In this podcast episode, we are joined by Dr. David Ley, a renowned psychologist, certified s*x therapist, and supervisor of s*x therapy. Dr. Ley has authored several books, including "Insatiable Wives," "The Myth of S*x Addiction," and "Ethical Porn for Dicks.".

Dr. Ley discusses the "lifestyle" , or swinging and other forms of non-monogamy that couples explore to spice things up.

Couples can have rules in order to keep things comfortable and safe. For example, they might only play with other couples or do things like kissing and oral s*x but not have penetrative s*x.