When you are in a relationship and something traumatic happens to your partner and they suddenly change into a crazy person. What do about that and how much are you responsible for.

The symptoms of codependency and narcissism are similar.  Are they the same? Can they be the same? More information about rebooting the podcast and preparing for Season 3.  

We all see the world, and other people, how we ourselves are. I have spoken of this many times but it's still a hard concept to get - that someone we cared for did not see things (the world/us) the way we thought. Then we want to tell the world how they "really" are.  Not getting these two things right can cause us so much suffering. Time to get it RIGHT!

We are coming back this week! These 2 podcasts are to let you know where we've been, what we're working on and what Season 3 will hold!  These podcasts are not numbered as they are not "true" podcasts and will be deleted in the future.  

In the first of a few planned episodes, we begin our discussion of unresolved childhood struggles playing themselves out in adult relationships. 

The need for approval is an overdeveloped defense mechanism. It's important to lose our attachment to approval from disapproving people. It will never happen. 

Concluding where we started with MLT 89 - discussing the "arc" of boundaries and where/when/how it all goes wrong especially if you have a fear of conflict. Send your comments, questions etc. and we'll talk MORE about this!

In this episode we talk about resistance to "the work" whether it's our program, our therapist, our trusted friends.  Suddenly we're smarter than everyone else and no one knows what we know.  For the boundaries section, we begin here and will conclude on Episode 90 about Fear of Conflict and Boundaries. 

In this episode we talk about the importance of creating and maintaining balance in our grief recovery protocol.