The Modern Frida

Moving to a new city is supposed to be an exciting fresh start, but the reality of relocation is often much messier. Whether you have never left your hometown or you are just craving new energy, this breakdown of my move is for any creatives navigating the stress of finding a place to live. I am covering all the dos and don'ts so you can avoid the financial and logistical headaches I dealt with.

If you have ever considered a big move or felt overwhelmed by the pressure of relocating to a new city, this conversation is for you. I wanted to share the reality behind the apartment hunt and the unexpected costs that caught me off guard. 

Have you ever had a move go completely sideways? Let me know your experience in the comments below 💌👇🏽

0:00 My Journey From West Texas to San Antonio
0:45 Reflecting on My Time Back Home
2:01 Trusting the Process and Finding a New Job
3:24 The Nightmare of Apartment Hunting
7:28 Discovering the Unwanted Guests
15:46 Essential Tips for a Successful Move

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In this episode of the Modern Frida Podcast, I sit down with independent artist Jimmy Khalo to talk about why I genuinely believe they did everything right.

From creating an entire album world from scratch with almost no budget, to producing their own music, building physical press kits, shooting visuals with intention, and refusing to become “just another link” online — this conversation reminded me what artistry really looks like.

We talk about:
• building art with intention
• burnout, balance & creative identity
• learning to say yes to yourself
• the pressure of being an independent artist
• creating without permission
• making physical art in a digital world
• sending music to record labels
• and the emotional journey behind the album “Goldilocks”

If you’re looking for inspiration as an independent artist, this episode will remind you what’s possible when you fully believe in your vision.

Listen to Jimmy Khalo’s music:
https://jimmykhalo.com/goldilocks

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https://www.instagram.com/jimmykhalo

00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro
01:03 Discovering Jimmy on Threads
03:28 Origin of Jimmy Kahlo
05:03 Learning Production and Influences
07:54 Pandemic to First Singles
09:43 Naming the Album Goldilocks
11:20 Rushing Burnout and Balance
13:58 Album Vision and Sweet Spot
17:36 Cover Art Water Symbolism
20:40 DIY Team and No Budget
24:11 Song Highlights and Chase Story
25:47 11 Genres and Musical Palette
28:29 Advice Clarity and Permission
35:46 Say Yes First
37:19 Art Deprivation Story
40:06 Numbers Versus Connection
43:27 Pitching Labels IRL
49:04 Press Kit Power Move
54:13 No Rules In Music
56:44 Making The Music Video
59:14 Keep Creating Closing

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What if the thing you’ve been told will “grow you” is actually what’s draining you?

In this episode, I get honest about my relationship with social media—the highs, the lows, and why even when the numbers go up… something still feels off. 

What would it look like to step back and choose real life connection over constantly posting?

If you’ve ever questioned whether you need to be online to build a life you love, this episode might shift something for you.

Inside👇

•  the disconnect between “doing everything right” online (posting, showing up, growing) and still feeling unfulfilled 
•  how chasing numbers, views, and engagement can quietly affect self-worth 
•  the emotional crash that can come even when your content performs “well” 
•  why stepping back and taking breaks from social media has been part of my reset process 
•  what I’m learning about the difference between digital connection and real-life connection 
•  how I’m beginning to rethink what “success” actually looks like as a creative 
•  the shift toward creating with more intention instead of pressure or algorithm-chasing 
•  a reminder that it’s okay to question your relationship with social media—and choose differently 

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What if your messy room has nothing to do with being messy or owning too many things?

Because I really thought that was my problem… until it clicked.

After two years of decluttering and trying to keep my space clean, I realized it’s not about organization—it’s about decision making. The “maybes,” the “I’ll deal with it later,” and the versions of myself I hadn’t fully let go of.

In this episode, I’m talking about the real reason your room keeps getting messy, how clutter is connected to your mindset, and why learning to make small decisions can impact your self growth, creativity, and overall direction in life.

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed maybe it’s not about cleaning your space… maybe it’s about clearing who you no longer are.

Tune in if you're over the chaos!

If you enjoy this episode, you'll definitely like

 75. The Dark Side of Thrifting and its Impact on your Mental Heath

listen to my album here <3

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If you've ever seen me and thought "Wow she really goes for what she wants and gets it done" or anything close to that, let me tell you that was not always the case.

 In fact I use to be someone who lacked motivation and the will to initiate action. But one moment in my early twenties changed that for me and today I'm sharing that story with you.

So if you've been feeling like you're falling short and not hustling enough towards your dreams tune in because this might be the story that makes it click fore you <3

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Lately I’ve been noticing how easy it is to just keep pushing through things without really checking in with myself. My energy, my habits, my environment… all of it kind of blends together until something forces me to slow down and pay attention.

And in the middle of those thoughts, I started thinking about Lana Del Rey.

The way she seems to move through life, the choices she’s made, and how different that feels from the way we’re usually told success is supposed to look.

In this episode, I talk about:

• that moment I realized I might be ignoring my own signals 
•  why I’m finally taking my cycle and energy more seriously (because clearly I can’t keep pretending I’m the same person every day of the month) 
•  this weird tension between wanting more… but also wanting peace so badly 
•  and what I actually think I want my life to look like when I’m not performing it for anyone

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In this episode, I’m coming back to the podcast after some time away and sharing honestly about where I’ve been. I didn’t think I would continue podcasting, especially as my focus has shifted more toward music, but seeing that you’re still here, still listening💕 it really means something to me.

I’m embracing a new way of showing up: less polished, less perfect, but more real. From recording in my car to reflecting on everything I’ve been learning lately, I’m leaning into being a student of life and a teacher of what I’m learning.

I share a recent experience of planning my sister’s birthday, how it threw off my routine, and what it taught me about discipline, burnout, and getting back on track. I also talk about my relationship with the gym and how it mirrors so much of life—especially when it comes to pushing through resistance and not falling back into old patterns.

This episode is really about learning how to keep going, even when you don’t feel like it—and how to create a new experience, even when your circumstances haven’t changed.

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In this episode, I'm joined with multidisciplinary artist Ashley Trabue to talk about the gap between ideas and action—and why so many creatives get stuck living in their heads.

Inspired by a quote from Kid Cudi, we dive into what it really means to stop imagining and start creating. From overthinking music videos to navigating perfectionism, social media pressure, and creative identity, this is an open conversation about choosing messy action over waiting for the “perfect” moment.

We also explore:

•  Why your ideas don’t need to be perfect to be shared 
•  How taking action actually creates clarity 
•  The pressure of social media—and how to move past it 
•  Letting go of perfection and embracing imperfect art 
•  Why creativity grows the more you use it 

If you’ve been sitting on ideas, overthinking your next move, or waiting until everything feels “ready”—this episode is your reminder to just start.❤️

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its okay to let go...greatness is on the other side

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Y’all, Instagram was draining me. I spent $700 on a social media coach, tried to follow all the advice… and still felt stuck, frustrated, and over it. In this episode of the Modern Frida Podcast, I get real about why IG just wasn’t working for me—and how I finally decided to pivot to YouTube.

I’m talking about creating content that actually feels good, not chasing likes, algorithms, or anyone else’s version of “success.” If you’ve been questioning whether it’s time to step back from Instagram—or just need some encouragement to do your thing without guilt—this episode is for you.

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