The Married Life

We just celebrated our 9 year anniversary! So in our latest podcast we give some insight to what each of us did to get us there. Plus in next weeks podcast we talk about what we believe to continue to have a marriage that is constantly being built up.

Ever think your too busy for a vacation? The business would fail without you? Or think that vacations are for lazy people? There are studies that show vacations make you a better boss, harder worker and make your marriage stronger. Take a listen today so you can start planning your next vacation tomorrow.

On todays episode we want to help you invest in your marriage. Investors say to invest 10-15% of your annual income per year for the greatest return. John Maxwell lives by the principle, if you invest 1 hour a day into a specific field you will become an expert in that field. How are you investing in your marriage? Take a listen for some tips and here are some resources to get you going .

Books

Mountaintop Of Marriage

Marriage On The Rock

The 5 Love Languages

The Mingling of Souls:

The DNA of Relationships

From This Day Forward

Bible Reading Plans

Marriage

Youtube

Marriage Today

Pastors

Joby Martin: Song of Solomon Series

Jimmy Evans

Craig Groeschel

Instagram

FierceMarriage

Marriage365

MarriageToday

MarriageWorks

Refer back to our dating podcast

In 1 Samuel 19, David is married to Michal who is king Sauls daughter and king Saul is trying to kill David....talk about issues with the in-laws. But in verse 13 we see how Michal covers for her husband to try to protect him from her dad, AKA the king.

How do you cover for your spouse? Do you cover like Michal did and protect them from anyone, even a king? Or do you throw shade at them? In this episode we discuss the importance of Covering Your Spouse.

Want to change your spouse? Wish they would listen more? Grow more spiritually? Help around the house? Show more love to you and the family? Often times we want to change our spouse to get what we want but to actually change them the change has to start with us.

In this podcast Joe and Krissy talk about Family Systems Theory: That if one person in the family system alters their behavior, the whole system is forced to adjust.

In Part 2 of our Crucial Conversations talk we hit on the "how" to have a successful crucial conversation with your spouse. How to come in with a heart check, loving attitude that isn't about what you can get out of the conversations but what you can do to serve your spouse and the relationship. We believe this will help you have better conversations with your spouse that will build a stronger marriage.

We all have conversations with our spouse, but do we have crucial conversations? Do we know what crucial conversations are? How do we have them?

In these weeks podcast we are going to explain why Crucial Conversations are so important in your marriage and then our next podcast will dive into how to have a crucial conversation with your spouse.

Do you feel like whenever someone asks you how you are your response is "busy". Maybe you made too many commitments, working too much overtime, not sure how to say "no" to people without hurting someones feelings? You use to run your schedule but now it just feels like your schedule is running you. And in the middle of all of this your marriage is being affected because your life is just busy.

Today we want to help you take back your schedule, learn to say no and defeat the myth of busyness. We have one life to live with one spouse, lets make the best of this life for the rest of this life!

Most of us focusing on investing financially but do we focus on investing in ourselves? Because if we don't invest in our lives soon we wont have a life to invest in. So today we want to help you invest in yourself so you can invest in your spouse, family, job and relationships.

Our focus for investing in self are

Eating

Exercise

Rest

Hobbies

Self Reflection

Welcome to The Married Life.

On our latest Instagram Live we interviewed Anthony and Callan Spark from Long Island. They are entrepreneur's, business owners, life coaches, author and parents of 2 month old twins.

As their business life soared, they found their marriage struggling. Anthony was super focused on work but Callan wanted to work on their marriage which Anthony thought was fine. You may have a spouse that think the marriage is great but you know it needs to be worked on but how do you have that conversation? In todays podcast we talk about how they continued to grow a flourishing business and at the same time realize their marriage needed work to.

You can follow them at

Instagram

@callan.emily

@anthonykennethse

Website

phoenixevolution.co