The 3rd in a 5 part series of Navigating the Legal System with the Personality Disordered and how to deal with these destructive people when you have to coparent with them and how to bring the attention of the judges, lawyers, CPS workers, therapists and teachers to the right place. What to do and what not to do when dealing with divorce, child visitation, child support, with a very difficult person. Divorce, relationships, court, court orders, narcissists, sociopaths

From telling or being told a few fibs to being full-blown "catfished," the world of on-line dating can have a lot of pitfalls if you are not careful and don't know what to look for. In this episode we're talking about being real and sharing who you are and 7 Rules for on-line dating to keep yourself SAFE! We talk dating, video chat, honesty, red flags, listening for nonsense, being gullible and easily taken and how to smarten up in the on-line world.

In this episode we explore how to move away from destructive relationships, recognize and cure fear of intimacy, and become healthy once and for all. Relationships cannot last when there is chaos and destruction.

This episode continues to talk about - is my boyfriend a narcissist?  When we're in these relationships, our heads turn to spaghetti and we fail to figure it out.  We are so blind-sided and our heads get so twisted by these disordered lunatics, we don't know which way is up any more.  It's part of the game.  Relationships, breakups, personality-disorders, codependency, divorce, separation, dating, healthy, unhealthy.

In this episode we are talking about recycling in breakup grief. Just when you thought you were done and over with it, just was you were feeling better, then WHAM...right back in the soup. Not fun, but necessary. Don't fight it; don't feel like a failure. It's important to lean into the grief and know it will not last. Relationships, divorce, separation, breakup, loss, grief, recycling, emotions.

In this episode we talk about revealing details to someone new, bargaining with yourself when some of their revelations are negative, cheating and developing those standards.

In this episode we return to the topic of unresolved losses and how the pain of unresolved grief affects our relationships, our decisions and our lives.  The emotions of grief after a breakup are very real and need to be felt to move on. Do the inventories in Getting Past Your Breakup and honor your grief to move onto new and healthy relationships. Breakup, relationships, divorce, grief, emotions, unresolved losses, loss, life, love.

Before getting into another relationship, it's important to know what you want and need from a future partner, what in you needs to change, and how to get specific about the kind of relationship and the kind of partner you need.

The second in a series of breaking up with a narcissist whether they meet the true clinical criteria or they are pathologically narcissistic. It's important to stay no-contact with these self-centered, manipulative people.

In this episode we answer listener mail about the after effects of breaking up with a narcissist and moving on.