What happens when the life you built falls apart? In this episode of The Next Fix Podcast, Ryan Penley sits down with Josh Tomeoni—men’s coach, Certified Financial Planner™, and host of The Derelict Podcast—to unpack his powerful comeback story. After walking through divorce and addiction, Josh now helps men reclaim their wealth, confidence, and purpose so they can thrive in the next chapter.
🔹 Facing the slow realization of a failing marriage
🔹 How codependency fuels unhealthy relationships
🔹 The hidden ways addiction shows up beyond substances
🔹 Why healing must be for yourself, not for others
🔹 Sitting with grief—and why it’s necessary for growth
🔹 The power of vulnerability in building genuine connections
🔹 Rebuilding identity, relationships, and purpose after loss
This is a raw, honest conversation about what it means to start over, heal deeply, and step into version 2.0 of yourself. Whether you’re navigating divorce, recovery, or personal reinvention, Josh’s story and wisdom will leave you inspired to embrace the work of healing.
✨ “You experience the life you focus on.” – Josh Tomeoni ✨
📖 Learn more about Josh: thederelict.com
📘 Books: The Gospel of an Ex-Derelict | The 5 Traps Men Face in Divorce… and How to Triumph Over Them
🎙 Listen to The Derelict Podcast wherever you get your podcasts.
🌍 More from your host, Ryan Penley
I’m a recovery coach, author of Man Up. Sober Up., and founder of MyRockBottomRecovery.com—where I help people turn their lowest point into the launching pad for their comeback. Connect with me at ryanpenley.org or follow me on socials @RyanPenley for more conversations on sobriety, purpose, and the comeback journey.