The way we were loved teaches us how to love. In this episode, we peel back the layers of parenting and attachment styles — exploring how early bonds shape our confidence, our boundaries, our fears, and even our adult relationships.

From avoidant silence to anxious clinginess, we dive into how our upbringing shows up in our friendships, faith, and romantic connections. Whether you’re healing, parenting, or simply unlearning, this episode opens the door to honest reflection and fresh possibility.

Join the table, let’s talk roots, repair, and rewriting the script passed on.

In this episode, we talk about the tricky waters of perception, i.e. what people think of us, say about us, and how much of it should actually matter.

Is it wise to care what people say? Or is complete detachment the way to peace?

We explore the tension between self-awareness and people-pleasing, how external opinions shape our identity, and where to draw the line between healthy feedback and unnecessary noise.

Join us for a reflective conversation on this big topic of tuning inwards in a world full of opinions.

Love is one of the most profound yet misunderstood emotions. Can it be measured, or is it priceless? If so, what’s the scale? Effort? Sacrifice? Consistency?

On this episode, we explore briefly the unspoken expectations attached to love, the ways we subconsciously measure it, and the flawed beliefs surrounding it. Is love transactional, or does it thrive in imbalance? How do we gauge if we’re giving or receiving enough?

Join us on the table today as we discuss the meter of love: What love is, the expectations, and what truly counts when it comes to feeling valued.

We’ve all heard it—“Time heals all wounds.” But does it really? In this episode of The Open Konversations (TOK), we challenge the idea that time alone is enough to heal emotional pain. Healing is intentional, and simply waiting doesn’t erase hurt, mend relationships, or bring closure.

We explore what truly aids healing - acknowledgment, self-work, and active reflection - and why some wounds remain even after years have passed. Can time play a role? Yes. But only if you engage with it purposefully.

Join us as we rethink healing, challenge common beliefs, and explore what it really takes to move forward.

In this episode, Jude follows up with trying to balance his "it takes 5 years to complete a growth circle" bomb as we unpack Warren Buffett’s powerful quote:
“You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you.”

Our conversation centres on the weight of words, touching lightly on how they affect us, why we give them power, and the importance of not letting every comment shape our emotions. We discuss the difference between reacting and responding and how mastering this can protect our peace, strengthen our relationships, and build emotional resilience.

Plus, we promised to share a link to Roger Allen's article on theStages of emotional maturity to help you reflect on your growth.

Link: https://www.rogerkallen.com/stages-emotional-maturity/

In this exciting debut episode of The Open Konversations (TOK) pod, we’re diving into the popular mantra, “New Year, New Me,” to truly explore what it takes to make meaningful, lasting changes in our lives. We'll look closer at the important, yet often overlooked, roles of responsibility and discipline in our personal growth; beyond just the thrill of setting resolutions. Have you ever wondered how to stay committed when motivation starts to wane? Or what it truly means to take ownership of your goals? We invite you to join us for a relatable and honest conversation about building habits that last, embracing accountability, and consistently showing up for yourself—especially when it feels tough.

Welcome to The Open Konversations (TOK) pod, where the table is always set for honest, exciting, and thought-provoking discussions. In this pre-episode, we share the heart behind TOK—why we started, what to expect, and the topics we can't wait to dive into with you. From love to parenting, life, faith, and the little joys that bring us together, this is your invitation to join the conversation. Pull up a seat and let’s get talking!