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  • Paradise on Earth (Season Three | Episode 122)

    Paradise on Earth
    with Sharman Hawk
    (Season 3 | Episode 122)

    [TESSA] I met Shaman Hawk on the beach in Florida. I am so grateful that I did because I can now introduce this remarkable man to you, dear Open Nester Podcast listener.

    I called this episode ‘Paradise on Earth’ to try to capture the point of view of Shaman Hawk.

    In this brief episode, Hawk and I cover a lot of ground, from his militaristic upbringing to the incredible careers of his three adult daughters and his “wild child” 18-year-old.  We also learn how one becomes a Shaman. And let me say it… this is not for the faint of heart.

    As you will hear Hawk centers our attention on three core values:

    DISCIPLINE    CONSISTENCY    FOCUS
    Resources for You

    We want to provide you with support and many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness and other topics of interest:

    Open Nesters Resource Page

    The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group

    About Tessa

    Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

    Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.

    Her offerings are based in her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature.  If she had one superpower,    it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open hearted lives.

    Please email Tessa to make a connection. If you like, please answer the question:

    What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…

    • Adventure
    •  Freedom of Expression
    •  Exploration and Fun
    •  Body Movement
    •  New circles of friends
    •  Deep love relationships
    • 27 min
    • Love’s Not Color Blind (Season 3 | Episode 121)

      Love’s Not Color Blind
      with Kevin & Antoinette
      (Season 3 | Episode 121)

      [TESSA] Kevin and Antoinette are a couple. A polyamorous couple… with children. And from what you will hear in this episode… this all works… just fine.

      When they were first carving out this lifestyle for themselves they didn’t even know it was a “thing.” Then they found the polyamory community in Philadelphia. And that really opened up their eyes to so many possibilities. And, just for the record, the kids are well aware of their parents’ relationships.

      KEVIN PATTERSON

      VISIT KEVIN’S WEBSITE

      Kevin and Antoinette Patterson are active members of the Philadelphia polyamory community. These two have been practicing ethical nonmonogamy since August of 2002 after opening up a relationship that eventually became marriage.

      Love’s Not Color Blind (Kevin Patterson)

      The issues that make monogamous dating daunting for people of color—shaming and exclusion by white partners, being fetishized, having realities of everyday racism ignored—occur in polyamorous relationships too, and trying “not to see race” only makes it worse. To make polyamorous communities inclusive, we must all acknowledge our part in perpetuating racism and listen to people of color. Love’s Not Color Blind puts forward the framework—through research, anecdotal testimony, and analogy—for understanding, identifying, and confronting racism within polyamorous communities.

      Resources for You

      We want to provide you with support and many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness and other topics of interest:

      Open Nesters Resource Page

      The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group

      About Tessa

      Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

      Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.

      Her offerings are based in her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature.  If she had one superpower,    it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open hearted lives.

      Please email Tessa to make a connection. If you like, please answer the question:

      What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…

      • Adventure
      •  Freedom of Expression
      •  Exploration and Fun
      •  Body Movement
      •  New circles of friends
      •  Deep love relationships
      • 59 min
      • Dance Love Heal (Season 3 | Episode 120)

        Dance Love Heal
        with Toni & Antoinette
        (Season 3 | Episode 120)

        [TESSA] This week I finally can share a conversation with Toni Bergens and Antoinette Sims. We cover a lot of ground, but center our discussion on conscious dance, movement, and healing.

        And yet.

        These two women are so wise. Later in this episode, you will hear such a healthy point of view on the end of our lives… the “letting go.” It is so worth hearing.

        One more thing.

        How welcome is it to hear an appreciation for, and the embracing of the concept “Crone.” I love that term – as you probably already know. The Crone is also an archetypal figure, a Wise Woman – and it is my mission for us to reintroduce ourselves to this particularly useful word. And I love dancing and drumming to the rhythms of my Crone (after all I am… Tessa Krone!).

        TESSA KRONE DRUMMING

        TONI BERGINS

        Toni is now partner-less and is, temporarily, without her two sons (who are on a grand adventure across Mexico this summer).

        VISIT JOURNEYDANCE

        ANTOINETTE SIMS

        Antoinette has a 20-year-old son. At present, she lives alone (with her lovely dog and best friend). She is looking forward in a way to the time that she is completely alone and all the possibilities can come from that.

        VISIT ANTOINETTE’S WEBSITE

        Journey Dance

        Get out of your mind and back into your body. This is the “journey” in JourneyDance. In modern life, it’s far too easy to stay in our thoughts… but 20 years of dancing have convinced me that everything in our busy lives is calling us home to our bodies.

        Freedom, self-expression, grounding, sensuality, release, emotion – these are the gifts that are waiting for you when you come home. To your body. To your senses. To inhabit every inch of your life. I want to personally invite you to join the JourneyDance tribe – and discover the journey that only you can make.

        And so it begins,

        Toni

        Holistic Living with Antoinette
        More Episodes about Sensual Expression
        Resources for You

        We want to provide you with support and many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness and other topics of interest:

        Open Nesters Resource Page

        The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group

        About Tessa

        Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

        Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.

        Her offerings are based in her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature.  If she had one superpower,    it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open hearted lives.

        Please email Tessa to make a connection. If you like, please answer the question:

        What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…

        • Adventure
        •  Freedom of Expression
        •  Exploration and Fun
        •  Body Movement
        •  New circles of friends
        •  Deep love relationships
        • 56 min
        • The Open Nest Evolving and Revolving Door with Tessa & Amir

          The Open Nest EVOLVING and REVOLVING Door
          with Tessa & Amir
          (Season 3 | Episode 119)

          [TESSA & AMIR] Every once and a while we get to treat ourselves to an episode with just the two of us. And it is such a joy (!) to get some ideas out into the open that have emanated from our recent podcast work. In this short podcast entry, we reach way back to our earliest episodes (could that really have been two years ago? !!!!) and share some of our favorite quotes and learnings. And, of course, we talk about… this idea… the evolving and revolving door.

          The Open Door

          We love the idea of the open door. And we, of course, embrace the word “open.” The Open Nest evolving and revolving door. It’s quite a concept. It has a fluidity to it. Change. Motion. Kinetic energy. It’s a far-reaching idea, and yet it can be quite real as well… like with our kids.

          They Come. They Go. They Stay For Dinner…

          Open Nesting for us, regarding the kids, means an open door. The kids can stay, live, hang out, and join us in activities as they like. We have a 24-year-old living at home, who is going to school, and it is a blessing for us. [AMIR] When Tessa is out of town my son and I are like a couple of bachelor roommates. We work out who is going to cook and clean up etc. And it has such a cool vibe to it.

          More Episodes about Open Nesting
          Deep and Generous Friendship (S6 | E255)

          Discover the power of a deep and generous friendship in your open-nesting years. Learn how lifelong bonds and “OSOs” can transform your life. Tune in now!

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          Embracing the Unknown: A conversation with Sue Jaye Johnson and Joe Richman (S6 | E248)

          Embracing the Unknown: A Conversation with Sue Jaye Johnson and Joe Richman. The journey of aging with The Open Nesters.

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          Navigating the Empty Nest: How to Downsize and Reimagine Your Future (S6 E247)

          Discover how to navigate the empty nest! Learn to downsize, embrace minimalism, and authentically reimagine your future.

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          Midlife Sexuality & Open Relationships (Season 6, Episode 246)

          Join Tessa and Amir on The Open Nesters Podcast as they dive into midlife sexuality, polyamory, and the “golden shadow” with Dr. Rosalyn Dischiavo.

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          Community and Polyamory (Season 6 | Episode 245)

          We speak with Chandra Kantor about community, aging, and the way relationships can become more mutual over time. The Open Nesters.

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          The Plan is… No Plan (S6 | E237)

          David and Veronica’s adventurous spirit shines through as they share their journey transitioning from traditional home life to full-time globetrotting.

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          The Team of Your Soul (S6 | E235)

          The Team of Your Soul | Join me as I introduce Tami Nora and Karen Yadovsky, two incredible mentors who specialize in helping individuals navigate life with purpose and authenticity.

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          No Shame Tackling Sex Taboos (Season 6 | Episode 234)

          No Shame Tackling Sex Taboos. We delve into the rich and intricate world of modern relationships through the lens of our remarkable guests, CJ and Linwood

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          Embracing the “Open” in Open Nesting (S6 | E222)

          Embracing the “Open” in Open Nesting with Martha Joy Rose. The Museum of Motherhood. The Open Nesters Podcast.

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          Leaning in to Better Lives

          The Open Nesters Podcast, we delve deep into personal transformation with Alia and Hayden.

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          Reflect and Celebrate The Open Nesters 2025 (S5 | E217)

          We reflect and celebrate The Open Nesters and completing five seasons of The Open Nesters Podcast, a platform redefining the empty nester experience.

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          The Balance Between Us (S5 | E209)

          The Balance Between Us. The Open Nesters Podcast: we dive into the often-asked questions we’ve received from our dedicated listeners.

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          The Grace of Growing Older: Embracing Elderhood and Sacred Time

          The Grace of Growing Older: Embracing Elderhood and Sacred Time. THE OPEN NESTERS PODCAST GUEST: RABBI DAYLE A. FRIEDMAN.

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          Rediscovering Desire: A Conversation with Sex Educator Pamela Madsen (S5 | E185)

          Rediscovering Desire: A Conversation with Sex Educator Pamela Madsen (S5 | E185) The Open Nesters Podcast. One of Our Classics.

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          Rediscovering Purpose: How Adventure Travel Helped This Empty Nester Heal, Grow, and Thrive (S5 | E184)

          Meet Dr. Stacey Funt, a radiologist & travel entrepreneur, who shares her journey through grief, empty nesting, and personal reinvention.

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          THE RADIO VAGABOND (FULL EPISODE – S5 | E183)

          A treat for you. We’re borrowing an episode of The Radio Vagabond from our friend Pallo Bo. We love his work and are sure you will too.

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          AN END TO ARGUING (S5 | E182)

          Linda and Charlie Bloom discuss “open nesting,” highlighting communication, self-reflection and empty nesting. AN END TO ARGUING.

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          “Embracing Aging: Ashton Applewhite on Fighting Ageism, Wisdom, and the Joys of Act III

          “Embracing Aging: Ashton Applewhite on Fighting Ageism, Wisdom, and the Joys of Act III. THE OPEN NESTERS PODCAST.

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          Playing with the Unexpected with Laura & Izzy

          Playing with the Unexpected with Laura & Izzy. Polyamory. Community. Communication. Support. The Open Nesters Podcast.

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          Your Pleasurespan

          We dive deep into the vibrant world of open relationships with returning guests CJ, Linwood and their partner April. Your Pleasurespan.

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          Self Expression in Open Love with Tessa & Amir

          Together, Amir and I delve into the thrilling possibilities of adventure, personal growth… open love this week on The Open Nesters.

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          Come Back to Love (S4 | E160)

          Robyn Vogel from Come Back to Love, is a wise Open Nester offering insights and advice, especially for single women.

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          Relationship Fluidity in the Empty Nest with Dr. Tammy Nelson (S4 | E155)

          Today we explore open relationships and non-monogamy, emphasizing communication, boundaries and relationship fluidity.

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          Infidelity and the Empty Nest | Gordon & Jenn (S4 | E154)

          Infidelity and the Empty Nest | In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we hear from Jenn and Gordon: swinging lifestyles to polyamory.

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          Season IV | The Open Nesters Podcast

          Season IV | The Open Nesters Podcast. Amir and Tessa review the past three seasons briefly. And we get you ready for a brilliant Season IV.

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          Empty Nest Love (in the Love Lab – S3 | E146)

          Open Nesting in the Love Lab (S3 | E146) | We sit down for a second time with Sue Jaye and Joe from Relationship Tripping.

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          Monogamish 101 with Dan and Mary

          Monogamish 101 with Dan and Mary | Adults kids, ecstatic dance, non-monogamy. Two people living their own lives… finally!

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          Open Bi Kinky Over 50

          Open Bi Kinky Over 50 | Meet CJ and Linwood. They met online from across the world. And now are together in a highly unique relationship.

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          Love’s Not Color Blind (Season 3 | Episode 121)

          Kevin and Antoinette are a polyamorous couple… with children. Kevin is the author of Love’s Not Color Blind. The Open Nesters Podcast.

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          The Open Nest Evolving and Revolving Door with Tessa & Amir

          The Open Nest Evolving and Revolving Door with Tessa & Amir. We love the chance to do an episode just the two of us. The Open Nesters.

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          Wild Monogamy (S3 | E116)

          Wild Monogamy – Like when you go to a play party and just play with your partner. Sex and Sensuality on The Open Nesters Podcast.

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          Dating and Living in Midlife and Beyond with Junie Moon

          Junie Moon works in the shadows. Or, rather, she helps us deal with shadows. Demons. Deal with the parts of our lives that require a ‘reckoning.’

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          Life as Polyamorous Elders

          Life as Polyamorous Elders | An interview with author Kathy Labriola, Therapist. Kathy has great expertise working with older poly clients.

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          HOW TO SLOW DOWN with Carl Honore

          How to Slow Down. Carl Honoré is a bestselling author, broadcaster and the voice of the Slow Movement The Open Nesters Podcast.

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          Polysecure with Jessica Fern (Season 3 | Episode 108)

          What is a “polysecure” relationship like? Jessica Fern, Tessa and Amir discuss all ends of the poly spectrum in this highly useful episode.

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          Magic and Mutuality (with Jonathan Pillot, Season 3 | Episode 106)

          Magic and Mutuality with Jonathan Pillot. The Open Nesters Podcast Friendship Series. Season 3 | Episode 106.

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          Pride and Community in Black and Brown Spaces (S3 | E104)

          Pride and Community. Our first guest host, Yarel is joined on this panel discussion by Yndia Lorick-Wilmot, Jessica Filion, and Melvin Pullen.

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          The Open Nesters Season 2 – A Summary (S2 | E97)

          We leaf through the categories that our podcasts fall under in this brief chat. And you can drill down by category too, in Season 2.

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          Progressive Love and Communication (Part 2)

          Part 2 of our conversation with Kenya and Carl about their amazing journey. Progressive Love this week on The Open Nesters Podcast.

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          Progressive Love and Communication (Season 2 | Episode 95)

          Kenya and Carl: While they are a poly couple, the lessons they teach are applicable to us all. They have created something really special with their Progressive Love Academy.

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          The Future is Female with Vicki Larson (Season 2 | Episode 93)

          Who hasn’t heard the stereotypes about women of a “certain age?” We deal with that idea head-on with Vicki Larson. The Future is Female.

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          Divorce, Adult Kids, and Deep Self-Discovery with Dan Sivils (Season 2 | Episode 91)

          We talk about Dan’s divorce, his status as an Open Nester, and his work as a divorce coach. Deep self-discovery with Dan Sivils on The Open Nesters Podcast.

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          The Universe is Waiting for Your Order with Esther Jones-Alley (Season 2 | Episode 88)

          The Universe is Waiting for Your Order with Esther Jones-Alley (Season 2 | Episode 88). The Open Nesters Podcast.

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          Wise Women Panel on Sex and Aging (Season 2 | Episode 87)

          Our sixth entry in our episodes related to Sensuality, Sexuality and Aging Month on The Open Nesters Podcast. This is Part 2 of our Panel Discussion.

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          The Erotic Blueprint and Vulnerable Asks (S2 | E83)

          “Will you have sex with me?” This simple question turns Anne all “squiggly.” If Dan says yes, she blushes with happiness.

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          Mobile, Unattached and Free with Casaundra & Chris (S2 | E80)

          Mobile, Unattached and Free with Casaundra & Chris (S2 | E80). The Open Nesters Podcast. Weekly. Make the most of your Act III.

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          Intimacy, Attachment, and Relationship Anarchy (Season 2 | Episode 74)

          Intimacy, Attachment, and Relationship Anarchy with Josh and Tammy. A return visit from the “Eroticize Your Jealousy” people.

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          The Pleasure Mechanics (Season 2 | Episode 71)

          Giving Pleasure Full Permission with Chris and Charlotte (S2 | E71). Learning how to have the best sex of your life after the kids have left the house.

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          Deconstructing Motherhood & Divorce with Joy Rose (Season 2 | Episode 70)

          Deconstructing Motherhood & Divorce with Joy Rose. Building confidence and self love in Act III of your life. The Open Nesters Podcast.

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          Your Erotic Blueprint with Angela Thurston (Season 2 | Episode 59)

          How lucky we are to have Angela Thurston on our show this week. You can reach Angela also at Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Coaching.

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          Not Your Grandma’s Monogamy (Season 2 | Episode 57)

          Not Your Grandma’s Monogamy. I have known Dr. Tammy Nelson for many years. It is a true pleasure to welcome her voice onto our podcast!

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          Our Loving Openness with Kitty, Tessa & Amir (Season 2 | Episode 55)

          Our Loving Openness with Kitty, Tessa & Amir. We share much about our journey to an open relationship in this episode.

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          Reframing Relationships with Sabrina and Seth (Season 2 | Episode 49)

          Reframing Relationships. Twists and Turns. The path that Sabrina and Seth have been on is somewhat mind-boggling.

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          The Open Nesters Podcast Season Two

          We have learned so much from so many smart and forward-thinking people. The Open Nesters Podcast Season Two Coming Soon.

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          Becoming a Mirror | Labeling and Unlabeling with Jonathan Pillot (Episode 45)

          Labeling and Unlabeling. Tessa and Amir interview Jonathan Pillot, founder of UnLabelMe. Meet an enlightened man this week on TON.

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          Dreaming of Open Nesting: Love and Plant Medicine in Act III (Episode 42)

          Dreaming of Open Nesting: Love and Plant Medicine in Act III. This week we meet Buck and Haven… two people on the verge.

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          Open Nesting 201 with Tessa and Amir (Episode 40)

          Open Nesting 201 with Tessa and Amir. After 40 podcat episodes Tessa and Amir reflect on what Open Nesting means to them now.

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          You Can Come Home, But My Two Boyfriends Are Here (Episode 39)

          Welcome to Episode 39 of The Open Nesters Podcast. Polyamory is only one of the many topics we discuss on this podcast. As you can imagine it is a polarizing topic. It is not for everyone.

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          Divorce, Dating, and Dreaming with Ava and Dan (Episode 30)

          Divorce, Dating, and Dreaming with Ava and Dave. The Open Nesters Podcast Episode 30. Tessa interviews two fascinating divorcees.

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          Co-Living and Community with Maggie Byrne (Episode 27)

          Maggie originally was simply interested in real estate and while she was pursuing various opportunities in that area she came across this idea of co-living and began Cosy Quarters.

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          If It Feels Right, Why Not? (Episode 23)

          If it feels right, why not? Meet Elicia and Doug from Core Emotional Healing. We have a marvelous conversation with this amazing couple from Costa Rica.

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          UNPLUGGED (Episode 20)

          We want to celebrate 20 episodes!! And we thought this unplugged show would be an opportune moment to share a bit about this journey.

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          Living Apart Together (LAT) with Vicki Larson (Episode 16)

          Living Apart Together (LAT). The Open Nesters, Tessa and Amir, interview Vicki Larson about negotiating one’s own space in a relationship.

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          Does Your Age Matter? with Ashton Applewhite (Episode 13)

          I (Tessa) talk generations, ageism and sexual enjoyment for our older generation with the marvelous Ashton Applewhite.

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          Erika Obando (Episode 5)

          This week the Open Nesters get into it with Erika Obando. Erika is a self-professed “open nester.”

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          Mental Physical Emotional Space (Episode 4)

          Mental Physical Emotional Space. Tessa and Amir discuss their own space and touch upon open relationships. Advice from Trevor Mullineaux.

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          Open vs. Empty Nest (Episode 1)

          In their premier episode, the original Open Nesters, Tessa & Amir, discuss the concept of Open vs. Empty Nest. We’re so pleased to begin our journey with you on The Open Nesters Podcast.

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          The Open Nesters Podcast Teaser Trailer

          Coming soon… and we mean it! January 28 we will share our first episode. But you don’t have to wait all that time. Click the play button above to hear our teaser trailer.

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          Resources for You

          We want to provide you with support and many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness and other topics of interest:

          Open Nesters Resource Page

          The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group

          About Tessa

          Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

          Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.

          Her offerings are based in her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature.  If she had one superpower,    it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open hearted lives.

          Please email Tessa to make a connection. If you like, please answer the question:

          What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…

          • Adventure
          •  Freedom of Expression
          •  Exploration and Fun
          •  Body Movement
          •  New circles of friends
          •  Deep love relationships
          • 24 min
          • Fun without Dick and Jane (Season 3 | Episode 118)

            Adventures and Fun without Dick and Jane
            When kids are part of life, but not the center of life.
            with Christie Mellor
            (Season 3 | Episode 118)

            [TESSA] Christie Mellor and her husband Richard have an unusual and beautiful open nest. She is a writer, an actor, and a painter – I’d call that a “triple threat.”

            And Christie is our guide to a delightfully empty (and possibly open) nest.

            You may have heard of Christie as she is the author of The Three Martini Playdate, The Three Martini Family Vacation: her third part of this trilogy of ideas is Fun Without Dick and Jane.

            In this episode, we talk through the concepts behind these books. Christie and I discuss how so many things have evolved since her early days in San Francisco in the 1960s. Christie shares how her adult children married, got jobs, and found their careers. And we talk about the “selling the house and moving to New York” thing… leaving her adult “boys” behind.

            About Christie Mellor
            Fun without Dick and Jane

            From Christie Mellor, the best-selling author of The Three-Martini Playdate comes this hilarious (and helpful) guide to recovering from getting those little angels into college and out of the house. Filled with unapologetically funny yet entirely sympathetic advice, Mellor answers important questions (Is $200 an hour too much to spend for exam tutoring? Is moving to an apartment near campus ever an option?) and offers wise counsel on saying good-bye, getting kids to stay in touch (without begging), and coping when they come home to roost (which they will—for holidays, summer break, and possibly for years after graduation). Best of all, she inspires empty nesters to embrace their newfound freedom and enjoy their lives to the full.

            From Christie’s Art Website:

            Having moved from my tiny, happy kitchen in New York City, I’m currently painting and staring at trees on a tiny island in the Pacific Northwest. Author of a bunch of books, including The Three-Martini Playdate and Fun Without Dick & Jane. Former actor & voiceover person and Singer of Depression-era & original songs with the fabulous musicians of Doozy.

            You can see Christie’s artwork here: Hat Monkey Studio

            More Episodes about Our Adult Children and Us
            Redefining Love, Long Distance, and Returning to the Nest

            Discover how long distance, ethical non-monogamy, and radical honesty helped one couple deepen their bond and redefine midlife intimacy.

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            Embracing the Unknown: A conversation with Sue Jaye Johnson and Joe Richman (S6 | E248)

            Embracing the Unknown: A Conversation with Sue Jaye Johnson and Joe Richman. The journey of aging with The Open Nesters.

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            Lessons in Trust and Connection (Season 6 | Episode 244)

            Trading the empty nest for an open one means opening our doors to new adventures and redefining our relationships. Lessons in Trust and Connection

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            Embracing the “Open” in Open Nesting (S6 | E222)

            Embracing the “Open” in Open Nesting with Martha Joy Rose. The Museum of Motherhood. The Open Nesters Podcast.

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            Courage (Season 6 | Episode 219)

            Courage We engage in a heartfelt conversation with our daughter, discussing the significance of courage as we navigate this stage of life.

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            Reflect and Celebrate The Open Nesters 2025 (S5 | E217)

            We reflect and celebrate The Open Nesters and completing five seasons of The Open Nesters Podcast, a platform redefining the empty nester experience.

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            Evolution Intimacy

            In this episode, I sit down with Lara and Michael Blackin, visionaries behind Temple in the Trees. Evolution. Intimacy.

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            Thank and Grow Rich (S5 | E215)

            We explore the transformative power of gratitude and personal growth through an interview with Pam Grout, the author of “Thank and Grow Rich.”

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            Give Thanks with Tessa and Amir (E5 | 214)

            This week, as we approach Thanksgiving, we address the complexities of family dynamics, expectations, and the importance of gratitude during this unique holiday. Give Thanks!

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            Erotic Healer (S5 | E211)

            From Engineer to Erotic Healer. Dr. David Freeman has transitioned from a successful engineering career to a life dedicated to sexual well-being.

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            Every Day is the Day (S5 | E205)

            Gary and Darcy explore themes of aging, vitality, spirituality, and sexuality, they redefine what it means to be in an empty nest.

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            From Empty to Open: Reimagining Family Bonds in the Nesting Transition (S5 | E191)

            From Empty to Open: Reimagining Family Bonds in the Nesting Transition (S5 | E191). An interview with Zev Aaron from Zev Aaron Coaching.

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            My Adult Child Won’t Talk to Me: Finding Hope and a Path Forward (S5 | E190)

            My Adult Child Won’t Talk to Me: Finding Hope and a Path Forward (S5 | E190) | THE RULES OF ESTRANGEMENT | Dr. Joshua Coleman

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            Reinventing Life After 50: Maria Leonard Olsen on Resilience, Sobriety, and Embracing Change – Open Nesters Podcast Episode (S5 | E187)

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            Resources for You

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            Open Nesters Resource Page

            The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group

            About Tessa

            Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

            Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.

            Her offerings are based in her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature.  If she had one superpower,    it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open hearted lives.

            Please email Tessa to make a connection. If you like, please answer the question:

            What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…

            • Adventure
            •  Freedom of Expression
            •  Exploration and Fun
            •  Body Movement
            •  New circles of friends
            •  Deep love relationships
            • 43 min
            • About Motherhood with Tessa

              About Motherhood
              with Tessa

              (Season 3 | Episode 117)

              [TESSA] With Mother’s Day in the Air…

              I want to focus attention on the state of motherhood in the open-nester stage of life. How can we not let our own scars get in the way of our relationships with our children? And how can we let our children lead their own lives (with a sense of our own detachment) while caring for them in a new supporting way (maintaining our attachment).

              I believe as I grow older I do grow wiser. And I want to reference Michelle Obama’s two books: Becoming & The Light We Carry. She has so much to say that I can relate to.

              Also I have learned to embrace a new level of surrender to mother earth and nature. I continue to learn that I am not in control of everything in my life. I learn to let go and allow for the universe to do at least some of the work in making connections for me.

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              Read more
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              Read more
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              In the interview the Open and Gypsy Nesters cover a lot of ground. From jumping into a beat up (think $3,000 on ebay!) old motor home to “sailing the seven seas” on a modest sized boat the adventures abound.

              Read more
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              Maria Leonard Olsen found herself living alone, on her own, at 50 years old… for the very first time. The Open Nesters Podcast.

              Read more
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              We want to celebrate 20 episodes!! And we thought this unplugged show would be an opportune moment to share a bit about this journey.

              Read more
              Resources for You

              We want to provide you with support and many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness and other topics of interest:

              Open Nesters Resource Page

              The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group

              About Tessa

              Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

              Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.

              Her offerings are based in her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature.  If she had one superpower,    it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open hearted lives.

              Please email Tessa to make a connection. If you like, please answer the question:

              What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…

              Adventure

              Freedom of Expression
              Exploration and Fun
              Body Movement
              New circles of friends
              Deep love relationships

              14 min
            • Wild Monogamy (S3 | E116)

              Wild Monogamy
              Like when you go to a play party and just play with your partner.
              with Mali and Joe
              (Season 3 | Episode 116)

              [TESSA and AMIR] Getting sexy in this one! And very loving.

              Imagine this.

              You worry about your aging body and have lost touch with what your partner thinks of it. After all those sexy years you are over 60 and, just saying it out loud, sagging a little bit. And your partner says… let’s fix this… Right here. Right now. And so you spend the day being photographed. Your naked body. From all angles. In different clothes. Wet. Dry. Inside. Outside. He shows you the beauty that he sees.

              And you put aside those body issues… forever!! This is not a dream.

              This is a day in the life of our guests this week: Mali and Joe
              And this is ‘Wild Monogamy.’
              About Mali and Joe

              Like many other couples in a new relationship, we experienced a deeply profound, almost magical feeling of connection when we began dating almost two decades ago. Not wanting this experience to end, we began a conversation about love, intimacy, and sex—and especially the question of how two people could keep their connection passionate, loving, and alive indefinitely.

              As we dedicated ourselves to this question, we began to coach singles and couples in applying our discoveries to transform their own lives and relationships. And as we witnessed the people we coached become more accepting toward themselves and more connected to those they loved, we decided to put all our ideas, tools, and techniques into a book so more people could have access to them. That’s how The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships was born.

              We’ve been thrilled over the years by how many people our book has touched. Every time someone tells us how an idea in The Soulmate Experience has positively transformed them or their relationship—or saved it altogether—we know we made the right choice to spend the years it took us to write this book.

              Intimate relationships are special in that they give us the opportunity to explore deep, erotic connection with another human being. And yet sexuality—which is so often tangled up with insecurity, jealousy, inhibition, shame, and self-consciousness—can be so challenging for couples. Helping people successfully work with the many kinds of sexual challenges that can arise in a relationship helped us make the decision to, once again, share our ideas and our clients’ success stories in a new book, Wild Monogamy: Cultivating Erotic Intimacy to Keep Passion and Desire Alive.

              We spend a lot of time together: we live together, we write together, and we coach together. And after almost two decades, we’re still talking about love, sex, and relationships. We’re still falling in love, we’re still making love, and our sexual connection is as strong as ever. And we’re confident that the ideas we share in our books will help you experience more love, more intimacy, and more connection in your life.

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              Resources for You

              We want to provide you with support and many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness and other topics of interest:

              Open Nesters Resource Page

              The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group

              About Tessa

              Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

              Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.

              Her offerings are based in her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature.  If she had one superpower,    it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open hearted lives.

              Please email Tessa to make a connection. If you like, please answer the question:

              What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…

              • Adventure
              •  Freedom of Expression
              •  Exploration and Fun
              •  Body Movement
              •  New circles of friends
              •  Deep love relationships
              • *Main Image Credit: Adobe Stock Photography

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              • Let’s Talk Money with Joe and Jim (S3 | E115)

                Let’s Talk Money
                Getting our financial longevity on track!
                with Joe Soricelli and Jim Licata
                (Season 3 | Episode 115)

                [TESSA and AMIR] We are on our third year of this life-changing podcast adventure. And all of us are the lucky ones. We’ve explored so many life paths, human stories, strategies, tips and plans. Each one has offered us the opportunity to grow. To find ourselves. To make the next act of our lives all the better. If you sense a bit of pride here, you are right. And by the fact that you are reading this now, you get it too… what true riches that we have all had presented to us.

                So it is with true “awe” that I we say to you now… THIS one is unique. This episode might very well change your financial lives. This podcast could give you financial peace of mind as you move through the four stages of retirement.

                “Wait, what did you say? Four stages of Retirement? Of what do you speak dear Tessa and Amir?”

                Well – we’re not going to spoil it here. You will just have to listen for yourselves.

                PRODUCER’S NOTE: You’ll get a ton out of this podcast, audio issues notwithstanding. We had some bugaboo with Joe’s audio and you will likely notice some clicking sounds when he speaks. We tried to fix… yet audio is so unforgiving. Soldier through, Open Nester Listener, it is worth it.

                Jim Licata – Linkedin – 914-720-3337
                Joe Soricelli – Linkedin – 914-468-0185
                CLICK HERE TO LISTEN
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                A.I.M. starts the process with a personalized, confidential interview to identify the decisions that stress you the most such as housing, insurance, healthcare, retirement and end-of-life planning, etc.

                We help you act on the needed decisions quickly and responsibly. Let Aging Issues Management help you address your planning needs now and in the future. Visit Joe at Aging Issues Management

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                Resources for You

                We want to provide you with support and many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness and other topics of interest:

                Open Nesters Resource Page

                The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group

                About Tessa

                Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

                Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.

                Her offerings are based in her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature.  If she had one superpower,    it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open hearted lives.

                Please email Tessa to make a connection. If you like, please answer the question:

                What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…

                • Adventure
                •  Freedom of Expression
                •  Exploration and Fun
                •  Body Movement
                •  New circles of friends
                •  Deep love relationships
                • 41 min
                • Dating and Living in Midlife and Beyond with Junie Moon

                  Dating and Living in Midlife and Beyond
                  with Junie Moon
                  (Season 3 | Episode 114)

                  [TESSA] Junie Moon has had one interesting journey so far. Marriage. Monogamy. An evolving relationship with options open. A Child. The early emptying of the nest and then a divorce. And then… Open Nesting and all that comes with that. All the possibilities.

                  Junie and I focus on ‘midlife,’ that time over 40 when the kids are gone. The operative word is “REBOOT.” The rebooting of our lives. In Junie’s own words, “It’s a little bit of a mind-fuck.” That ‘now what?’

                  Junie’s answer to this big question was to create a practice and business and podcast geared toward working with women (and men) to help them put their demons (which she refers to as shadows) to rest.

                  We consider these questions and a lot more with our guest this week, June Moon. 

                  About Junie
                  In my second half of life…
                  I’ve experienced what I call Next Level Love. A sacred partnership where I could be my true self and feel supported. I’ve been able to fully relax and be met heart-to-heart, soul-to-soul, where I didn’t have to compromise the most important things to me.
                  But once upon a time…

                  I was married to a very selfish man with a spicy temper. I stayed in that relationship for 20 years! I was scared to make waves so I walked on eggshells, afraid to stand up for myself or ask for my needs to be met. I had knots in my stomach on a regular basis. I ate so much in an attempt to self-soothe that I ended up at my highest weight ever: 200 pounds. I was miserable.

                  I tried for years to make it work. I hoped for healing. I pleaded with him to get the support we needed, but he wasn’t having any of it. He said I was the problem and wouldn’t take any responsibility. With that, I finally left him.

                  Getting support and being willing to do this deeper work allowed me to heal the past and create a new life full of Next Level Love.

                  Midnight Love Out Loud with Love Coach Junie Moon

                  What’s the difference between an Empty Nester and Open Nester? This is an easy one. It’s the energy behind the words. Empty tends to have negative meanings connected to sadness and maybe even grief.

                  Open Nester means to Open to the areas between black, white in all areas in your life. It’s about looking at life in new ways. And there are so many possibilities to adventure, newness, and even sadness or grief when we are open to life. Listen in as Tess Krone shares all about being open in midlife and how to lead life with curiosity instead of right and wrong, good and bad.

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                  Resources for You

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                  The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group

                  About Tessa

                  Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

                  Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.

                  Her offerings are based in her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature.  If she had one superpower,    it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open hearted lives.

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                  • Life as Polyamorous Elders

                    Life as a Polyamorous Elders
                    with Kathy Labriola
                    (Season 3 | Episode 113)

                    [TESSA] So what happens as we get older? What happens to the libido? What about poly people? Do people become more open? Do they just maintain their relationships with multiple partners? Do they become more conservative sexually?

                    We consider these questions with our guest this week, Kathy Labriola. 

                    We discuss the practical value of multiple partners later in life, finding your community, and our different views today vs. a generation before about poly lifestyles. Kathy is a wealth of information. Kathy also references a study completed by Jim Fleckenstein who was an early guest on our podcast. You can revisit that episode here: Jim Fleckenstein.

                    Here are a few links for us as we consider trends and behaviors on elder polyamory:

                    “Young People More Open to Polyamory”

                    • Whereas 28% of people who responded to the annual “Sex Census” by LELO said a polyamorous relationship would tick all their intimacy boxes, this figure rose to 38% among people aged 18 to 24.
                    • “It’s a Little Bit Tricky”: Results from the POLYamorous Childbearing and Birth Experiences Study (POLYBABES)

                      • The number of polyamorous people in Canada is growing steadily, and many polyamorous people are of childbearing age and report living with children.
                      • The Most Surprising Monogamy Vs Polyamory Statistics And Trends in 2023

                        • Participants in non-monogamous relationships reported higher levels of trust and lower levels of jealousy compared to their monogamous counterparts.
                        • Kathy Labriola is a counselor, nurse, and hypnotherapist in private practice in Berkeley, California. She has written two previous books on relationships and has years of professional experience working with polyamorous singles, couples, and groupings on relationship dynamics. Dossie Easton is the co-author of the bestselling The Ethical Slut. She is also a psychotherapist, relationship counselor, and educator. Since 1969, she has lived and worked in sexual minority cultures and is an authority on polyamory.

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                          Love in the Third Third of Act III (Season 2 | Episode 52)

                          Love in the Third Third of Act III. Meet Kit and Jeff, two people who found each other nearly 10 years ago. The Open Nesters Podcast.

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                          Healing Our Intimacy Wounds (Season 2 | Episode 51)

                          Healing Our Intimacy Wounds. We are so fortunate to have Isha Vela with us this week. We cover some complicated ground in our chat.

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                          The Wild Life of an Unentangled Off the Grid Dad (Season 2 | Episode 50)

                          Off the Grid Dad. Meet Cort Geraipy… truly one of the most interesting people you will ever encounter.

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                          Reframing Relationships with Sabrina and Seth (Season 2 | Episode 49)

                          Reframing Relationships. Twists and Turns. The path that Sabrina and Seth have been on is somewhat mind-boggling.

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                          Rock Your Erotic Boat with Pamela Madsen (Episode 46)

                          Rock Your Erotic Boat with Pamela Madsen on The Open Nesters Podcast. This is for men and women who want to develop their sexuality mid-life.

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                          Becoming a Mirror | Labeling and Unlabeling with Jonathan Pillot (Episode 45)

                          Labeling and Unlabeling. Tessa and Amir interview Jonathan Pillot, founder of UnLabelMe. Meet an enlightened man this week on TON.

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                          Paradoxical Power and Healing with the Dominatrix (Episode 43)

                          Paradoxical Power and Healing with the Dominatrix (Episode 43). An interview with Heather Hundhausen on The Open Nesters Podcast.

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                          Dreaming of Open Nesting: Love and Plant Medicine in Act III (Episode 42)

                          Dreaming of Open Nesting: Love and Plant Medicine in Act III. This week we meet Buck and Haven… two people on the verge.

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                          Open Nesting 201 with Tessa and Amir (Episode 40)

                          Open Nesting 201 with Tessa and Amir. After 40 podcat episodes Tessa and Amir reflect on what Open Nesting means to them now.

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                          You Can Come Home, But My Two Boyfriends Are Here (Episode 39)

                          Welcome to Episode 39 of The Open Nesters Podcast. Polyamory is only one of the many topics we discuss on this podcast. As you can imagine it is a polarizing topic. It is not for everyone.

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                          Change Your Noise and Get Curious with Effy Blue (Episode 37)

                          Change Your Noise and Get Curious with Effy Blue. People are curious by nature, but they very well may need a little help pursuing their curiosity. Enter Effy Blue and Curious Fox.

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                          The Book of Life with Esther Russell (Episode 34)

                          The Book of Life with Esther Russell. This week we explore The Akashic Record with empath and entrepreneur Esther Russell.

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                          #Open (Episode 31)

                          Consensual, ethical non-monogamy – delivered in an app… and community. This is about David and Amanda and their lives and program called #open.

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                          Divorce, Dating, and Dreaming with Ava and Dan (Episode 30)

                          Divorce, Dating, and Dreaming with Ava and Dave. The Open Nesters Podcast Episode 30. Tessa interviews two fascinating divorcees.

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                          Intersectionality (with Gloria Jackson Nefertiti Episode 29)

                          Gloria Jackson-Nefertiti is a poet, public speaker, photographer, and former fundamentalist Christian and cult member. Intersectionality.

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                          Is Ethical Non-Monogamy for You? (Episode 26)

                          Is Ethical Non-Monogamy for You? You may be able to sort that out with this podcast featuring our guest, Sumati Sparks.

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                          Are You Securely Attached? (Episode 24)

                          Trevor Crow is a Certified Executive Coach, Author, Talk Show Host, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. Are You Securely Attached?

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                          The Many Kinds of Love that Work (Episode 22)

                          Jim has so much to share about how we connect with our partners. He is a highly accomplished author and thinker in the polyamory space.

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                          UNPLUGGED (Episode 20)

                          We want to celebrate 20 episodes!! And we thought this unplugged show would be an opportune moment to share a bit about this journey.

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                          The Bed Hoppers (Episode 19)

                          The Bed Hoppers on The Open Nesters Podcast. Meet Mr. and Mrs. H. from the UK. They have a lot to say about swinging.

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                          Queerness, Inclusion, Tantra & an Ecstatic Life (Episode 18)

                          Barbara Carrellas is a remarkable woman who has achieved so much as an educator, sex life coach, workshop facilitator and lecturer. It was my [Tessa] pleasure to sit down for a long talk with Barbara for the Open Nesters Podcast.

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                          Living Apart Together (LAT) with Vicki Larson (Episode 16)

                          Living Apart Together (LAT). The Open Nesters, Tessa and Amir, interview Vicki Larson about negotiating one’s own space in a relationship.

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                          Jealousy, Compersion… Loving Without Boundaries with Kitty Chambliss (Episode 14)

                          Jealousy, compersion and how to handle a deep relationship. Kitty Chambliss from Loving without Boundaries is our guest on The Open Nesters.

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                          Language of the Soul (Laura Campbell Episode 12)

                          Laura Campbell helps us look at the spiritual essence of our years after 50 when we have the time and space to be still for a while.

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                          I Want That and More (with Jahaira and Marvin Episode 11)

                          In Episode 11 we meet Jahaira and Marvin, who are swingers, who really never stopped swinging even when they became polyamorous. And we hear about Jahaira’s “I want that” moment.

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                          Sexuality, Identity, and Capacity with Dr. Rosalyn Dischiavo (Episode 9)

                          Dr. Roz discusses the concept of “a second awakening,” particularly after children have gone, noting that we have this urge to wake up, maybe a lot due to our biology… the “midlife crisis.”

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                          Eroticize Your Jealousy with Thea and Curt (Episode 8)

                          Amidst COVID these two open-minded adults found each other. And they found that polyamory could work for them both. Thea and Curt met in early March – just prior to COVID. And then quarantine. Phone calls. Video chats. “It was challenging, I didn’t know if we had physical chemistry,” noted Curt.

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                          Following the Yes with Joy Lynn Okoye (Episode 7)

                          Tessa interviews yoga teach and life coach Joy Okoye. Joy is in the middle of a huge life change. She is in “the void.” She is moving from mother to friend with her two teenagers. And she is asking questions of herself… “Who am I?”

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                          Play with Shane Kulman (Episode 6)

                          Kink. Internet Intimacy. Zoom Threesomes. The Enchantress Shane and the Open Nesters explore the taboos that can accompany adults who go forth and Open Nest.

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                          Erika Obando (Episode 5)

                          This week the Open Nesters get into it with Erika Obando. Erika is a self-professed “open nester.”

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                          Mental Physical Emotional Space (Episode 4)

                          Mental Physical Emotional Space. Tessa and Amir discuss their own space and touch upon open relationships. Advice from Trevor Mullineaux.

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                          Open vs. Empty Nest (Episode 1)

                          In their premier episode, the original Open Nesters, Tessa & Amir, discuss the concept of Open vs. Empty Nest. We’re so pleased to begin our journey with you on The Open Nesters Podcast.

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                          Resources for You

                          We want to provide you with support and many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness and other topics of interest:

                          Open Nesters Resource Page

                          The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group

                          About Tessa

                          Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

                          Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.

                          Her offerings are based in her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature.  If she had one superpower,    it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open hearted lives.

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