The Nitty Gritty

The Nitty Gritty

By Schell Peterson & Danielle KazarianReligion & SpiritualityChristianity
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  • EP 46: Kingdom Building Series: Homeschooling and Faith Development

    Join Danielle and Schell as they interview Spring Kraft, a dedicated homeschooling mom and kingdom builder, who shares her heart on integrating faith into everyday family life. Discover practical insights on cultivating a Christ-centered home, simplifying homeschool routine, and living intentionally for God's glory.

    • Spring’s journey from public school to homeschooling seven children over 8-9 years, emphasizing kingdom work.

    • Importance of habit

    • The significance of planting seeds of faith through daily interactions, stories, and modeling kingdom building.

    • Practical tips for maintaining peace and patience

    • Her inspiring vision for her upcoming children’s book series, designed to teach lessons rooted in faith and obedience.

    • Encouragement to keep things simple, intentional, and focused on the eternal rather than just academic achievement.

    • Practical advice for managing homeschooling challenges, including physically stepping back when overwhelmed and making space for grace.

    00:00 - Introduction to the episode and guest

    00:27 - Spring's family background and homeschooling journey

    01:24 - Reasons for homeschooling and faith’s role in decision-making

    02:22 - Duration and current scope of homeschooling

    03:17 - Inspiration from The Unhurried Homeschooler and simple homeschooling approach

    04:11 - What kingdom building means to Spring

    04:40 - The importance of planting seeds for Christ daily 05:07 - Sharing opportunities for sharing Jesus in everyday life

    06:07 - Using the chain link analogy for kingdom impact

    07:01 - Quote about loving Christ more and its significance 07:30 - How Spring starts her mornings with her children regarding Jesus

    08:28 - Realistic portrayal of family devotions & managing personalities

    09:25 - Length and flow of her devotion time

    10:22 - Incorporating stories like David Brainerd into faith-building

    11:24 - The role of Scripture and stories in shaping young hearts

    12:23 - Intertwining history, mission, and daily life lessons 13:38 - Surprising kids through spiritual awareness; seeing God's fingerprints

    14:07 - Heart posture and intentional mindfulness in kingdom building

    15:22 - The importance of living with eternity in mind

    15:52 - The story of Luke’s chickens and its lessons for faith 17:27 - Spring’s journey to publishing her first children’s book 18:21 - Details about her Making the Most of Each Day project and Kickstarter

    19:45 - The purpose behind her books—spreading the gospel, planting seeds, raching future generations

    22:08 - The ripple effect of kingdom multiplication through books

    23:05 - Encouragement for other writers and kingdom-focused projects

    24:02 - The significance of starting children young with faith-based stories

    25:24 - The hope of reaching non-believers through storytelling

    27:04 - Spring’s background in community and her life story 28:00 - Simplifying homeschooling

    29:50 - Acknowledging discouragement & finding peace in purpose

    30:45 - Managing curriculum, pace, and expectations

    32:10-34:00 - Stepping back, assessing, and trusting God’s timing... Moving away from rigid, busy schooling

    34:52 - Notebooks, living books, and intentional reading

    36:26 - About Spring's family

    38:17 - Testimony

    40:14 - God’s providence

    45:22-50:00 - The importance of daily time with God and spiritual habits

    50:44 - Practical tips on maintaining spiritual routines

    55:21 - Overcoming discouragement and maintaining focus on kingdom priorities

    58:51 - Living with eternity in mind

    59:34 - Favorite childhood films

    61:01 - The joy of reading aloud & family connection

    63:54 - Rejuvenating family routines with scripture

    66:33 - Navigating homeschool hurdles

    69:39 - Practical ways to reset and manage attitudes

    70:34 - Closing prayer and encouragement to listeners

    • The Unhurried Homeschooler by Dorinda Wilson
    • Gather Round Curriculum
    • The Divine Mentor By Wayne Cordero

  • Connect & follow Spring’s Children’s Book: Making the Most of Each Day https://www.instagram.com/spring32/?hl=en

  • 1 hr 12 min
  • EP 45: Why Most People Are Building Their Lives On Shakey Foundations Without Knowing It

    EP 45: Why Most People Are Building Their Lives Shakey Foundations Without Knowing It

    Join us as we share personal stories and insights on what kingdom building truly means from a faith-centered perspective. Discover how surrender, humility, and intentional listening shape a life that reflects God's purpose in everyday moments.

    Main Topics & Insights:

    • The importance of humility and dependence on God

    • How shifting perspective and recalibrating standards aligns us with God's purpose

    • Practical ways to hear from and engage with God daily

    • The significance of community, accountability, and listening to the Holy Spirit

    • The process of building on a biblical foundation versus self-focus or worldly success

    • God's blueprint for our lives—putting the pieces together faithfully

    • Personal stories of obedience, seasons of change, and trusting God's timing

    Timestamps:

    00:00 – Introduction to the episode: honest talk about life, kingdom building, and celebrating God's work

    01:11 – Reflecting on childhood favorite movies

    02:41 – The impact of movies on childhood memories and lessons learned

    08:58 – What does kingdom building mean to Danielle? Grounded in seeking God's kingdom first

    09:16 – Key verse: Matthew 6:33 — Seeking first His kingdom and righteousness

    10:03 – Clinging to what is good—clinging to God with an intimate bond

    11:15 – Building on Jesus as the cornerstone—foundation for lasting kingdom work

    12:13 – What kingdom building is not: Self-promotion, controlling, or limited to church walls

    13:50 – Dying to self and trusting God's plan—examples from community building

    14:46 – Dependence on God's strength—how weaknesses become strengths in His power

    16:14 – Partnering with God's ongoing work everywhere, not just inside church walls

    17:35 – Recognizing God's clarity in seasons of deep work and refining foundations

    18:33 – The importance of a strong foundation—comparing Lego structures to our lives

    20:21 – Restoring and rebuilding—God's process of tearing down and setting right

    22:14 – Demolition vs. remodeling: God's way of resetting our lives for His purpose

    23:52 – Listening to the Holy Spirit in every season and community

    25:42 – Maintaining community rooted in God's Word and Jesus' love

    26:39 – The uniqueness of individual race and community seasons in kingdom building

    28:13 – Knowing when to stay or move on in God's timing

    29:07 – Embracing change and God's seasons—trusting His flow and divine blueprint

    31:11 – Celebrating God's faithfulness

    32:30 – The power of gratitude in transition

    34:04 – Teaching kids to hear from God—practical steps and fostering spiritual confidence

    37:52 – The intentionality behind leading children and listening to the Holy Spirit

    44:36 – The significance of relationship-centered kingdom building

    50:29 – Trust and obedience in God's timing—working and waiting in faith

    55:11 – Trusting God through delays and breakthroughs

    58:01 – The beauty of God's plan & purpose over worldly measures

    60:58 – Building one nail at a time—God’s blueprint and our participation in His design

    62:46 – Lessons from Ezra and Nehemiah—building through humility, patience, and community

    65:02 – The power of prayer and testimony

    67:37 – Overcoming fear and stepping boldly in faith

    70:21 – Participating in God's divine puzzle—placing pieces in His perfect design

    71:31 – The ultimate guide in building life and kingdom

    73:02 – Recalibrating: redefining measurements through God's Word—letting go of worldly narratives

    78:39 – Final encouragement: life is ongoing kingdom building—take each day step-by-step

    68:35 – Closing prayer

    Resources & Links:

    • Book: Recalibrate – Shift Your Focus, Revive Your Life

    Connect with Danielle:

    • ⁠@Danielle.Kazarian⁠

    Connect with Schell:

    • @flirtingwithmyhusband

    Building God's kingdom starts with humility, continual listening, and surrender to His divine blueprint. Each step, no matter how small or slow, is part of His magnificent design—one nailed piece at a time. 


    1 hr 15 min
  • EP 44: Building Boldly- Kingdom Work, Adoption & the Power of Unity with Kerri Holmes

    Building Boldly: Kingdom Work, Adoption & the Power of Unity with Kerri Holmes

    The Nitty Gritty Podcast with Kerri Holmes**Join us as Danielle and Schell sit down with Kerri Holmes to explore her journey in kingdom-building through church leadership, marriage, and adoption. Discover how faith-inspired leadership cultivates community and empowers women to walk boldly in their calling.

    In this episode:

    • Kerri shares her story of leading Titus Women’s Ministry for over five years and expanding community circles for deeper connection

    • The significance of biblical mentorship, with emphasis on Titus 2:3-5, in fostering godly living and family leadership

    • Practical insights on developing leaders, managing growth, and creating safe, supportive environments

    • The impact of prayer and obedience in experiencing God's unexpected blessings, including the adoption of Ella from Russia

    • The role of unity—spiritually, within marriages, and in church ministries—in advancing God's kingdom

    • Kerri’s heart for marriage ministry and her partnership with her husband Adam in supporting families

    • Key Scriptures: 1 Corinthians 15:58, Romans 14:17, John 17:23 in building unity and perseverance in faith

    Timestamps: 

    00:00 - Welcome and introduction to Kerri Holmes 

    01:19 - Kerri’s journey with Titus Women’s Ministry 

    02:42 - Organizing ministry for kingdom impact 

    03:10 - Personal background and family life 

    04:05 - How Titus shaped Kerri’s faith 

    05:31 - Pandemic pivot and new directions in ministry 

    06:51 - Obedience and new visions for community 

    08:09 - Childhood favorite movies and kingdom themes 

    09:03 - The Sound of Music and its significance 

    11:25 - Defining kingdom building: Love God and love others 

    12:47 - Practical ways Carrie lives out kingdom principles 

    13:12 - The story of adopting Ella and God’s timing 

    15:23 - Faith in God’s provision through 


    1 hr 6 min
  • EP 43: Follow up conversation to EP 41-Navigating Authentic Faith & Healthy Relationships

    EP 43: Navigating Authentic Faith and Healthy Relationships: A Follow-up Conversation on Forgiveness, Boundaries, and Discernment

    In this episode, Schell and Danielle follow up their previous conversation from EP 41 and explore the challenges and truths of living out faith in everyday relationships. They discuss the importance of forgiveness, setting healthy boundaries, and seeking divine discernment to love others well—especially amidst hurt, disappointment, and offense.

    Key Topics

    The role of intentional friendships in spiritual growth

    Forgiveness as a divine obedience, not just a feeling

    How offenses, disappointments, and boundaries influence relationships

    The significance of discernment in love and conflict resolution

    Practical ways to evaluate motives and align actions with scripture

    The process of repentance and healing through prayer

    The biblical foundation for love that has backbone, not wimpy acceptance

    Recognizing when to seek wise counsel vs. going directly to God

    The power of praying for even those who have hurt us

    How Jesus' sacrifice and authority over Satan empower our forgiveness and freedom

    Timestamps

    00:00 - Introduction to the importance of authentic faith in relationships

    02:01 - The significance of forgiveness in healing and relationships

    04:22 - Creating healthy boundaries without losing love

    05:47 - The impact of offense and disappointment in our walk with Jesus

    08:08 - Handling offense through scripture and Holy Spirit guidance

    10:42 - How forgiveness cleans wounds and grants freedom

    12:27 - The importance of spiritual maturity in managing offense and boundaries

    14:03 - Indicators of whether we're seeking revenge or God's way

    15:56 - Recognizing emotional currents that lead us away from peace

    17:13 - Addressing past wounds and their influence on present relationships

    20:22 - The dangers of non-confrontation and passivity

    22:34 - Showing grace while protecting yourself in relationships

    25:18 - Praying for discernment and God’s heart in friendships

    28:10 - Loving even enemies as a divine indicator of God's love in us

    30:56 - The importance of praying for those who hurt us

    34:11 - Our authority over Satan through Jesus' sacrifice and love

    36:33 - Operating in love with divine discernment over reactiveness

    39:08 - Boundaries with love and God's firm love as an example

    42:22 - The critical role of forgiveness in avoiding dependence and codependency

    45:52 - The process of genuine repentance and heart transformation

    48:11 - The visual of releasing burdens through honest prayer and surrender

    52:18 - Invitation to go to the "secret place" with Jesus for transformation

    53:12 - Closing thoughts and encouragement to walk in love, wisdom, and forgiveness

    Resources & Links

    Soul Care by Dr. Rob Reimer

    Hebrews 4:12

    Luke 17:1-4

    Philippians 4:8 "think about such things"

    Matthew 16:19 Keys the kingdom

    Connect with Danielle: @danielle.kazarian  

    Connect with Schell: @flirtingwithmyhusband

    Note: This episode emphasizes that living out faith involves intentional boundaries, forgiveness, and discernment—balancing truth and love rooted in God’s Word. It encourages believers to seek divine guidance in every interaction and to walk in freedom through Jesus’ authority.

    53 min
  • Ep 42: Finding the Gold in People- w/ guest Jennifer Jones on forging faith, ministry idolatry, calling

    Ep 42: Finding the Gold in People- Jennifer Jones on forging faith through fire, breaking ministry idolatry, and helping believers run in their calling

    In this episode of the Nitty Gritty, Danielle and Shell sit down with Jennifer Jones — ministry leader, entrepreneur, coach, and founder of Illuminate Global Ministry — for a rich, Spirit-filled conversation about what it truly means to build God's kingdom from the inside out.

    Jennifer shares her remarkable story: born a miracle child against impossible medical odds, raised in an abusive home, battling depression and suicidal ideation from childhood, and ultimately encountering the Lord at 21. Through decades of inner healing, deliverance, prophetic refinement, and deep intimacy with the Father, she has been forged into a passionate champion of people and their God-given identities.

    This episode covers a lot of ground, including:

    • What kingdom building actually looks like — it starts with discipleship, prayer, and speaking to the core of people's identity, not their mistakes. Jennifer talks about the difference between building a platform and building people.
    • Ministry idolatry and how it keeps believers small, insecure, and dependent on the wrong things. Jennifer vulnerably shares a season where the glory lifted because she had unknowingly stepped into receiving glory that belonged to God.
    • Prophetic witchcraft and soul ties — what they are, how to recognize them, and how they can trap people's destinies. Danielle brings in scriptural grounding from Joel 2 and Philippians 2:2.
    • The marketplace calling — why the church building is not the only place God uses his people, and why the 10% Levitical model means 90% were out in the world serving God through their everyday lives and gifts.
    • Practical tools for hearing God's voice — Jennifer shares how she started with simple yes-or-no journaling questions, building confidence in her ability to hear the Holy Spirit over time.
    • The beauty of being moldable — why mistaking God's process for failure is one of the biggest traps believers face, and how to stay flexible when the outcome doesn't look like what you imagined.

    Scriptures referenced:

    • Mark 12- What's the most important thing?
    • 1 Corinthians 13-Identity
    • John 17:20–24- Holy Spirit prays for us
    • Joel 2:28 - Jesus' prayer for us
    • Philippians 2:2
    • Revelation 4 - Overcoming

    Connect with Jennifer Jones: Illuminate, Purpose Coaching, Renewed Soul

    Life Purpose Coaching

    Facebook

    Instagram

    YouTube:

    TIK TOK


    1 hr
  • Ep 41: Building the Kingdom through Friendship: A Journey of Faith, Love, and Discipline

    Title: Ep 41: Building the Kingdom through Friendship: A Journey of Faith, Love, and Discipline

    In this episode of the Nitty Gritty podcast, Danielle and Schell explore what it means to build genuine friendships rooted in biblical principles and how these relationships reflect God's kingdom on earth. They share personal stories, spiritual insights, and practical steps toward cultivating friendships that foster growth, trust, and kingdom impact.

    Main Topics Covered:

    • The biblical foundation of friendship and how Jesus says, "I have called you friends" (John 15:9-17).
    • Traits of a good friend: relationship with Jesus, follow-through, trustworthiness, and intentionality.
    • The importance of vulnerability and building bridges, not barriers, in relationships.
    • Discernment versus judgment: understanding spiritual wisdom in friendships.
    • The role of prayer, silence, and God's character in guiding our friendships and kingdom building.
    • Recognizing snakes (deception) and protecting the unity in the body of Christ (2 Corinthians 13:14).
    • Reflection on God's character—redeemer, healer—and how it was displayed last year.
    • Practical ways to remember names, notes, and details to love others well.
    • The concept of kingdom building as a life shared brick by brick, storing treasures in heaven (Matthew 6:19-21).
    • The importance of community, shared mission, and living out God's will on earth (Matthew 6:10, Luke 17:21).

    Key Scriptures:

    • John 15:9-17
    • 2 Timothy 4

    Connect with Danielle & Schell:

    Danielle - flirtingwithmyhusband

    Schell - danielle.kazarian | www.daniellekazarian.com

    Timestamp Highlights:
    00:00 - Welcome back: Season 5 and our focus on Kingdom building
    02:19 - The biblical view of friendship through Jesus' example
    04:35 - Building bridges, removing barriers in relationships
    12:58 - Experiencing God's character traits in our lives (redeemer, healer)
    15:56 - Walking through seasons of hard truth and growth
    20:38 - The significance of unity and kingdom work in everyday life
    25:11 - Learning God's discernment amidst deception and spiritual battles
    33:48 - Loving through correction and walking in mercy
    37:14 - Scriptural encouragement: Peace as a rule in our hearts (Colossians 3:15)
    42:47 - Living out kingdom principles in our homes and communities
    45:43 - Understanding the kingdom as a realm of God's authority and how we participate
    48:39 - Storing treasures in heaven and living with eternity in mind (Matthew 6:19-21)
    54:55 - The importance of testing everything against God's Word—and trusting the Spirit of truth

    Additional Notes:
    This episode emphasizes that kingdom building begins in our friendships, in our homes, and through our continuous walk with Jesus. Remember, the Holy Spirit guides discernment, and God's peace should rule our hearts in every interaction. Building authentic, kingdom-oriented relationships requires intentionality, prayer, vulnerability, and a focus on eternal treasures.

    45 min
  • Ep 40: "Season 5"- Walking in Faith: Embracing Hardships, Discernment, and Kingdom Building

    Title: "Season 5"- Walking in Faith: Embracing Hardships, Discernment, and Kingdom Building

    Join Schell and Danielle as they share their reflections on walking with Jesus through life's ups and downs. They discuss personal growth, spiritual discernment, and the importance of kingdom-minded friendships, especially in challenging seasons.In this episode:

    • Recap of the podcast's season five start and the significance of intentionality
    • The reality of life's messiness and embracing honest conversations about hardship
    • How hard seasons reveal God's glory and character traits like redemption and healing
    • Reflecting on God's faithfulness in past seasons and lessons learned
    • The importance of pausing, looking back, and journaling spiritual milestones
    • Understanding God's character through personal experience and scripture
    • Discernment: distinguishing God's voice from deception with wisdom and Holy Spirit guidance
    • Practical insights into kingdom building, both spiritually and in everyday relationships
    • The significance of peace, unity, and trusting God's authority over the enemy

    Encouragement to point everything back to Jesus and rely on His Word for discernment

    Quotable Moments: “When we’re operating in God’s peace—that’s when the Kingdom work happens”-Danielle

    • scripture:  “... Let everyone be quick to hear [be a careful, thoughtful listener], slow to speak [a speaker of carefully chosen words and], slow to anger [patient, reflective, forgiving]...” ‭‭James‬ ‭1‬:‭19‬-‭20‬ ‭AMP‬‬

    “Let peace be the rule.”—Schell’s sister via Schell

    • scripture: “Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts..." Colossians‬ ‭3‬:‭15‬-‭17‬ ‭NIV‬‬

    Scripture references"

    • ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭6‬:‭19‬-‭21‬ ‭NIV‬‬
    • ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭6‬:‭9‬-‭10‬ ‭NASB1995‬‬

    Timestamps:
    00:00 - Season five kickoff and podcast update
    02:19 - Honest conversations on walking with Jesus through messiness
    04:08 - Recognizing God's glory in hardship moments
    08:46 - Reflecting on God's work in past seasons
    12:58 - Experiencing God's character traits like redeemer and healer
    15:52 - Family seasons, God’s faithfulness, and healing
    21:35 - Learning from God's silent presence and trusting Him
    26:24 - Wisdom vs. discernment and walking in the Spirit
    30:58 - Recognizing deception and cultivating spiritual discernment
    34:13 - Peace as the rule in discernment and spiritual battles
    37:08 - Walking out kingdom building here on earth
    41:12 - Daily renewal and waking up with God's movement in mind
    44:29 - The kingdom as building brick-by-brick and trusting God's authority
    48:23 - Living with eternity in mind and eternal rewards
    50:10 - Closing prayer and blessing for listeners

    Connect with Schell & Danielle:

    • Schell - ⁠flirtingwithmyhusband⁠
    • Danielle - ⁠danielle.kazarian⁠ | ⁠daniellekazarian.com⁠

    For further encouragement:
    Remember, our insights are rooted in God's Word. Always align what you hear here with Scripture, and seek the guidance of the Holy Spirit for discernment and Kingdom work.

    59 min
  • Ep 39: A Conversation on Cultivation

    In The Nitty Gritty Ep 39: A Conversation on Cultivation, Schell & Danielle follow up episode 38 with a practical conversation on how to cultivate healthy soil in our lives and others.

    In this episode you will:

    -Be encouraged with healthy communication tips.

    -Explore and learn how to listen to God’s voice.

    -Differentiate between talents/skills and gifts.

    -Ask: Am I listening to God?

    -Learn tools to recall God’s words and promises.

    -Surrender the outcome of life to God.

    Practical communication tools and tips for how to:

    • bring our whole self
    • engage in authentic conversation
    • confidently share appropriate details and emotions
    • operate in maturity and wisdom
    • Process with Jesus

    Scripture:

    Psalm 142:1-7 Cry out to God

    Joshua 1:8 Meditate day and night

    Psalm 37:3-7 Rely on the Lord

    1 Corinthians 3:6-11 We plant seeds, God causes the growth

    Matthew 22:37-40 Love God, love others

    Psalm 139:14 Uniquely wonderfully made

    Proverbs 19:21-23 Many are a man’s plans

    Proverbs 3:5&6 Trust in the Lord

    Jeremiah 29:11, Psalm 57:2 God has a plan and a purpose

    Deuteronomy 5:33, Proverbs 4:14-16, 27; Jeremiah 6:16 Do not swerve to the right or the left

    Joshua 1:8 meditate on God’s Word

    Proverbs 3:3-6, Deuteronomy 6:8-9 write God’s word down

    Romans 8:13 Death to “flesh”

    Ephesians 1:22-23 put all things under God

    Deuteronomy 28:4 obedience makes the blessing flourish

    Hebrews 12:10-15 discipline heals us

    Ephesians 6 child and parent instructions

    1 Corinthians 3:23 obedience

    Psalm 1:2-3 deeply rooted

    John 15:5 He is the vine


    We’re not responsible for others’ growth or what they do with their gifts; however, the following are ways we can plant seeds, and be good stewards:

    • Prayer
    • Exhortation
    • Volunteering time
    • Seeing the person at the grocery store


    Reference with topic- our role in others’ pain: Reconciling Yourself to the Fact of Sin- My Utmost for His Highest by Oswald Chambers, June 24

    Quote: “Security and confidence comes from knowing who God is and who He says we are…but there’s more…”

    Key Scripture:

    “For they disciplined us for a short time as seemed best to them, but He disciplines us for our good, so that we may share His holiness. All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness. Therefore, strengthen the hands that are weak and the knees that are feeble, and make straight paths for your feet, so that the limb which is lame may not be put out of joint, but rather be healed. Pursue peace with all men, and the sanctification without which no one will see the Lord. See to it that no one comes short of the grace of God; that no root of bitterness springing up causes trouble, and by it many be defiled;” Hebrews 12:10-15 NASB1995

    Definitions:Cultivate- to prepare and use (Oxford dictionary)Sanctification- process of being transformed, washed, cleansed, and set apart for God’s purposes. (paraphrased from various scripture and commentary)

    Practical reflection questions:

    1. What are some lies I have believed about myself?
    2. What are truths from God’s Word that inform who I really am?
    3. What is a fear or obstacle getting in the way of me using my gifts?
    4. Do I see my kids’/closest people’s gifts? What are they? How can I help cultivate them?
    5. In what area do I want to grow?
    6. What do I need tilled from the rocky soil in my life?
    7. God what do you want me to know about this topic?


    1 hr 15 min
  • EP 38-Cultivating an Abundant Life

    EP 38-Cultivating an Abundant Life

    In Episode 38- Danielle Kazarian is speaking live to a group of ladies at one of Higher Vision Valencia's circles-Titus.

    Do you feel inadaquate or ill-equipped for the task at hand?

    Do you carry all the burdens of your loved-ones?

    Are you exhausted?

    Are you consumed by chaos?

    How do you see yourself?

    What do you call yourself?

    Danielle Kazarian encourages women that God's design in the beginning to "multiply" is the same as Jesus' call "to make disciples" (Gen 1:28, Matthew 28:19-20). She leads us through how to teach, train, and equip others in the Lord by answering the question: what is the best way to cultivate healthy soil in our lives?

    Through Danielle's life-long journey of killing every plant she tried to keep alive, God has shown her the parallel of plants to a healthy Christian life. You will discover that your identity-how you see yourself-will determine if you are building your life on a solid foundation.

  • Scripture:

    Colossians 2:6,7 

    "Therefore, as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him, rooted and built up in him and established in the faith, just as you were taught, abounding in thanksgiving."

    Matthew 7:24

    “Anyone who hears these words of Mine and acts on them, may be compared to a wise man who built his house on the rock. "

    Proverbs 14:1 NASB

    "A wise woman builds her house, but the foolish tears it down with her own hands. "

    Colossians 3:23

    "In everything you do, work at it with all your heart..."

    Ephesians 2:10

    "we are God's workmanship..."

    Ephesians 4:1-3

    "walk worthy of the calling you have received"

    Application of 1 Corinthians 3:6-8

    v 6 While we must honor the calling God has put on our lives to faithfully pour in and cultivate our soil and the grounds of those He’s entrusted to us, we are not responsible for the outcome.

    v 7-8 We can neither take credit for their successes, nor walk in shame and guilt of our children’s sin. If we put our trust in Jesus and follow His lead, we must also trust our children are His children before they are ours.

    v9-10 "For we are God’s fellow workers; you are God’s field, God’s building.According to the grace of God which was given to me, like a wise master builder I laid a foundation, and another is building on it. But each man must be careful how he builds on it. For no man can lay a foundation other than the one which is laid, which is Jesus Christ.” 

    James 1:7

    "Every good and perfect gift is from our Heavenly Father."

    What is your real-self vs false-self?

    What are gifts from God?

    Romans 12:2, Romans 12:6-8, Ephesians 4:11, 1 Corinthians 12:8-10, and 1 Peter 4:8-10 

    Quotes:

    "The Bible doesn't say to chase after God...it says ask, seek, search, long for, desire and abide in Him." -Danielle Kazarian

    Online resource for adults & youth test:

    https://spiritualgiftstest.com/




  • 51 min
  • EP 37: Keeping it reel- Turn Down the Funk[y] Old Tapes

    EP 37: Keepin’ it Reel-Turn Down the Funk[y] Old Tapes

    In Ep 37 The Nitty Gritty is talking about old tapes–the thoughts, behaviors, or patterns from our past that taunt our mind and captivate our emotions. 


    Examples of what old tapes may sound like:

    -blaming self or someone else instead of asking God, “what are you wanting to show me?”

    -confusion, “I thought I was past this?”

    -projection- the past replayed in our memory producing shame and reopening wounds

    -works-based freedom- “What did I fail to do?”

    - “I’m responsible for my future.”

    - Defining freedom by feelings. Hearing “You’re not free”

    - “I’m alone.”

    - “I’m too free in my freedom.” Using Galatians 5:13-14 to condemn after repentance and releasing it to God.

    In this episode you will:

    -Distinguish building altars of remembrance–sacrifice to God, remembering who He is and what He’s done–from setting up altars of death, grieving what’s dead

    -Discover the importance of recalling God’s faithfulness

    -Answer questions such as:

    • How do I remember the past without dwelling on the grieving thoughts? 
    • How do I turn grief into praise? 
    • How do I praise in the grieving? 
    • Is it normal to mourn the loss of our old self?

    -Learn tips to recall God’s faithfulness in the desert moments and negative thought cycles. 

    -Discover how God’s light shines on the desert places, His beauty shines through.

    -Replace the old tape with a new one filled with the promises of God.

    -Turn down the volume on the funky old tapes and turn up the volume on God’s voice.

    -Give others the grace to screw up and celebrate what they are doing well

    -Speak out, “I’m not partnering with the lie. Thank you Jesus for the reminder that I am free.”

    -Define yourself by God’s grace rather than the pain of our past.

    Tips to recall God’s faithfulness:

    Repetitive info and different deliveries of the information transfers information from our short-term to long-term memory storage.

    1. Read God’s word

    2. Write it down

    3. Put it on the wall

    4. Speak/Recite it outloud

    5. Talk to someone about it

    6. Engage your senses: create a song, make a dance/hand motions

    Key Scriptures

    Isaiah 43:18-21 NIV

    18 “Forget the former things;

        do not dwell on the past.

    19 See, I am doing a new thing!

        Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?

    I am making a way in the wilderness

        and streams in the wasteland.

    20 The wild animals honor me,

        the jackals and the owls,

    because I provide water in the wilderness

        and streams in the wasteland,

    to give drink to my people, my chosen,

    21  the people I formed for myself

        that they may proclaim my praise.

    Proverbs 26:11 MSG

    As a dog eats its own vomit,

        so fools recycle silliness.

    Proverbs 26:11 NLT

    As a dog returns to its vomit,

        so a fool repeats his foolishness.

    Isaiah 41:4 NASB

    “Who has performed and accomplished it,

    Summoning the generations from the beginning?

    ‘I, the Lord, am the first, and with the last. I am He.”

    Isaiah 41:10

    “Do not fear, for I am with you;

    Do not be afraid, for I am your God.

    I will strengthen you, I will also help you,

    I will also uphold you with My righteous right hand.”

    Psalm 119:88 

    “Revive me according to Your faithfulness,

    So that I may keep the testimony of Your mouth.”

    Scriptures by topic:

    • Psalm 119:11 His Words light my path
    • 2 Corinthians 1:20 His promises are Yes and Amen
    • John 12:36 Recognizing Jesus is the Light
    • James 1:2-4 Consider the trials joy
    • Isaiah 41:7 Prophecy of Jesus coming, “I will give a messenger of good news.”
    • Galatians 3:23-29 gift of the law; obedience
    • Ephesians 2:9 saved through faith
    • Romans 8:1 “no” condemnation 
    • John 13:1-17 Jesus washed Judas’ feet
    • Romans 8:5 raised from death to life; flesh=death, spirit=life


    Devotional:

    April 16- Can You Come Down From The Mountain?- My Utmost For His Highest, By: Oswald Chambers (Edited By James Reimann)


    1 hr 10 min

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