The importance of recognizing your own codependency, whether it's a little or a lot and the importance (for everyone, codependent or not) of building a life in between relationships.

Episode 32 is talking about listener email on a variety of breakup and relationship subjects.

In this episode we're talking about the importance of resolving unresolved losses. Breakup grief is real but you can get through it.

This episode continues the 5-part series of dealing with the personality disordered (or extremely dysfunctional person) and the legal system when it comes to divorce, custody, support, visitation and co-parenting. Boundaries, emails, separation, parenting coordinators, texting, cooperation, breakup, clueless judges and lawyers.

Talking about positive self-talk and healthy self-esteem and how it is SO IMPORTANT to work on this in-between a breakup and how to see rejection - not as a testament to your worth but as a difference of opinion and thankfully that keeps you out of another bad relationship.

Talking about male stalking victims who turn into murder victims like Travis Alexander and Ryan Poston. How male stalking victims do or do not exhibit fear and what measures one should take if an obsessive ex-girlfriend threatens suicide and stalking behavior. Typical domestic violence information is woefully inadequate where male stalking victims are concerned. Stalking, abuse, domestic violence, travis Alexander, Ryan position, Jodi arias, murder, expert male stalking victim, homicide, fear

Episode 20 continues to answer listener questions about dating and standards and compatibility. How and when to talk about former relationships, breakups, divorce, separation, abuse, addiction, children, family, friends.

In this episode we are talking about Listener Email when the ONLY reason you give your perplexed friends and family for staying in a bad relationship is "Because I love him/her" and what friends go through trying to get you to extricate yourself from this relationship. When we wear out our friends and family with our yo-yo relationships, we have to give our relationships and reasoning some thought.

Talking about mixed messages - whether the origin is a lie, confusion or words not lining up with other words or actions, it's very difficult to navigate the meaning behind mixed messages.  Whether in a relationship, during a breakup or dealing with someone who doesn't seem to know his or her own mind, the issue can be maddening! But here is how to untwist the spaghetti strands in your brain.

In this listener email episode, we are answering 2 letters. The first is about co-parenting communication and what is and what is not acceptable. The second is about healthy communication IN a relationship to deal with disagreements and how to deal with secondary losses inherent in every breakup