as adoptive parents and the resilience required to move forward in the adoption journey. Ultimately, Kendall emphasizes the ministry of adoption and the hope for future opportunities to grow their family.

takeaways

• Most adoption processes take 18 plus months, both times we have gone through the process was less than 90 days from start to finish with two different outcomes.
• We went from not pursuing adoption to $17,000 invested, in 5 days.
• As hopeful adoptive parents, we promised to be a safe, assuring, and qualified backup plan.
• We need to support birth mothers in their decisions, even when that does not benefit us, and comes at a great loss.
• Adoption is a ministry that requires vulnerability and sacrifice.
• After 3 failed plans, we need time to recoup and prepare for future adoption processes.
• I would do it again and do it the same, even if it means we walk away again without a baby.

Chapters

00:00
Navigating the Complexities of Adoption

07:18
Unexpected Turns in the Adoption Journey

16:04
Financial and Emotional Challenges

24:59
Building Relationships with Birth Mothers

33:41
Facing Heartbreak and Acceptance

41:39
The Ministry of Adoption and Moving Forward

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In this episode, Kendall Mariah reflects on her transition from being a stay-at-home mom to a work-from-home mom as her daughter starts school. She discusses the challenges and identity shifts that come with this change and explores the importance of finding hobbies and personal fulfillment outside of motherhood. Kendall also invites listeners to join her Bible study group and encourages them to leave reviews and ratings for the podcast.

keywords

Pet grief, infertility, transition, stay-at-home mom, work-from-home mom, identity, hobbies, fulfillment, Bible study

takeaways

• Transitioning from being a stay-at-home mom to a work-from-home mom can bring about challenges and identity shifts.
• Finding hobbies and personal fulfillment outside of motherhood is important for personal growth and well-being.
• Joining a Bible study group can provide a supportive community and opportunities for spiritual growth.
• Leaving reviews and ratings for podcasts helps new listeners discover the content and supports the creators.

titles

• Finding Personal Fulfillment Beyond Motherhood
• Joining a Bible Study Group for Spiritual Growth

Sound Bites

• "Being a work from home mom and a stay at home mom is a constant conversation in my life."
• "Who am I identity wise if I'm not a stay at home mom?"
• "I just need something that is good for my brain."

Chapters

00:00
Introduction and Gratitude

01:49
Loosing our Fur Baby Spock

06:54
Redefining Identity Outside of Motherhood and Marriage

09:36
Navigating the Challenges of Being a Work-from-Home Mom and a Stay-at-Home Mom

16:06
Finding Joy and Fulfillment in Hobbies and Activities

23:52
Joining a Community for Support and Connection

31:11
Making the Most of the Current Season of Life

32:59
Conclusion and Call to Action

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Are you transitioning out of a chaotic or messy season? Maybe you feel like you are trying to get out of a funk or are tired of feeling like life has become monotonous...

In this episode, Kendall reflects on her journey and shares her thoughts on clarity, creating systems, and stewardship. She emphasizes the importance of getting clear on decisions and priorities, decluttering physical and mental spaces, and setting specific goals. Kendall also discusses the significance of being intentional and deliberate in using resources and talents for the benefit of others. She encourages listeners to take inventory of what they have and assess how they can be better stewards of their time, money, and possessions.

Keywords
clarity, systems, stewardship, goals, intentionality, decluttering, resources, talents

Takeaways

• Getting clear on decisions and priorities is essential for a more intentional and fulfilling life.
• Creating systems and processes can help in organizing and utilizing resources more effectively.
• Stewardship involves taking inventory of what we have and using it for the greater good.
• Being intentional and deliberate in using our time, money, and talents can lead to a more purposeful and fulfilling life.
• Decluttering physical and mental spaces can bring clarity and open up opportunities for growth and creativity.

Titles

• Finding Clarity and Intentionality in Life
• Creating Systems for a More Organized Life

Sound Bites

• "Getting clear on decisions and priorities is essential."
• "Decluttering physical and mental spaces brings clarity."
• "Stewardship involves using resources for the greater good."

Chapters

00:00
Chapter 1: Finding Clarity

17:04
Chapter 2: Creating Order

20:35
Chapter 3: Being a Good Steward

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In this conversation, Kendall and Justin discuss their experiences of being separated due to military obligations and the challenges they faced. They also talk about their journey with adoption and the emotional rollercoaster they went through. They share their plans for the future, including Justin's upcoming training and Kendall's book deal. They also mention their favorite things to do in Nashville and Justin's current hyper fixations.

Keywords

separation, military, adoption, challenges, future plans, Nashville, hyper fixations, book deal

Takeaways

• Being separated due to military obligations can be challenging for both partners and requires adjustment and support.
• The adoption process can be emotionally taxing, but it's important to support the birth mother's decision, whether she chooses to place the baby for adoption or parent the child.
• Taking a pause and focusing on mental and emotional well-being is crucial when going through difficult times.
• Having clear goals and staying prepared can lead to opportunities and accomplishments.
• Nashville offers a variety of attractions and activities beyond the popular Broadway bars, including museums, parks, and shopping.

Titles

• Exploring Nashville Beyond Broadway
• Looking Ahead: Training and Book Deals

Chapters

00:00
Introduction and Adjusting to Separation

06:50
The Rollercoaster of Adoption

12:11
Taking a Pause and Focusing on Well-being

31:48
Exploring Nashville Beyond Broadway

38:02
Understanding Hyper Fixations

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"I did not want to be like the people who took Adderall in college!" is what Kendall proclaimed, the day she spoke with her doctor about finally getting on medication for her ADHD, 20 years after her original diagnosis.

Summary
In this conversation, Kendall Mariah discusses her experience with neurodivergency, specifically ADHD. She talks about the challenges she faces with hyper-processing and executive function, as well as the impact of medication on her daily life. Kendall also shares her recent trip to Kansas City and the importance of friendships in the military community. Overall, she emphasizes the need for understanding and support for individuals with ADHD.

Keywords

neurodivergency, ADHD, hyper-processing, executive function, medication, challenges, friendships, military community, women with ADHD, ADD, military spouse, Army wife

Takeaways

• Neurodivergency, such as ADHD, can manifest differently in individuals and impact various aspects of their lives.
• Hyper-processing and executive function challenges are common for individuals with ADHD.
• Medication can provide relief and help manage symptoms of ADHD.
• Friendships and support from the military community are important for individuals with ADHD.
• Understanding and accommodations are necessary to support individuals with ADHD.

Chapters

00:00
Navigating Neurodivergence and Family Time

02:40
Reflections on Friendship and Relationships

06:36
The Kansas City Trip: Challenges and Revelations

08:04
The Depth of Military Friendships

17:34
Navigating Neurodiversity: Understanding ADHD

30:10
Understanding the Capacity of the ADHD Brain

32:57
The Decision to Pursue Medication

35:34
The Impact of Overwhelm and Executive Function Challenges

39:40
Exploring ADHD Medication: Personal Experience and Perceptions

43:15
The Importance of Accommodations and Support for ADHD

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