Some things have slipped in the last 20 years, expectations of someones behaviours, respect and compassion in dating environments is one of them.

Most people can't help but warn you of their intentions, but do we listen? If you don't want to waste time, IE your life, it is wise to do so.

The do's and don't of having an ex or your partner having an ex.

Over the years I have seen so many posts and heard so many comments, listened to so many people labelling their partner as a narcissist. They may be, Tonight Dorothy gives you the rundown on what isn't a narc and what is.

Being progressive is open and offers opportunities but many people are negative geared and don't even realize it some in all aspects of their life and for most of us it is a single area or expectation. When you aim low, you get low.

putting your partner down in your mind or behind their back creates an attitude that they will feel, don't doubt it.

Waht methods do you or your partner use to avoid serious conversations when you are scared that they may be hurtful or unpleasant?

Some things are just not a good idea if you don't understand why you are doing them.

We sometimes confuse a social belief and construct with self esteem. Do you have what it takes to create the relationship you dream of?

When nice people try to set boundaries at the early stages of dating or relationships, needy people, narcissists and selfish types don't get it. Take note and save yourself some time.