The No Regret Husband | Avoid divorce and be a better husband

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The No Regret Husband | Avoid divorce and be a better husband episodes

July 23 S2 Ep1: The number 1 masculine marriage success strategy for husbands
As a husband, do you want to know why your marriage feels like a constant struggle? Most men try to bring changes to the relationship by focusing on what they see in everyday married life: the partner’s moods, the lack of intimacy, the constant conflicts, the difficulties in communication and so on. Most husbands see the effects and try to fix the situation from there. This strategy is doomed to fail.
The good news is, by shifting the focus from the trap of fixing the effects to the power of the causes, you can transform your marriage starting from today. Your wife will absolutely love this shift in you, and you will unlock the best relationship together.
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27 min
July 16 S1 Ep27: How to navigate the challenges of change in marriage while keeping the connection strong
Do you know why 99% of couples find change to be stressful?
This is not because of change being inherently a stress, but because of the way we go at change and the meaning we attach to it.
The most stressful changes in married life are the changes in routine brought by the birth of a child, a death in the family, having to care for an elderly parent, change in the financial situation, retirement…and yet, even smaller change can create big conflict in everyday married life, leaving husband and wife feeling alone and disconnected from each other. In this episode we speak to how we have successfully navigate a lot of change in the past twelve months, and she with you the way you can start doing it together with your partner. From now on change can become something that brings you closer together.
If you enjoyed this episode go ahead and listen to episode 22
The #1 mindset advice that will help problem solving in everyday married life
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25 min
July 09 S1 Ep26: The real enemy to everyday married life is the treadmill of routine & here is the number 1 solution
The real enemy of everyday married life is… everyday married life! The treadmill of routine we fall into as husband and wife slowly kills the joy in marriage, leading us to appreciate the positives less and less and fall into frustration with one another and life in general.
This psychological process is known as Hedonic Adaptation. This mechanism causes the initial surge of happiness we get from an event to fade over time, leading to needing a new experience to feel the joy again. Long term relationships are not immune to this. Married couples who are aware of this mechanism practice a simple solution, which is the intentional choice of focus. Fortunately bringing focus on personal growth and relationship gives more lasting and satisfying results.
In this episode we share with you the one simple solution you can apply from today so you never have to feel trapped in the everyday life routine. This solution is sure to cultivate the joy and happiness you have been wanting in your marriage.
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If you enjoyed this episode go ahead and listen to episode 6
The #1 Tip to Stop Fighting in Relationship - This Will Make All the Difference
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30 min
July 02 S1 Ep25: 2 things you can do to help communication with your kid and bring flow in your marriage
Do you know the impact of difficulties in communication with your children have on your marriage? Research shows that the rate of the decline in relationship satisfaction is nearly twice as steep for couples who have children than for those who don't.
Why is that? Although there are many factors at play, struggling in communication with your kid, especially but not only when they are in their teenager years, increases the level of conflict with your spouse.
It is common for at least one of the parent to have difficulties relating and connecting with their child, and even when this does not spark conflict with the partner, it is still a cause for intensity that takes time away from marital connection and fulfilment.
In this episode we share two simple steps you can start taking today to help repairing the communication with your child. It is often an issue of trust, which can be resolved one step at the time. These steps can also be extremely effective in communication with your spouse, bringing deeper connection and emotional safety.
If you enjoyed listening to this episode go ahead and listen to episode 17👇
The secret to creating a strong relationship in everyday married life’s chaos

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37 min
June 25 S1 Ep24: Standards matter: How husband and wife can unlock their best marriage by raising their standards
This SHOCKED me! Most women seem to prefer "book boyfriends" to real husbands, do you want to know why? The answer is simple...
What are your standards when it comes to your relationship? Most couples have a set of standards based on what they have observed in the generation before, or on what is generally accepted, keeping the bar quite low.
Doing better than what we may have observed past generations did is a wonderful starting point. It is a great practice to feel appreciative of the efforts your partner makes, and proud of the efforts you make. However, that is just the baseline. There's much more happiness and fulfilment to be unlocked together in your marriage by raising your standards.
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If you enjoyed this episode listen to:
Episode 19 The 3 things that will make a wife feel unhappy in her marriageEpisode 18 The 3 lies husbands have been told about married life
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31 min
June 18 S1 Ep23: Mild Vs Wild - How to keep the flame of your relationship lit up long term
Do you want to know why the fire slowly dies in most marriages?
Most couples fall into same-old-same-old routine, caught in the managing of day-to-day responsibilities that come with marriage and family. These are necessary things husband and wife need to tend to, that's true, but the risk is to lose the fire between partners, turning the marriage into what we call mild. However the couples that can access the "wild" energy inside of them keep the flame alive through the years together, unlocking deeper layers of fulfilment in their relationship. In this episode we talk about what is that "wild" that is needed to keep your love alive.
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Episode 14 5 relationship hacks to fuel the flame in your marriage this springEpisode 14 YouTube
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32 min
June 11 S1 Ep22: The #1 mindset advice that will help problem solving in everyday married life
Do you want to know what is the silent killer of a marriage? It is not lack of love…
What slowly kills a marriage is the never-ending list of problem that any couple has to solve each day. This 4-lane motorway of issues big and small is the cause of frustration and arguments that put a wedge between husband and wife on a daily basis.
The real issues though are not even the so-called problems but the mindset with which a couple looks at them and goes about finding a solution. Most couples don’t have an effective way to come together and work as a team to find the solutions they need.
In this episode we share the mindset that will completely transform your capacity to problem solve together, making the so-called problem another opportunity for strengthening connection.
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Episode 17 The secret to creating a strong relationship in everyday married life
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23 min
June 04 S1 Ep21: How to get your to-do list done in everyday married life without unnecessary stress and conflict
How is the immense amount of stuff you need to get done every day impacting your marriage? How much quality time do you and your partner actually get to spend together?
Research shows that most couples spend and average of 3-5 hours together per week, and even that time is mostly taken by practicalities or filled with switching-off time in front of TV to fight exhaustion.
To-do lists are part of everyday married life, there’s no escaping them. But there’s a different way to go about making a to-do list that can transform the day from feeling too full and exhausting to doable and fulfilling. And most of all by using this method we share with you in this episode, your to-do list becomes easy to go through, giving you space for quality time with your partner.
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If you liked this episode, go straight to episode 10👇
3 steps to generate deeper intimacy couples must know
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25 min
May 28 S1 Ep20: What every husband and wife must do after the inevitable conflict happens
Despite how much husband and wife try to avoid conflict by improving communication, fights happen. We can repair. We can say sorry. We can tell the other what they should do better next time. None of it will truly help to make your marriage a truly exceptional one. When inevitable conflicts happen in relationship they brings more and more pain unless you do this...
In this episode we share the proven to work process we apply after a conflict happens, transforming what could be a failure in marriage into a precious learning opportunity that fuels more connection and emotional intimacy.
Following these 3 principles will turn the post-conflict debrief from a long, exhausting process to a simple conversation you can have over a cup of coffee together.
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If you liked this episode go straight to episode 6👇
The #1 Tip to Stop Fighting in Relationship - This Will Make All the Difference
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32 min
May 21 S1 Ep19: The 3 things that will make a wife feel unhappy in her marriage
How does the conditioning on being “the perfect wife” women have received impact your relationship? There are 3 things women are told they need to do in order to be the “perfect wife” and all 3 are lies!
The impact of this conditioning that is fed to every couple through media, movies and society at large is that most wives are deeply unhappy in their marriage. They shrink to fit the box of the “perfect wife” suppressing and repressing their capacity to thrive within the relationship and in life.
A wife that tries consciously or unconsciously to limit herself to these 3 things, will always feel unseen and unsatisfied in her marriage.
In this episode we challenge these 3 lies and offer 3 empowering traits wives can cultivate instead to transform their marriage and feel happy. Any husband listening in, there’s one thing you can do to support your wife in this. Listen till the end to find out.
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Related episodes:
Episode 18 The 3 lies husbands have been told about married life
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Episode 5 The One Thing Women REALLY Want in Marriage – This Will Surprise You
Episode 5 YouTube
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31 min