The Mean Lady Talking Podcast

MLT Ep 129 continues the Life in Dysfunction Junction series and will wrap up in 130 regarding how unresolved childhood grief affects us and our relationships all of our lives. 

This is the 3rd in a 5 part series about how childhood issues can affect you as an adult and how we learn what we live and live what we learn. If we grow up being the one who is the Identified Patient or "scapegoat" we carry that into adult relationships.  If we're lucky, as I was, to finally have enough and go "UNCLE!" we  have a chance to be happy and healthy. The Getting Past Your Breakup program can lead you on that journey and make the devastating loss be the best thing that ever happened to you.

Episode 127 is part of the series that began with 126 and will end at 130. Unresolved grief and loss. Relationships broken. Divorce. How childhood issues carry into adult life. 

This is the first podcast in a series about growing up in a dysfunctional family where all are losing their heads and blaming it on you.  You never think, "It's not me, it's them..." and learning to survive there is all you can really think about.

Emotions, for children are really a difficult landscape. They're either screaming bloody murder or sucking it all in. But no one gets a lesson on truly how to act and what life is like for a child in a completely crazy landscape.

I'm going to bring this to a conclusion in a few upcoming podcasts to be released this week.  Stay tuned and please let me know what you think!

This podcast has 4 topics: No Contact when you share children; Revealing yourself when dating and/or a new relationship; Making Healthy Choices; and Get Back Where You Belong Messages.  Enjoy!

When we want to analyze our relationship "health," we need not look further than our partner.  Water seeks its own level and we are attracted to those we can dance with.

Status report and those who lie about DV etc.

This episode covers the Laundrie/Petito relationship timeline and the letter he wrote before his death. 

Status of the podcast and talking about kids continuing relationships with step parents and integration in grief. 

In this episode we discuss the situations created by commitmentphobic people, the frustration of those involved with them and how to deal with the distressing aftermath of recovering from a relationship with a commitmentphobe.