A continued discussion about how to talk to those who aren't willing to distinguish between subjective and non-subjective things. What you can learn from "It's not my fault!" Does being a good person get you used? Story about Jordan's brother. A deeper conversation about when a 'lie' is not a lie.

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I hope you enjoy the discussions in the show about getting in our own way, self-sabotage, why the most people’s attention on a thing is so valuable, my political views (they may surprise you!), how to handle conversations when you begin to realize that you are becoming extremely frustrated or bothered, veal sandwiches, and more!

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Seeing people as people, as individuals, for real. All it necessitates and implies. 

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HALF A MILLION DOWNLOADS! I hope everybody is doing well, it's good to be back for this new fifth season. I thought I would start it off with some controversy that is sure to upset a lot of people who don't take the time to see why I'm right: "Low" self-worth, "low" self-esteem are not real things. They do not exist. ALSO: An opportunity to take The Last Symptom Fundamentals Course for FREE. 

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Some very personal, and personable stuff. Distinguishing between getting an opinion, and getting information from somebody who has knowledge and recognition of a non-subjective reality. The emotional effect of finally being heard. Why it's ok for you to get nervous when you talk to me for the first time. My star-struck experience with a woodcraft survival guy. Intimate memories of Jordan and Dave. Acoustic cover, Blackbird. 

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Emotional health depends on making accurate and purposeful distinctions between things of different natures, even when we might not be inclined to want to do so. Distinguishing between things we do, and who and what we are, as well as being ready to do this for others. Many things in life are devoid of value, but this is never true for people themselves. Was Bob Saget funny? Distinguishing things as opinions can help you achieve and maintain inner peace. How to hate while at the same time loving. Acoustic cover: Dear Theodosia. 

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Two categories to divide problems and solutions into: Tangible/Physical and Intangible/Emotional. (Intangible/Spiritual is another, but not discussed in this episode.) The natures (plural) of DEPRESSION. Predetermined conclusions and AUTISM. Not confusing symptoms as problems. A proper perspective of the value of recognizing one’s own CAPACITIES. Not inappropriately assuming responsibility for things only other people are responsible for, such as their personal opinions, or the ways they feel about, or choose to react to any given thing. Making flat black & white statements about things that are purely subjective and matters of opinion. Acoustic cover: King of the Road.

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The brilliance of the previous episode. The Million-Follower Formula. My experience with Covid. The Getting-Off-The-Merry-Go-Round-Technique. The benefit and beauty of maintaining friendships with an emotionally-unhealthy person or two. The Mindful-Feeling Trick. You can't fail at practice. The Emotional Health Teeter-Totter. The Peekskill Meteor. Acceptance as a QUALITY. Struggle, and a discussion about God and Enabling. Cover songs: Daydream Believer, The Monkeys. Limón y Sal, Julieta Venegas. 

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Which one more powerfully controls our world? Feelings or Intellect? Feelings will completely betray and negate intellect every opportunity they get, and they're doing it more than anybody would care to admit. My experience as a professional interpreter and the sad truth it teaches us about people in ALL professions. Captain Kirk and the Enterprise. The color of your car. Scientists getting Cause & Effect completely backwards. 

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No matter what scientists, intellectuals, therapists, psychologists, or any otherwise brilliant people claim, your feelings do not in any way function any differently whatsoever from any other person's feelings. It's a myth, it's a lie, it's a reflection of dumbness, an inability, and an unwillingness to THINK. There is no such thing as people with 'less stable' feelings. Also, the big blunder I made recently as a parent. What it means, how I handled it. Acoustic cover: Calliope, by The Well Pennies.

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