The Multiorgasmic Millionaire

Being a mom, often, pleasuring ourselves is the last thing we think of or even want.

But, in today's episode, Amanda Testa and I talk about the importance of having a self pleasure practice and the difference between self love and self pleasure alongside the challenges of early motherhood and reclaiming your body after birth and breastfeeding.

We talk about why dropping the goal around sex and self pleasure is important not only for helping you have better sexual experiences, but for having more varied sexual experiences…so nothing ever gets boring!

How can self pleasure help you have more varied, less mechanical, less boring sex? Listen in to find out how and hear why Amanda says that having a good sex life is a big deal for being a good parent.

Amanda Testa is a sex, love, and relationship coach and founder of Find Your Feminine Fire. She helps overwhelmed women reconnect to their sexuality with simple tantric techniques they can use to feel luscious in their bodies, feel more pleasure, take sex from a to do to something they look forward to, and to have more support and playfulness in their intimate relationships.

Find Amanda at: www.amandatesta.com

And get her free gift to you at: www.amandatesta.com/intimacy/

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Being a mom, often, pleasuring ourselves is the last thing we think of or even want.

But, in today’s episode, Amanda Testa and I talk about the importance of having a self pleasure practice and the difference between self love and self pleasure alongside the challenges of early motherhood and reclaiming your body after birth and breastfeeding.

Sex toys are a lot like the big, loud, noisy Tonka trucks that your toddlers' grandmaw gets him for his birthday:

They're fun to play with for about 5 minutes and then…they go play in the box it came in for an hour!

When it comes to sex toys, if you want better sex or to become multiorgasmic, don't get distracted by shiny lights and tech features!

If you've ever wondered if you'll be able to orgasm without a vibrator, in a different position than the one that always works, if you'll ever be able to experience a different type of orgasm besides clitoral (there are at least 6 other types as detailed in episode 015!), or how you might ever become multiorgasmic: The simpler the sex toy, the better!

In today's episode, I tell you about 5 of my favorite sex toys, why you'd want to use them, how to use them, and where to buy them.

In fact, 3 of the 5 sex toys that I tell you about today were essential in helping me open up to my full multiorgasmic potential and having all 7 types of female orgasms that I talked about in episode 15.

Take a listen to see how I used them to get there!

Here's a list of my top 5 and where to get them:

1. Glass dildo: Icicle No 8 - $21 on Amazon

https://www.amazon.com/Icicles-2908-00-No-8/dp/B003YIDWNM

1. D-1 or D-2 Laid moonstone dildo from Norway – D-2 is $99 at Luxe Vibes

https://www.luxevibes.com/collections/laid/products/laid-d-2-stone-dil-black

1. Jade Egg $70 in my Jade shop

http://laceybroussard.com/jade-egg-shop/

1. Anal Plug: Icicle No 26 - $19 on Amazon

https://www.amazon.com/Icicles-2926-00-No-26/dp/B0078KPQQ8/ref=pd_sim_121_7?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B0078KPQQ8&pd_rd_r=9VCESX4GR4Z5YD5RFTKC&pd_rd_w=Q9Euj&pd_rd_wg=wh80M&psc=1&refRID=9VCESX4GR4Z5YD5RFTKC

1. G-spot wand: Njoy Pure G spot metal wand - $63 on Amazon

https://www.amazon.com/Njoy-Pure-Metal-Polished-Steel/dp/B00FEKPCTU

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Sex toys are a lot like the big, loud, noisy Tonka trucks that your toddlers’ grandmaw gets him for his birthday:

They’re fun to play with for about 5 minutes and then…they go play in the box it came in for an hour!

When it comes to sex toys, if you want better sex or to become multiorgasmic, don’t get distracted by shiny lights and tech features!

If you’ve ever wondered if you’ll be able to orgasm without a vibrator, in a different position than the one that always works,

What does it mean to be a feminine (r)evolutionary? What is the path of evolution look like through motherhood?

In today's episode of The Multiorgasmic Mama podcast, Aurora and I talk about her latest book she co-authored: The New Feminine Evolutionary.

Through her powerful story-telling, she takes us on the 5 part journey of embracing the mother by becoming "she who holds", "she who is held", "she who ignites the spark", "she who tends the flame", "and she who stands in the fire."

Aurora is a fantastic story-teller so grab yourself a cup of tea or coffee, or a glass of wine and get cozy.

We also discuss the nuances of masculine/feminine roles and how to balance both within us. We explore archetypes and sub-personalities to help you speak what you want while still having an open heart of compassion.

This episode will give you a glimpse into how coaches help people learn to love all parts of themselves!

Aurora Anurca Farber, Transformational Coach, Writer, International Speaker & Relationship Educator, is on a mission to help women ignite their "Feminine Fire" (the heart-light within that integrates life-giving power, compassionate love and intuitive wisdom) and that these 3 feminine flames are the key to catalyzing passionate and purposeful action that will heal our world.

Aurora holds honors degrees in Literature and Foreign Language, along with a professional certification in Coaching. She is a co-author of The New Feminine Evolutionary: Embody Presence, Become the Change. She has been a featured speaker and relationship workshop facilitator in Hong Kong, Malaysia, Taiwan, China and the US. She loves exploring the world and has been to over 40 countries and lived in Europe and Asia most of her adult life.

Through private coaching, online programs, women circles and retreats, Aurora creates "sacred spaces" for women to be held, witnessed and loved exactly as they are right here, right now. Her guiding vision is a world of women claiming their creative powers, loving their body temples, and being beacons of fierce wisdom as they burn away archaic, limiting beliefs and light the world on fire with love.

Find Aurora at:

www.aurorafarber.com

And join her Facebook group, The Feminine Fire Sisterhood Circle at:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/174640519750590/

What does it mean to be a feminine (r)evolutionary? What is the path of evolution look like through motherhood?

In today’s episode of The Multiorgasmic Mama podcast, Aurora and I talk about her latest book she co-authored: The New Feminine Evolutionary.

Through her powerful story-telling, she takes us on the 5 part journey of embracing the mother by becoming “she who holds”, “she who is held”, “she who ignites the spark”, “she who tends the flame”, “and she who stands in the fire.

I want you to imagine what life could be like if you didn't live with the debilitating, life sucking, energy draining sexual guilt and shame you likely grew up with.

Think for a sec… What would be possible for you if you could fully celebrate your sexuality instead of judge, shame, or feel guilty, uncomfortable or awkward about it?

Who would you get to be in the bedroom and in life if you really owned your own inner sex god/dess?

This question matters, because I don't think people ever stop to consider what it would be like to be free of sexual guilt and shame... Because no one is really going around sexually celebrating in a truly integrated and healthy way.

I lived with this sexual guilt and shame for 3 decades…having grown up in the South in a very conservative religious community.

Until one day I woke up and said, "NO MORE! I will not live another day on this planet hating my body and holding back how I sound and express myself sexually.

I wanted to be free to explore sex and NOT feel guilty!

So I did everything that came in my path to heal this. Not gonna lie, it took time. But, it worked. And today, I have nothing but celebration for my sexiness and my sexuality.

And there's nothing more that I want for you too.

Because life is too short to go another day hating the body that houses your beautiful soul or feeling held back to express your true authentic sexuality because you, and everyone around you is scared of it for no good reason.

Your body and your sexuality are divine. You can't separate the sacred from the sexy. But, if you've been trying, because you don't know any better, I want you to tune in to today's episode.

Today, I give you 4 clear-cut steps to overcome sexual guilt and shame so we can celebrate your confidence, power, and sexiness together instead!

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I want you to imagine what life could be like if you didn’t live with the debilitating, life sucking, energy draining sexual guilt and shame you likely grew up with.

Think for a sec… What would be possible for you if you could fully celebrate your sexuality instead of judge, shame, or feel guilty, uncomfortable or awkward about it?

Who would you get to be in the bedroom and in life if you really owned your own inner sex god/dess?

You might have no idea but it's surprisingly difficult to find a relationship expert who can help a couple get their erotic, sexual desires met too.

That's why I brought on sensuality, relationship and love coach from The Netherlands, Guusje Wannet.

Guusje's been a family coach and therapist for many years in The Netherlands and noticed a lack of support around sexuality within relationships. That's why she went out and got specialized training for it!

First, hear her describe the 3 specific steps she took to reclaim her sexuality and sensuality after rape and how she went from always choosing the safe man to one who reminded her and brought out her wild, sensual self AND made her feel safe too.

Second, hear us talk about the importance of speaking freely without consequences within relationship and why this space holding is so important for getting your sexual desires met within long-term relationships.

If you've ever wondered how you can create a safe container for communication without making our desires mean something or how to deal with triggers, check out what we have to say about triggers being an opportunity for healing and integration.

This is so important, because when someone inside the relationship gets triggered, we can either look at it as an opportunity to evaluate our own truth around that conditioning, or, we can take the easy and unconscious way and disregard the opportunity for growth and potentially destroy the relationship along the way.

One of the saddest things is to see a relationship fall apart because one person isn't willing to dive into the trigger.

And since we all get triggered deeply at one point or another within long-term relationships, you should take a listen!

Guusje Wannet is a Sensuality, Love & Relationship coach based in Europe and working internationally.

She is wildly passionate about the beauty of life. People call her a free spirit and praise her radically open, warm and honest style of coaching. She is a mother of three and a stepmother to another three. She rocks at keeping her Sensual Glow whilst running a successful business, making lasagna and doing Pilates.

You can find her at:

www.sensualglow.nl

You might have no idea but it’s surprisingly difficult to find a relationship expert who can help a couple get their erotic, sexual desires met too.

That’s why I brought on sensuality, relationship and love coach from The Netherlands, Guusje Wannet.

Guusje’s been a family coach and therapist for many years in The Netherlands and noticed a lack of support around sexuality within relationships. That’s why she went out and got specialized training for it!