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In this episode, Erica opens up about the incredible journey that led her and her husband to ministry, their transition into church leadership, and how they balance it all while raising four young children. From meeting online to serving the Lord in their community, Erica’s story is full of faith, fun, and an inspiring example of what it means to fully commit to God's plan.

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In this episode, I sat down with Robin Schmidt, an ambassador for PIR Ministries, to discuss the vital work they do in supporting pastors who have experienced forced exits from their congregations. Robin shares the history and mission of PIR (Pastor in Residence), a ministry founded to provide a safe haven and restorative process for wounded pastors and their families. Learn how PIR helps restore hope, trust, and a sense of calling to those who have dedicated their lives to ministry.

Introduction to PIR Ministries: Robin introduces PIR Ministries and its mission to support pastors who have been forcibly exited from their congregations due to conflict, burnout, or moral failures.

Refuge Churches: Discover the concept of Refuge Churches—grace-filled churches that offer a safe and supportive environment for exited pastors and their families to heal and restore their sense of calling.

The Ministry of Presence: Robin emphasizes the importance of simply being present with those who are hurting, drawing parallels to the Jewish custom of sitting shiva.

The Healing Process: Understand the structured support system provided by PIR, including support teams, affirmations, and the Pro-D assessment, which helps pastors and their spouses understand their strengths and areas for growth.

Links We Mentioned

PIR Ministries Website: pirministries.org

[book] Pastors at Risk - Dr. Charles A. Wickman 

[book] The Weary Leader’s Guide to Burnout - Sean Nemecek

[download] Relief from the Pressure to Produce - Roy Yanke

[download] When Christians Clash - Dan Borg

[podcast] Hope Renewed 

If you or someone you know is a pastor who has been forcibly exited from their congregation, reach out to PIR Ministries for support and resources to help you heal and restore your sense of calling.

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On this episode of the Pastor Wife Life podcast, I’m chatting with Brandice Lardner of Grace-Filled Plate of Grace-Filled Plate.

At Grace Filled Plate, Brandice guides Christian women to overcome the diet mindset and discover food freedom through a relationship with Christ. Despite knowing our needs are met in Jesus, many of us get swept up in worldly thinking and past struggles. We try to fix our food issues with tools that aren't from the Lord. While God may use various tools, it's ultimately about putting Him first.

CONNECT WITH BRANDICE

Grace-Filled Plate website

[book] Grace-Filled Plates: Ditch Diets and Find Food Freedom Through God’s Grace - a 30-day devotion

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Today on the podcast, we’re diving into the topic of trials and finding joy with my friend, Barb Raveling. Joy is one of my favorite topics, especially as someone who has battled depression for years. When God delivered me from that, joy became incredibly precious to me because I had gone so long without it.

The enemy often tries to steal our joy. While this is true for any believer, it sometimes feels particularly intense in the pastor's wife life. We face unique challenges as we love on God's people and our families, and the enemy's attacks can be relentless.

Joy is not merely an abstract concept but a tangible experience that comes from walking closely with God through every trial. It’s a testimony to His faithfulness and a light to those around us. As we navigate our own journeys, let us embrace each trial as an opportunity to grow in faith and joy, knowing that God is with us every step of the way.

CONNECT WITH BARB

Barb's website

Barb's Facebook page

Barb's Instagram

Follow Barb on Pinterest

Barb on YouTube

LINKS WE MENTIONED

Phillipians Bible Study

Barb's other books

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Carrie Blackley is a Tennessee pastor’s wife who has experienced the mercy, grace, and love of God. Her story of coming out of addiction and into a life surrendered to Jesus to being the pastor’s wife is an amazing testimony of the power of God. You will love her genuine heart and be encouraged by her faith!

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Carrie on Facebook

The Highlands Church on Facebook

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In today's episode, Michele Cole shares her story of becoming the pastor's wife, facing infertility, and the diagnoses of autism and ADHD for her boys.

Michele emphasizes the role of faith in the midst of difficult journeys and the importance of finding spiritual and relational support. She also gives great insight into way the church can be more inclusive and understanding, ensuring that all families feel welcomed and supported. 

If you are a pastors' wife and mom to kids with special needs, you will be so encouraged by this episode! And if you’re a pastor’s wife who wants to deepen her understanding of how to minister to moms of special needs kids, you’re going to get a lot out of this episode. 

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Kristen Smith has been married to her husband Heath, pastor of Alpha Baptist Church in Morristown, TN, for six years. They are parents to two boys, ages 4 and 2. You're going to love Kristen and her enthusiasm and joy for the pastor wife life.

On this episode we talked about so many things and I struggled with giving this episode a title because it was all so good!  So get ready to hear about starting a book club in your church, transitioning from one church to another, her dad's part in Kristen becoming the pastor's wife, and so much more! (Maybe I should've called this episode: When Dad is the Matchmaker.)

CONNECT WITH KRISTEN:
Kristen on Facebook
Kristen on Instagram
Alpha Baptist Church in Morristown TN

LINKS WE MENTIONED:
Avid Readers of Christian Fiction (Facebook group)
Someone Like You - Karen Kingsbury (book)
The Unlikely Yarn of the Dragon Lady - Sharon Mondragon (book)

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Transitioning out of one ministry and into the next is one of the most challenging aspects of the pastor wife life and it’s one that 99.99% will probably experience at least once. In today’s episode, Julie Lynn Ashley shares the lessons she learned when she and her husband were faced with an unexpected transition.

From the initial shock of realizing change was happening to the eventual acceptance and navigation of the transition, it’s clear that Julie Lynn relied heavily on her faith and sought guidance from God throughout the journey. She also talks about the value of having a “Jill” in your life.

Her reflections on the mistakes made and lessons learned offer valuable insights for others facing similar transitions in their lives. It’s beautiful to see how God works to redeem difficult situations and lead us to unexpected blessings.

CONNECT WITH JULIE LYNN

Julie Lynn’s website – JulieLynnAshley.com

Sign up for her newsletter – [email protected]

LINKS WE MENTIONED

PIR Ministries

Alongside: Empowering Ministry Wives

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Lisa Dingle is not just a pastor’s wife and mom, she is also the program supervisor for a social services program with a master’s degree in psychology. In today’s episode, Lisa shares her story of finding herself and her then-fiance (and spoiler alert: now husband) in a toxic relationship with a narcissistic pastor. Although it nearly destroyed Lisa and John’s relationship, twenty years later she is thankful for all that she learned about who God is through that season and how it propelled her into the mental health field where she is serving and helping others today. Lisa talks about recognizing the signs of toxicity and how to find healing as well as recommending resources to learn more.

CONNECT WITH LISA

Lisa on Facebook

Lisa on Instagram

Lisa’s church - Millville Assembly

LINKS WE MENTIONED

Therapy & Theology on YouTube (Lysa Terkeurst podcast)

Therapy & Theology Podcast

Boundaries by Henry Cloud (book)

Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are (book)

It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way: Finding Unexpected Strength When Disappointments Leave you Shattered by Lysa Terkeurst (book)

Forgiving What You Can't Forget: Discover How to Move On, Make Peace with Painful Memories, and Create a Life That’s Beautiful Again - by Lysa Terkeurst (book)

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You may remember today’s guest from episode 96. Heather Creekmore is a pastor’s wife, author, podcaster, online course creator and coach focused on improving body image from a biblical perspective.

In today’s episode, we chat about the cultural pressure on women’s body and how we can find a balanced and biblical approach to body image, food, and exercise. We talked the importance of addressing struggles with body image in our churches and how we can engage in open and honest conversations rooted in biblical truth.

I know for me, I’m on camera all the time in videos, photos, and I’m on stage every week at church. It’s easy to be self-conscious and focused on how I look. Maybe I’m the only one, but if that sounds like you too, you’re going to love my conversation with Heather.

CONNECT WITH HEATHER
Heather's website - Improve Body Image
Heather's Facebook group
Heather's Instagram
Heather's YouTube channel
Heather on Pinterest

HEATHER'S BOOKS
The 40-Day Body Image Workbook
The Burden of Better: How a Comparison Free Life Leads to Joy, Peace, and Rest
Compared to Who: A Proven Path to Improve Your Body Image
(releasing April 2, 2024!) Aging Gratefully: a 30-day Devotional for Women

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