The Mental Health Janitors

By Aaron Quinonez and Jessica Burgans

Faith-based trauma recovery for veterans, first responders, and the families who carry it with them.

The Mental Health Janitors is hosted by Aaron "Sgt Q" Quinonez, a Marine 1st AN

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November 12, 2025 Eoisode116 - Mental Resilience for Veterans Using Brain Science and Daily Habits
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Ever wonder why doing hard things actually makes you stronger, not just mentally, but spiritually?
In this episode, Sgt Q and Doc Jess dive into the neuroscience of faith and grit, unpacking how God wired the anterior cingulate cortex (ACC) — the part of your brain that grows when you face challenges instead of running from them.
They get real about the veteran transition: the pride, the pain, and the moment you realize the mission didn’t end when the uniform came off. From morning routines and mindfulness to faith, brotherhood, and doing the hard work of healing, this episode shows how resilience is built one choice, one prayer, one hard day at a time.
It’s not about getting over your past. It’s about going through it with purpose, with faith, and with a battle buddy by your side.
Because healing isn’t weakness. It’s warfare.

Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome to The Mental Health Janitors
01:10 – What the ACC is and why it matters
04:22 – How fear and faith battle in your brain
08:45 – Doing hard things: God’s design for resilience
13:17 – Morning and evening routines that rewire your mind
17:03 – Meditation, prayer, and the neuroscience of peace
21:45 – From soldier to servant: the veteran’s new mission
26:10 – The power of community and battle buddies
32:00 – Holistic healing: body, mind, and spirit
38:27 – Real talk on pride, purpose, and redemption
42:50 – Final encouragement: your healing is holy work
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Find practical strategies, real testimonies, and truth that doesn’t flinch.
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🎧 Website: https://thementalhealthjanitors.com/
🎧 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/the-mental-health-janitors/
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November 05, 2025 Episode 115 - How to Stop Emotional Hijacks and Stay in Control When You’re Triggered
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Ever catch yourself reacting before thinking? saying or doing something you instantly regret?

In this episode, Sgt Q and Doc Jess unpack what’s really going on when emotions take the wheel, from viral “ratchet” behavior online to the quiet moments we all lose our cool. They break down the neuroscience of emotional hijacking, the spiritual roots of shame and pride, and why self-awareness is the key to healing.

This isn’t about judging bad behavior, it’s about understanding it, owning it, and choosing growth over chaos. Whether it’s in your marriage, leadership, or mental health journey, this episode will help you build the emotional discipline to stay calm, present, and anchored in truth.

Because real healing starts when we stop reacting from pain… and start responding with purpose.

Timestamps:

00:00 – Welcome to The Mental Health Janitors
00:38 – Why people “lose it” online and in life
02:44 – The truth behind “ratchet” behavior
06:15 – When emotions override logic: the amygdala hijack
10:02 – How shame drives chaos and self-destruction
14:29 – Learning emotional control through awareness
19:33 – The RAIN method: how to regulate your response
25:21 – Faith, healing, and the courage to pause
30:44 – Leading and parenting with emotional maturity
36:10 – When silence is the strongest response
39:58 – Final encouragement: peace is power

Be part of our online family where faith meets mental health, and broken stories become tools for purpose. Find practical strategies, real testimonies, and truth that doesn’t flinch.

🔗 Join our community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1988960518109166/

Listen on:

🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0nPegvqPi1AO47Xbx3EvNz?si=d2cdfa086c32460c
🎧 Website: https://thementalhealthjanitors.com/
🎧 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/the-mental-health-janitors/

Connect with Aaron “Sgt Q” Quinonez:

Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/SgtQ13
LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/keynotespeakerbusinessscalingcoachbetabloxjudgerealitytvstarpodcaster/
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October 28, 2025 Episode 114- When Viral Videos Lie: The Truth About False Accusations & Public Outrage
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What if the person "exposing the truth" in a viral video... is the real villain?
In this hard-hitting episode, Sgt Q and Doc Jess pull back the curtain on the chaos caused by viral videos, when lies, attention-seeking, and manipulation go unchecked and unchallenged. They dig into how these moments of “internet justice” often backfire, destroying lives and spreading false narratives.
From Cluster B behavior to fake accusations caught on doorbell cameras, this episode explores how destructive patterns get amplified by social media, and why it’s not enough to just hit “share.” It’s time to be wise, not reactive.
If you’ve ever felt betrayed by someone weaponizing faith, or overwhelmed by the chaos online, this episode will give you clarity, and a call to action.
Press play, take a deep breath, and learn how to stay grounded in a world addicted to outrage.

Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome to The Mental Health Janitors
00:32 – Viral Videos & Real-Life Consequences
01:45 – What “Behaving Badly” Really Means
03:25 – Emotional Triggers from Viral Clips
09:15 – DoorDash Accusation: Truth vs. Hype
11:29 – Spotting Toxic Behavior Patterns
16:21 – Healthy Boundaries for Mental Health
21:44 – Identifying Abusive Relationships
31:35 – Power of Support Systems in Healing
32:36 – Mental Health Support in Churches
37:11 – Final Thoughts & Mental Health Tips

Be part of our online community for practical tools, encouragement, and faith-fueled discussions about mental health and purpose.

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🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0nPegvqPi1AO47Xbx3EvNz?si=d2cdfa086c32460c
🎧 Website: https://thementalhealthjanitors.com/
🎧 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/the-mental-health-janitors/

Connect with Aaron “Sgt Q” Quinonez:
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/SgtQ13
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/keynotespeakerbusinessscalingcoachbetabloxjudgerealitytvstarpodcaster/
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October 14, 2025 Episode 113- Understanding the Overlap and Real Solutions of ADHD, Anxiety, and Burnout
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Is it ADHD, anxiety, or just burnout? Let’s get real about what’s actually going on with YOU.
In this episode, Sgt Q and Doc Jess dive deep into one of the most misunderstood mental health topics, the overlap between ADHD, anxiety, depression, and PTSD.
Learn how to tell the difference, when to seek help, and how to stop letting labels define you.
We’ll also share real, science-backed strategies to help you regain focus, improve structure, and feel more in control, even without medication.
From sleep and nutrition to managing screen time and routines, these small shifts can reduce ADHD symptoms by up to 70%.
This might be the episode that helps you finally understand yourself on a deeper level.
🎧 Press play, take a deep breath, and let’s figure this out together.

Timestamps:
00:00 - Mental Health Check-ins That Actually Help
01:07 - What ADHD Really Looks Like Across the Spectrum
02:20 - Fear and Misconceptions Around ADHD Diagnosis
03:47 - Lifestyle Hacks That Support ADHD Healing
05:32 - Top ADHD Tools and Resources That Work
10:03 - Using Systems and Discipline to Manage ADHD
10:33 - Empowering Neurodivergent Minds with Real Tools
12:34 - How to Stay Productive with ADHD
16:47 - Practical Tools for Daily Management
20:52 - Systems for Business and Personal Growth
23:59 - Building Growth Through ADHD and Shared Wisdom

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Be part of our Workplace Wellness Facebook group for practical mental health tips, real-world advice, and ongoing support from people who get it.
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Listen to This Episode On:
🎧 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0nPegvqPi1AO47Xbx3EvNz?si=d2cdfa086c32460c
🎧 Website - https://thementalhealthjanitors.com/
🎧 Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/the-mental-health-janitors/

Connect with Aaron “Sgt Q” Quinonez:
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/SgtQ13
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/keynotespeakerbusinessscalingcoachbetabloxjudgerealitytvstarpodcaster/
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October 07, 2025 Episode 112- Your Mental Health Is Your Most Underrated Business Asset
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When was the last time you checked in with your own mental health?
In this eye-opening episode of The Mental Health Janitors, Sgt Q and Doc Jess get brutally honest about what self-care really looks like. From running businesses to leading families, they unpack how grit and discipline can be both your greatest strength, and your biggest downfall if left unchecked.
This isn’t another “self-care” talk filled with fluff or buzzwords. It’s a grounded conversation on emotional intelligence, spiritual warfare, and how unchecked emotions can sabotage your relationships, leadership, and faith.
You’ll hear real stories of growth, failure, and redemption, plus learn how daily habits like gratitude, discipline, and checking in with God can transform not just your mind, but your entire life.
Because at the end of the day, mental health isn’t just a trend.
It’s your responsibility.
Tune in to the full episode of The Mental Health Janitors, available now on YouTube and all podcast platforms.
Listen, reflect, and start building the discipline that leads to real peace.

Timestamps:
00:00 - Mental Health Check-ins and Tools
03:52 - True Discipline Builds Long-Term Peace, Not Burnout
07:16 - How Emotional Instability Opens Up to Spiritual Attacks
14:29 - Learning Emotional Control Inside Relationships
18:34 - Emotional Intelligence and Leadership
29:02 - Emotional Regulation As A Leader, Parent, and Business Owner
36:50 - Make Your First 20 Minutes with God Truly Yours
44:21 - The Ripple Effect of Mental Health in the Workplace
45:05 - Surrounding Yourself with Positive Influences
46:05 - Encouraging Small Steps and Honesty

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Be part of our Workplace Wellness Facebook group for practical mental health tips, real-world advice, and ongoing support from people who get it.
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Listen to This Episode On:
Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0nPegvqPi1AO47Xbx3EvNz?si=d2cdfa086c32460c
Website - https://thementalhealthjanitors.com/
Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/the-mental-health-janitors/

Connect with Aaron “Sgt Q” Quinonez:
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/SgtQ13
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48min
September 30, 2025 Episode 111-Why You Always Wake Up at 3 AM (Cortisol, Trauma & Sleep Hacks)
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Have you ever woken up at exactly 3:00 AM—wide awake, anxious, and unable to fall back asleep?
It’s not just a coincidence.
In this powerful episode of The Mental Health Janitors, hosts Sergeant Q and Doc Jess unpack the science, psychology, and spirituality behind the infamous 3AM wake-up, sometimes called the witching hour.
Whether you're dealing with trauma, high stress, PTSD, or simply feel like your mind won’t shut off at night, this conversation will change the way you think about sleep forever.
You’ll hear practical, faith-informed insights on how to lower stress, regulate your nervous system, and build healthier sleep habits without medication.
And finally, we reveal one simple, unexpected practice that’s showing powerful results for deep, restorative sleep, and it’s probably not what you think.
👉 Watch now, and start taking your nights back.

Timestamps:
00:08 – Welcome to The Mental Health Janitors Podcast
00:43 – Why You’re Waking at 3AM: Stress, Cortisol & More
03:54 – How Cortisol Impacts Your Sleep Cycle
07:22 – The Link Between Poor Sleep and Mental Health
11:20 – Strategies to Sleep Better Without Medication
21:44 – How Nighttime Habits Support Better Sleep
27:18 – Practical Ways to Stay Asleep Through the Night
29:36 – The Brain Science Behind Rest and Recovery
29:53 – A Surprising Tool That Helps You Rest Deeper
30:08 – How Rest Affects Your Emotional Health
30:25 – Quick Steps to Improve Your Sleep Tonight

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Be part of our Workplace Wellness Facebook group for practical mental health tips, real-world advice, and ongoing support from people who get it.
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Listen to This Episode On:
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🎧 Website - https://thementalhealthjanitors.com/
🎧 Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/the-mental-health-janitors/

Connect with Aaron “Sgt Q” Quinonez:
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LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/keynotespeakerbusinessscalingcoachbetabloxjudgerealitytvstarpodcaster/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sgt.q_/?hl=en
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September 23, 2025 Episode 110- Why Submission Doesn’t Mean Weakness in Christian Marriage
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What if ‘submission’ in marriage was never about control, but about strength, trust, and God’s design for love?
In this episode, Doc Jess and Holly (Mrs. Q) dive into an often-misunderstood topic, what it truly means to be a Christian wife.
Holly shares her raw perspective on why the word “submissive” has always felt heavy, while Jess reframes it through biblical truth, showing how submission is less about weakness and more about trust, timing, and partnership. Together, they discuss forgiveness, the weight of leadership in a marriage, and how communication can either break or build the bond between husband and wife.
Don’t miss this powerful conversation—tune in now and discover how to build a marriage rooted in faith, trust, and love.
Timestamps:
00:08 -- Welcome to The Mental Health Janitors Podcast
02:56 -- Why the Word 'Submission' Triggers So Many Christian Women
05:51 -- Jordan Peterson's Metaphor and Parenting Dynamics
12:09 -- Challenges in Communication and Constructive Feedback
18:10 -- The Role of a Helpmeet and Submission in Marriage
22:02 – The Tension Between Wanting Independence and Partnership
25:21 – Mutual Submission in Marriage When Wives Lead in Some Areas
27:16 – When Not to Submit Biblical Grounds for Exceptions
28:52 – Consent and Boundaries in Christian Marriage
30:20 – Husbands Responsibility Beyond Dying for the Family Living for Them
32:21 – Submission Is Voluntary Not Forced
43:18 -- The Importance of Self-Reflection and Honesty

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🎧 Website - https://thementalhealthjanitors.com/
🎧 Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/the-mental-health-janitors/

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September 17, 2025 Episode 109- Trauma, Radicalization, and Social Media: A Mental Health Wake-Up Call
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How far are you willing to go to protect your mind from the hidden dangers of social media?
In this gripping episode of The Mental Health Janitors, Aaron “SgtQ” Quinonez and Jessica "Doc Jess" Burgans tackle one of today’s most urgent threats: how social media algorithms drive radicalization, fuel rage, and shatter mental health.
Amid the global shock of Charlie Kirk’s assassination, they expose how digital echo chambers trap minds, distort reality, and amplify trauma, while revealing the critical difference between PTS and PTSD and why unresolved pain makes people easy targets for extremism.
This episode is a wake-up call—and a roadmap to protect your mind, repair relationships, and reclaim clarity in a divided world.

Timestamps:
02:55 – Welcome to the Mental Health Janitors Podcast
03:08 – Doc Jess’ Surgery and Recovery Journey
10:02 – How Social Media Amplifies Traumatic Events
14:55 – Radicalization: The Mental Health Connection
25:01 – Society’s Pendulum Swing: Understanding Extremes
32:57 – Social Media Algorithms and Their Impact on Our Minds
41:24 – Why Mental Health Matters in Today’s Society
49:57 – Practical Strategies for Mental Health Support
53:38 – Personal Reflections and Future Plans

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🎧 Website - https://thementalhealthjanitors.com/
🎧 Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/the-mental-health-janitors/

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48min
September 09, 2025 Episode 108- Financial Anxiety in America: How Money Stress Impacts Your Mental Health
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Are you feeling the pressure of rising bills, shrinking paychecks, or the weight of comparison on social media?
In this powerful episode of The Mental Health Janitors, Aaron "Sgt Q" Quinonez and guest Holly Quinonez get real about financial anxiety, mental health, and how to build resilience in the face of economic uncertainty.
Through raw, real-life stories, they share their journeys from being flat broke to running multimillion-dollar businesses, without sugarcoating the process. They unpack the mental toll of financial stress, explore how money anxiety shows up differently for men and women, and call out the damaging trap of online comparison culture.
You'll learn practical strategies, mindset shifts, and free tools you can use today to reduce stress, get grounded, and take back control of your money and mental well-being.
Timestamps:
0:10 - Financial Hardship and Early Career Struggles
3:40 - Transition to Mental Health Focus
6:55 - Impact of Inflation and Economic Policies
8:54 - Gender Differences in Financial Stress
16:34 - Practical Advice for Financial Stress Management
20:31 - Budgeting Hacks, Amazon Spending Habits, and Delayed Gratification
35:04 - The Role of Volunteering in Mental Health

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Be part of our Workplace Wellness Facebook group for practical mental health tips, real-world advice, and ongoing support from people who get it.
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Listen to This Episode On:
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🎧 Website - https://thementalhealthjanitors.com/
🎧 Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/the-mental-health-janitors/

Connect with Aaron “Sgt Q” Quinonez:
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September 03, 2025 Episode 107- Mental Strength Lessons Everyone Can Learn From Taylor Swift’s Engagement
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Taylor Swift’s engagement is making headlines but what is it doing to our mental health?
In this episode of The Mental Health Janitors, Sgt Q (Aaron Quinonez) and Holly “Mrs. Q” Quinonez explore how our obsession with celebrity culture distracts us from real growth. Using Taylor Swift’s engagement as a case study, they break down how dopamine-driven media feeds mental fragility and steals our focus from things that actually build resilience.
From the battlefield to the brain, they unpack how the anterior cingulate cortex (ACC), daily habits, and discomfort forge true mental strength. If you’ve ever felt stuck in victim mentality, low motivation, or endless scrolling, this episode is your wake-up call.
It's time to trade distractions for discipline and start building the life you actually want.
Timestamps:
00:00 – Mental Health Janitors Intro & Doc Jess Recovery Update
02:15 – Celebrity Obsession and Its Negative Impact on Mental Health
08:30 – Social Media, Instant Gratification, and False Dopamine Hits
15:00 – How Participation Trophies Weaken Mental Toughness
22:00 – Building Resilience Through Hardship: ACC and Marine Corps Lessons
30:00 – Discipline vs Motivation: What Drives Personal Growth
38:00 – Breaking the Victim Mentality to Reclaim Mental Health
45:00 – Daily Habits That Build Long-Term Mental Resilience
52:00 – Empowering Personal Growth Through Education and Support Systems

Join the Conversation & Access More Resources
Be part of our Workplace Wellness Facebook group for practical mental health tips, real-world advice, and ongoing support from people who get it.
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Listen to This Episode On:
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🎧 Website - https://thementalhealthjanitors.com/
🎧 Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/the-mental-health-janitors/

Connect with Aaron “Sgt Q” Quinonez:
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LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/keynotespeakerbusinessscalingcoachbetabloxjudgerealitytvstarpodcaster/
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