The Parent Oasis

The Parent Oasis

By Carolyn AukafolauParentingKids & Family
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The Parent Oasis episodes

  • When Routines Shift: Finding Your Feet Again

    In this episode, I share a reflection on why parenting often feels like a constant reset, and how you can begin to find your feet again — without pressure, and without overhauling everything.

    Hello Parent, whether the school term is in full swing or you’re already looking ahead to the next holiday break, it’s completely normal to feel a bit wobbly when routines shift — again.

    In today's episode you will hear:

    • Why it’s ok if your routines haven’t settled yet

    • How to re-ground yourself in small, doable ways

    • A gentle reminder that your reset doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s

    If you are feeling tired, overwhelmed, or like you’re always starting over this episode may give you some much needed peace. Take what resonates, and come back to it anytime you need to reset.


    Resources mentioned in this episode:

    • Join here to be the first to access the upcoming Social Stories Resource and 4-part podcast series: https://www.theparentoasis.com/

    • Connect with me on Instagram @theparentoasis


    11 min
  • Tiny Moments of Parent Self-Care

    In this episode, we’re diving into practical, manageable self-care strategies for busy parents.

    Discover how small, intentional moments can make a big difference in your patience, resilience, and ability to stay calm through the ups and downs of parenting. From quick breathing exercises to simple shifts in mindset, these tips will help you recharge and show up with more presence for yourself and your child.

    Plus, stay tuned until the end for a special invitation to my free two-part webinar series, From Triggered to Tranquil—your next step toward calmer, more connected parenting!

    Visit https://www.theparentoasis.com/parent to find out more and register for the webinars.

    • Webinar 1: Identifying Your Parenting Triggers

      • Learn to recognise what sets off those big reactions and why.
      • Webinar 2: Essential Tools for Managing Triggers and Responding Calmly

        • Discover techniques to stay grounded and respond to your child’s emotions effectively.
        • Dates & Sign-Up Information

          • Date: Tuesday, November 12th & Wednesday, November 13th 10am (NZDT)
          • Registration Link: https://www.theparentoasis.com/parent
          • Bonus: You’ll also receive a free guidebook packed with exercises and templates to help you put these skills into practice.
          • 19 min
          • Mindfulness for Busy Parents

            In this episode of The Parent Oasis Podcast, I explore how mindfulness can help busy parents find moments of calm amidst the chaos of family life. I share practical tips for incorporating mindfulness into your daily routine—no matter how hectic it gets. Learn simple breathing exercises, mindful ways to approach everyday tasks, and how to practice mindfulness with your children.

            Tune in to discover how mindfulness can reduce stress, improve focus, and strengthen your connection with your family.


            Get a copy of my free resource 'A Guide to Finding Small Moments of Calm in Your Day'. I have included more information and strategies that will help you set up your own regular routine of mindfulness practice.

            https://www.theparentoasis.com/calm


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            8 min
          • Morning Chaos to Calm: Creating a Morning Routine

            This episode discusses how you can start planning a morning routine that suits you.

            Creating a calm start to your day is easier said than done when you are trying to manage other little people as well as yourself. You may have tried setting up a morning routine before, it might have even worked for a while. You may have additional family challenges such as anxiety, neurodiversity or emotional regulation. Creating a morning that meets your family’s unique needs is not simple but it can be done.

            To get a downloadable copy of your own checklist and other bonus free resources please click here https://www.theparentoasis.com/morning


            21 min

          About The Parent Oasis

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          The Parent Oasis is a calm, supportive space for parents of children with additional needs — a place to pause, breathe, share in the joy, and feel less alone in the day-to-day challenges of family life.