The ManDate Podcast

Show Highlights:

Mandate Jingle of the Week

Fear of the Unknown and he similarities between theatre and athletics.

The Masks of Masculinity.

"What's something you should tell me that you've never told me before."

Ask questions now because you may not get that opportunity again; "When were you most proud of me?"

Special Olympics of South Dakota: sosd.org

Episode 23 - Joe Evenson on Deconstructing Masculinity.

A native of Garretson, SD, Evenson was a four-year letter winner and two-year starting linebacker for Augustana from 1998 to 2001. He was an All-North Central Conference honorable mention selection both his junior and senior seasons.

When Joe was coaching football he attended a lecture by longtime Nebraska Coach Ron Brown. There, Coach Brown deconstructed what it means to be a man and flipped it's secular head on to itself. The real tough men say no to alcohol, say no to drugs, say no to sleeping around, and say Yes to Jesus!

Joe walks us through his testimony from football to faith. You can reach out to Joe by finding him on the Make-A-Wish South Dakota site. Please reach out to us if you are a male and looking to get plugged into a group of Christian men here in Sioux Falls.

Show Highlights:

Tally O'Hearn graces Mandate Studios. Additional remarks from Joe about divorce, "Damage left in the wake." The Consequences of Divorce.

The wonderful blessings in marriage. Waking up one day and "seeing" your significant other after lives of busyness. 

Shoutout to Jerry Obermueller, the musician!

The biblical reasons for divorce and know that we are here to support you.

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Episode 22 - Nate Ovenden - Divorce - “If you are not pursuing your wife, someone else will.”

Nate is a long-time resident of Sioux Falls, devoted husband, loving father, and employee at one the state’s largest organizations Sanford Hospital. Nate was recruited to the University of Sioux Falls to play football and experienced Jesus during his early collegiate experience. Nate and his ex-wife were married in college and were divorced shortly after. After years of counseling and Nate's journey towards self-sacrifice redemption was found. Nate is now married to his wife Jenna and they have two beautiful daughters. Nate & Jenna are leaders of a marriage life-group at Central Church and are consistently ringing the bell of pursuit towards God and each other. 

“If you are not pursuing your wife, someone else will.” One of the most profound sentences uttered on the Mandate Podcast. It would have been the easy button for Nate to blame his ex-wife for the divorce, however after years of pain, self-reflection, and counseling he came to the resolution that he was also at fault. We talk to Nate about sex after marriage and how he adamantly pursued Jesus instead of the desires of the flesh. “Sex outside of marriage causes pain.” So much more amazing content for men to hear from Nate. Whether you are staring at a failed marriage, living high in one of the greatest mountain tops of marriage, or just going through the motions of caring for another human being this podcast is for you.

Here is what we talk about:

Ben’s Weekly Made Up Words: “Third-dary”; “The Importance Ladder”

Matt Bertsch is a University of Sioux Falls graduate with a significant calling for business and discipleship. If Matt could’ve predicted that he would be a co-owner of a major painting company after college, he probably would have laughed you out the door. However, he was given an opportunity and ran with it. Now, Matt and his partner Nate, run a multi-location/multi-product commercial and residential painting business in Sioux Falls and Kansas City.

Matt shares with us why Select Painting continues to thrive in a transient culture, using the “Christian” word discipleship in business, fears of growth, and his personal testimony. One of the most impactful stories Matt shares with us all the painting businesses in our community that have spawned off from Select Painting. Matt’s ability to send those people off with grace and be humble that he did his job when they were in his flock, is impactful. Imagine training 12 people to do a job professionally, all the hours poured into the actual technical skill and all the hours poured into the relationship, and then after they have been trained they tell you that they are leaving to start their own painting business. How would you react? Probably not like Matt Bertsch did!

Please check Matt Bertsch out at Select Painting. We can personally attest that this company is one-of-a-kind and does exceptional work. You can find out more about what Select Painting us up to and how you can get a free quote at selectpainting.biz

Joe & Ben ReCap the Negligent, Adventurer Luke Lynass. Some Highlights:

New MANDATE Jingle

Permission to Make Mistakes

The Arrival After Experience

The Climax of Social Media

More on Joe's Divorce and His Ability to Forgive Himself

Born and raised in the Midwest, Luke spent half his life on each side of the Missouri. Influences of gritty country and Americana stem from his upbringing in a western ranching community; electronic and rock from living in the city. His persona - and ultimately his music - land somewhere between these things - gritty and sleek, earthy and ethereal, boy and man. Luke is a husband, father, songwriter, producer, & videographer.

This guy is negligently, adventurous based on the rise, fall, and everything in between of his experiences. Imagine starting the dream as a potential medical doctor, becoming a missionary in Haiti, creating music, starting a CrossFit business, and now running marketing for a major powerhouse in the recruitment space. Luke is constantly evolving his journey by diving deep into life by saying “yes” to opportunities through the lens of intuition.

Check out more about Luke and his music at lukelynass.com or find him on Instagram at @lwlynass

***Teaser ALERT*** - If you haven't listened to full interview with Alana STOP and listen before pushing play here. Then come on back and listen to Joe & Ben as we share our immediate reactions to this introspective, interesting, and hilarious episode!

Check out Alana and more about the 605 Magazine at 605magazine.com, follow on Instagram @605magazine or pick up a magazine across the state FOR FREE!

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605 is an award-winning monthly publication, website, and app celebrating South Dakota.

In a nutshell, 605 is a source for what is going on statewide through multi mediums, like the magazine (online and print), social media (over 50,000 followers on all platforms), The 605 Show podcast, the 605 Classic events, 605 Creative Co., 605 Weddings, and more. 605 travels statewide to capture the people and places that make South Dakota unique and amazing.

Alana joins MANDATE to discuss the origins of the 605 magazine and shares her story about the very first episode. Alana dives deep about her working relationship with her husband and how the two of them cope with work/life balance.

Alana has a passion for South Dakota that would rival any from this state, however she has created a platform to stand on that celebrates the state’s unique characters and events. We speak to her about the loyalty that South Dakotans are embracing, the “strict line” between east and west river communities, and the communities that have fully embraced the vibe that 605 Magazine has created.

Check out more about the 605 Magazine at 605magazine.com, follow on Instagram @605magazine or pick up a magazine across the state FOR FREE!