In this episode we're talking about Breakup Violence, Obsession, and Being Replaced on Social Media.  At the beginning and at the end, the usual suspects - Jodi Arias and Shayna Hubers - make guest appearances at the beginning and at the end

In this third part of this series, we discuss rejecting the rejector, walking away from those who are not treating you right, going back to face your early wounds and being good to you in order to heal your attachment issues. What a healthy person does and does not do. For Patreon supporters 4.99 and above there will be a 4th part – so stay tuned and thank you for your support!!!

In the second part we continue our discussion about how people with attachment issues get into relationships that don't work out.

The first of a 3-part series (4 if you're a Patreon supporter) on Attachment, Rejection and Grief discussing John Bowlby and other attachment theorists. 

In this episode we talk about no-contact, gaslighting, dating burnout (or when to pull back) and future episodes. Enjoy the podcast! Become a Meanie!

In a trial run for a FB and YT Live podcast recording where you get to ask questions, we are recording a video tonight. This is the edited audio. We go to the wayback machine to pull a random letter out about fear of commitment and fear of intimacy. Go to YouTube for the unedited video.

In this episode we continue talking about the ways that we get into "blaming" mode - either as a blamer or as a victim or sometimes both. We talk about unwarranted jealousy and how relationships turn corrosive and destructive..

This episode finishes up the discussion about changing the dance with the personality disordered and moves into GBOT issues - dating, standards and what you want in a future relationship and - MOST IMPORTANTLY - How To Get It!

In this episode 1 of 2 we wade into the wacky world of going to court with the personality disordered, the abuse excuse and how to disarm the narcissistic, socipopathic, dysfunctional crazy people who want to make court your weekly appointment. The second part (55b) will continue about boundaries, PDs and then DATING (no, not with the personality disordered.)

In this episode we return to original Mean Lady subjects: narcissists, mirroring, love bombing, asking questions, accepting unacceptable behavior and jerks who wind up on television (bear with me).