Our first and most loyal Super-Fan joins us for this episode, educating us on the modern marriage and much more:

Using marriage counseling as a tool in your relationship toolbelt

Relationship Expectations: Spoken vs. Unspoken

Husbands Job: “Your job as her husband is to make that question mark over her head as small as possible.”

The guilts of Transitions (Dating, Marriage, Motherhood)

Since 2010, RESGEN has impacted over 300,000 people at conferences, schools, festivals, and other events across the country. RESGEN exists to present the Good News of Christ to thousands of people and help them follow Him for a lifetime.

25 years of restoring generations through personal testimony.

“We don’t really fight anymore in our marriage; we have INTENSE FELLOWSHIP.”

Tom’s own Emotional testimony on his Restored relationship with his Dad and the power of Forgiveness

Check out more on Tom & ResGen @ www.resgen.org

A marriage broken by sexual addiction, now restored and helping others find their way toward restoration. Join us AGAIN for this incredible testimony on reconciliation.

Three levels of recovery: His recovery from addiction. Her recovery from trauma. Their recovery of marriage.

The feeling of grace is different than the reality of forgiveness.

The biological, relational, and emotional repercussions of pornography.

www.knowncounselingservices.com

Resources:

A marriage broken by sexual addiction, now restored and helping others find their way toward restoration. Join us for this incredible testimony.

Nate’s Testimony: “Pornography wasn’t enough.” & “Looking for pleasure wherever I can find it.”

About Known Counseling hy would you choose that (pornography) over me?” & “Is this a marriage worth staying in.”

www.knowncounselingservices.com

At Known Counseling Services, we offer professional mental health services for individuals, couples, or families who have found their lives to be out of balance.  We understand that every person who finds their way to our office is unique - everyone has a different journey!

We want to meet you exactly where you are, and will provide evidence-based treatment in a safe and confidential environment. In addition to in-person therapy, we offer convenient and secure online sessions.

We believe that there is hope for everyone and that healing can come from connected relationships in which we are known and accepted.

MANDATE has officially launched out Patreon page! We have had so much grassroots love and support and now our raving fans are asking how they can help even more. WHAT?!?! The best way for us to reach a wider audience and continue our theme & mission, so eloquently said by JO-Bermueller, is through listener support. The outpouring of love and support has been tremendous and we are thankful for each share and mention we get. Meet us on the ground floor as we continue to get these messages out there and join today! As a MANDATE Patreon member you will get weekly exclusive content from J&B, MANDATE merchandise (logo stickers are in), and more to come!

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“Leadership – Accept Blame & Deflect Praise”

What is your mission field today?

Good, Bad, & Ugly: The stories of being in the trenches during massive city growth, CV19, & local politics

Two MANDATE listener exclusives: Exciting news about Downtown Sioux Falls & is Paul going to put his name in again for mayor?

Joe & Ben celebrate the end of Season 1 

Our lessons learned, our take-aways, our favorite moments

Hype & Goals for Season 2 

See you in 2 weeks, stay tuned!

Imposter Syndrome

Marine Corp Infantry & Sniper

Extensive & Exhausting Training

“Did you have to use your sniper training?”

Imposter Syndrome: People feeling like a fraud. You can’t or won’t take responsibility for things that happened to you.

70% of ADULTS are afflicted with Imposter Syndrome

Cope with imposter syndrome with unhealthy relationships with men = “One-up” (drinking, drinking & driving, fighting etc.)

“My friends and family think I’m tough! How do you tell your story when you haven’t experienced combat?”

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

We have to create an opportunity for men to talk with other people when struggling!

Reach out to Aaron – [email protected] or find on Facebook

The Dream of Professional Baseball to the Reality of Trauma Surgery

Life goal shift in middle of dream

The courage to look at yourself and say, “I’m just not good enough” and embrace a new goal

What you want to do versus what you are supposed to do

The motivation behind being told No

Difference between D.O. and M.D.

The gravity of a simple “Thank You Card”

Importance of Mentorship

Dr. Joe Moen is a chiropractor who opened his business just prior to the pandemic. Through hope & perseverance he was able to find success and more importantly change people's lives through their life choices in health & fitness. If you are looking for a conversation about how to take a step forward in what you think is your worst hour, this episode is for you. Dr. Joe is a loyal husband, father of 2 kiddos, and local business owner. Let's MANDATE a Man Date on the following topics with Dr. Joe:

Hope

Break up in business

Starting a business in CV19

Crucial conversations in marriage

Worst thing we can do is sit still, just move

“Our talents are not meant for us; they are meant for others.”

Hopeful, full of light, & fun = Origin Health

Listener Questions

Find Dr. Joe at originhealthsf.com