The MUCH requested 4-part Boundaries episode. There is no intro/outro music in parts b and c and only outtro in d.  It's long but all of this is necessary to the importance of the ultimate lesson here. 

Continuing on with the rest of the answers to your questions, the future of the podcast and the MLT JOKE that you have to know for future reference. 

Podcast 105A explaining where the podcast has been, where it is going and the answer to your recent questions. 

When you grow up being blamed, you find yourself in relationships the same way. It takes work to get out of the habit of blaming and being blamed. Gaslighting and triangulation are deadly to relationships. If you've grown up in a dysfunctional family system, you sometimes fall into this quite naturally. It takes work to learn to be responsible, own what you own, don't own what you don't own, and move out of the blame game. #dysfunction #breakup #divorce #relationships #ACOA

I know that most of you listen on podcast apps, which is GREAT, but if you could pleas go to YouTube and subscribe, you can also leave questions and comments when you have them. You DO NOT have to listen on YouTube (I know it's a pain if you're not home) but it would help the podcast A LOT.  So PLEASE SUBSCRIBE! Also, I am putting time stamps in the YouTube description (below the "video") so you can go right to the content if you want to do that. 

https://youtu.be/p4cPOcfKQKU

#obsession #infidelity #socialme #spying #Gerardot #JennairGerardot #MarkGerardot #MeredithChapman #truecrime

Many people have told me that they can't stop following their ex on social media, that they are obsessed with what their ex is doing or has done (cheating). There can be grave results when there is a failure to address obsessing about an ex and their new love or the person they cheated with It's important to block and move on. Obsession is a murky water that will drown you if you don't get out. It becomes a deep dark black hole of emotional despair. I use my life and the very tragic Gerardot case as examples. PLEASE GO TO YOUTUBE AND COMMENT ON THIS PODCAST AND SUBSCRIBE. https://youtu.be/iRQxSd7sRuU

A follow up to some other episodes I've done on covert narcissism. Please go to the YouTube version of the podcast to find links to articles and the MLT/GPYB Narcissism playlist. 

Many people are having a hard time this year. The pandemic makes post-breakup holidays even WORSE.  Hope this episode helps in some small way. 

A funny thing happened on the way to the word of the week. It became the YT topic of the week. Discussion of the misused word EMPATH and Empathetic and a bit about Shane Dawson (this is less about him and more about the general use of the word). The description on YouTube has links to others' videos about Shane

#empath #empathic #empathetic #shanedawson #narcissist #boundaries #metaphysical #psychic #codependency #sciencefiction #grieving #identification #sensitivity

The second in a series we talk about Chris and Shanann meeting and not being honest about who they were. It wasn't straight-up dishonesty but it was more or less 2 facades meeting each other. All of the groundwork is here for what would become a troubled marriage...trouble that is unknown to everyone until the last final fatal weeks. 

 While this has been around a bit, there have been some channels reporting misinformation about this case and I needed to address some of this as well as use this as an opportunity to talk about DV, custody, boundaries & coparenting with a personality disordered ex. There is a lot of information on here, but PLEASE ask questions about leave comments about this story, domestic violence and custody, visitation, etc.

#geoffreypaschel #90dayfiance #custody #domesticviolence #boundaries #coparenting #DVLiars #AmberHeard #coparenting #personalitydisorders #personalitydisorderedex #narcissist #sociopath