What can it mean to be kinky and how can we play more safely and creatively? Domina Franco M.Ed has two decades of experience and gives advice and info about kink play and trauma. 

4:00 what is kink? 

8:00 how some types of play and relationships are pathologized 

12:00 on being a joyful sadist and human furniture 

20:00 slut play 

28:00 a theory on why some people love submission

32:00 Consensual Non-consent play or “rape role play”

40:00 how to screen for safer dominant partners

45:00 topping is a sacred responsibility

54:00 mint green bandanas mean mommy kink

1:00:00 book recommendations on kink and BDSM

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