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EP. 101 – Curiosity Creates Possibility w/ Bao Le | The Patty Show

What happens when curiosity takes you from Singapore to the world of filmmaking?

In Episode 101 of The Patty Show, Patty sits down with Bao Le, a Singaporean cinematographer and filmmaker whose creative journey has taken her from discovering filmmaking in Singapore to studying at Nanyang Technological University and the American Film Institute, and ultimately building her career in Los Angeles.

Bao shares the realities of pursuing filmmaking as a Southeast Asian woman in an industry that can feel far removed from the traditional expectations placed on women in her community. While opportunities and representation are growing, stepping outside the expected path and choosing a creative career still takes courage, conviction, and a willingness to bet on yourself.

The conversation dives deep into cinematography, visual storytelling, lighting, collaboration, working on set, finding your creative voice, and what Bao has learned from studying and working across different filmmaking environments.

But this is The Patty Show—so we go WAY beyond the résumé.

Patty and Bao actually worked together on set, leading to stories about filmmaking, acting, production life, and Patty's unforgettable transformation into a 65-year-old retired lawyer.

Then things get personal.

Bao opens up about her love of K-Pop, EXO, D.O., anime, and Gintama, including the unbelievable story of her and her friends paying someone to wait in line for two weeks for K-Pop tickets.

Yes. Two weeks.

They also talk about hiking, diving, cooking, culture, life in Los Angeles, Singaporean roots, creativity outside of work, and the importance of staying curious.

At the heart of this conversation is a simple idea:

Curiosity Creates Possibility.

Sometimes following one question can change the entire direction of your life.

Bao's story is a reminder that you don't have to follow the path expected of you. You can take your culture with you, explore new worlds, build your own creative identity, and pursue a life that feels authentically yours.

And because Bao is the homie, she even came bearing gifts from Singapore—Natural Squirms gummies, which Patty can officially confirm are dangerously good. A little taste of Singapore made its way onto The Patty Show set!

This episode is for filmmakers, actors, creatives, Southeast Asian artists, immigrants, K-Pop and anime fans, and anyone figuring out what their own Personal Paradise could look like.

And of course, Patty connects it all back to the bigger mission: Passion, Pleasure, Positivity, and building a life you actually want to wake up for.

Come for the cinematography.

Stay for the K-Pop and Gintama stories.

Leave feeling a little more curious about what's possible for you.

What are you curious about?

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100 episodes. One unforgettable full-circle moment.

For the milestone 100th episode of The Patty Show, Patty sits down with someone who helped shape the course of his life long before Hollywood auditions, podcast microphones, 5 AM workouts, or a career in tech.

His high school theater teacher, mentor, and lifelong friend, Shaun Mitchell.

Shaun is an award-winning educator, TEDx speaker, theater director, and Dean of Students whose impact extends far beyond the classroom. Through years of mentorship, encouragement, and leadership, he has inspired countless students to believe in themselves and pursue lives filled with purpose.

Together, Patty and Shaun revisit the productions that sparked a dream—from Almost, Maine and Deathtrap to Prospect High: Brooklyn and 12 Angry Men—while reflecting on the lessons that continue to shape them today. They explore mentorship, education, leadership, relationships, creativity, identity, and the extraordinary power of believing in another person.

More than a conversation about theater, this episode is a celebration of the people who quietly change our lives. The teachers, coaches, mentors, friends, and family members who see our potential before we see it ourselves.

Without Shaun's belief years ago, The Patty Show—and the life Patty is building today—might have looked very different.

Whether you're an educator, artist, entrepreneur, student, parent, coach, or simply someone pursuing your own Personal Paradise, this episode is a reminder that one conversation, one opportunity, or one person can change everything.

In this episode:

Celebrating 100 episodes of The Patty Show

Shaun Mitchell's journey as an award-winning educator and TEDx speaker

The lasting impact of mentorship

Lessons from high school theater that still apply today

Leadership, relationships, and authentic connection

Building confidence through creativity

Pursuing purpose over perfection

Why believing in someone can change the trajectory of their life

Thank you for being part of the first 100 episodes of The Patty Show.

Here's to the conversations still to come.

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What does it really mean to build the life you train for?

In Episode 99 of The Patty Show, Patty sits down with actor, martial artist, teacher, and filmmaker Victor Mambu for an inspiring conversation about passion, perseverance, identity, and staying committed to the journey.

This episode is special because it was the first time Patty and Victor met in person, but the connection felt instant. Two creatives sharing the same love for storytelling, representation, and creating something meaningful beyond themselves.

Victor shares his incredible journey from being born in Jakarta, Indonesia to building a life and career in Hollywood. Over the years, he has worked across film, television, commercials, and independent projects while continuing to grow as an artist and storyteller. His journey includes appearances in projects like Fallout, Sugar, and White Men Can't Jump, while also stepping into new creative roles behind the camera.

But this conversation goes much deeper than credits.

Victor opens up about being Indonesian-American in Hollywood, the importance of representation, his passion for martial arts, his experience as a teacher, and the mindset required to keep showing up when the dream takes longer than expected.

Patty and Victor talk about the reality of chasing a creative career, finding joy in the process, building discipline, and understanding that success isn't something that happens overnight—it is something you train for every day.

From auditions and acting jobs to personal growth and future projects, Victor shares the lessons that have shaped him into the person he is today.

Whether you're an artist, entrepreneur, dreamer, or someone working toward a bigger vision, this episode is a reminder that every step of the journey matters.

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What do Yale science labs, Off-Broadway stages, documentary filmmaking, and a family passion for winemaking have in common?

In Episode 98 of The Patty Show, Patty sits down with actor, filmmaker, and friend Adrien Rolet for a thoughtful conversation about mindset, resilience, creativity, and the experiences that shape who we become.

Raised in the United Kingdom with French, American, and Italian roots, Adrien has followed an unconventional path. From performing as a boy soprano in London churches to studying biology and theatre at Yale University, directing documentaries, and making his Off-Broadway debut in New York, his journey is a testament to the power of curiosity and embracing multiple passions.

Recorded in Adrien's Brooklyn apartment, this episode feels less like an interview and more like two friends exploring the lessons they've learned from pursuing meaningful work and staying open to unexpected opportunities. Adrien shares insights from his acting career, documentary filmmaking projects, and scientific background, revealing how each discipline has influenced the others.

The conversation also touches on family, culture, storytelling, personal growth, and the importance of mindset when navigating uncertainty. Adrien reflects on his British upbringing, his family's connection to French winemaking, and how experiences across different worlds have helped shape his perspective on life and creativity.

Listeners will also enjoy hearing about mutual connections within the acting community, including fellow Patty Show guest Kai Caster, and the friendships that continue to inspire growth both on and off screen.

Whether you're an artist, student, entrepreneur, performer, or simply someone looking to strengthen your mindset, this conversation offers practical wisdom on resilience, adaptability, and building a life aligned with your values.

Thank you for listening to The Patty Show. If you enjoyed this episode, please follow, rate, and review the podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts. Your support helps us continue sharing stories centered around passion, pleasure, and positivity.

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What happens when you stop comparing your journey to everyone else's?

In Episode 97 of The Patty Show, Patty sits down with filmmaker, re-recording mixer, puppeteer, soccer goalkeeper, and creative storyteller Antonio Dorame to discuss trusting your own path and embracing the pace that's right for you.

Antonio shares his journey from community college to CSUN's film program, working on independent productions, joining the Disney College Program in Florida, and now working behind the scenes at Universal Studios Hollywood. Along the way, he's learned that growth isn't always linear—and that some of life's most valuable lessons come from unexpected places.

Together, Patty and Antonio explore creativity, friendship, filmmaking, sound design, puppetry, personal growth, and the importance of staying present instead of rushing toward the next milestone.

Whether you're building a career, pursuing a creative dream, navigating uncertainty, or simply trying to trust your timing, this conversation is a reminder that your journey doesn't have to look like anyone else's.

Topics include:

• The Disney College Program experience

Your pace is the right pace.

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What do Dungeons & Dragons, Meta leadership, and decades in tech have in common?

In Episode 96 of The Patty Show, Patty sits down with fellow Meta teammate (Metamate), community leader, and longtime friend Jeffrey Shih for a conversation about discipline, identity, leadership, and the routines that keep us grounded through life's constant changes.

Jeffrey has spent nearly three decades building a career around solving problems, supporting teams, and becoming the person people trust when things get complicated. From the early days of the internet to his current role as a Client Solutions Manager at Meta, Jeff has seen technology evolve while staying consistent in one thing: showing up, helping others, and finding solutions.

But this conversation goes far beyond tech.

Jeff shares stories about growing up Asian American, his college journey at UC Davis, his involvement in the AAPI community, and how his love for Dungeons & Dragons unexpectedly became part of his personal story. Patty and Jeff dive into the power of routines, why discipline can create safety instead of restriction, and how returning to the basics can help us navigate uncertain seasons of life.

This episode is a reminder that success isn't just about achievements or titles. It's built through consistency, curiosity, relationships, and the people who help hold the community together.

Whether you're building a career, leading a team, searching for balance, or simply trying to become a better version of yourself, Jeffrey's journey offers lessons on staying grounded while continuing to grow.

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This episode was filmed in the legendary Griffith Park area of Los Angeles—a place with deep creative history and open public spirit, originally gifted in 1896 by Colonel Griffith J. Griffith as a free space for the “plain people” of the city.

That energy fits this conversation perfectly.

Patty sits down with actor Paul Ray—not just a guest, but a real connection from set—and talks about what it actually takes to build a sustainable career in entertainment.

Paul shares how he tried to go full-time as an actor four different times before it finally worked, and how he’s now been consistently working for over a year across films, commercials, UGC campaigns, indie projects, and music videos.

From Austin, Texas to Los Angeles, this is a conversation about persistence, identity, and learning to trust the process when success doesn’t happen immediately.

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EP. 94 – Intensity Fades, Consistency Stays w/ Iboni McCallum | The Patty Show

What happens when motivation disappears?

For Iboni McCallum, that's when consistency takes over.

This week on The Patty Show, Patty sits down with one of his favorite workout partners, biggest supporters, and most positive influences in the gym community. A single mother of four, healthcare professional, woman of faith, and dedicated fitness enthusiast, Iboni embodies what it means to keep showing up—even when life gets busy.

Recorded immediately after a Saturday workout session in Playa Vista, this conversation explores the habits, mindset, and daily choices that have helped Iboni balance motherhood, demanding work schedules, fitness goals, and personal growth while maintaining the infectious energy she's known for.

From raising four children and working long shifts to finding time for her health and supporting those around her, Iboni shares the lessons she's learned about discipline, resilience, and trusting the process.

In this episode, Patty and Iboni discuss:

• Why consistency matters more than motivation

Whether you're pursuing fitness goals, building a career, raising a family, or simply trying to become a better version of yourself, this episode is a reminder that lasting results come from small actions repeated consistently over time.

Because intensity fades.

Consistency stays.

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What does it take to reinvent yourself while staying true to who you are?

This week on The Patty Show, I'm joined by my mentor, friend, and fellow performance enthusiast, Kris Clinton.

Kris has built an incredible life through discipline, adaptability, and service. A former professional basketball player who competed throughout Europe and South America, Kris later transitioned into the worlds of personal training, acting, modeling, and entrepreneurship. Today, he coaches elite athletes, mentors fitness professionals, books national commercial campaigns, and continues to pursue excellence while raising his daughter.

But this conversation isn't about collecting accomplishments.

It's about the mindset required to keep evolving.

We discuss Kris's journey from professional basketball to Hollywood, the lessons he's learned as a father, how he built Rare Fitness, the importance of patience in both fitness and acting, and why rest isn't something you earn—it's something every high performer needs.

As someone who helped guide me during my early years as a personal trainer, Kris has had a tremendous impact on my own journey. This episode felt less like an interview and more like two brothers sharing lessons learned through years of chasing big dreams, overcoming setbacks, and continuing to show up.

In this episode, we explore:

• Professional basketball and life overseas

Whether you're an athlete, entrepreneur, parent, creative, fitness enthusiast, or someone navigating a new chapter in life, Kris shares wisdom that can help you stay grounded while pursuing your goals.

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What if real strength isn’t about pushing harder—but knowing when to slow down?

In Episode 92 of The Patty Show, Patty sits down with event security professionals Anthony Murillo and Naum Velasquez for a grounded, honest, and unexpectedly heartfelt conversation about life, work, family, and learning to find balance in high-pressure environments.

The three first met while working at Squid Game: The Trials in Los Angeles near The Grove—one of the city’s most intense immersive event experiences. What started as coworkers navigating crowds, chaos, and long production days quickly turned into genuine brotherhood.

Anthony, known for his calm leadership and steady presence under pressure, and Naum (aka @en_vy), a multi-hyphenate blending security operations with fitness, style, and creative branding, join the show to reflect on how those shared experiences shaped their outlook on life.

Together, they explore what it really means to be strong—not just in demanding work environments, but in everyday life.

Topics include:

• What working event security teaches you about life

This episode is a reminder that slowing down isn’t weakness—it’s part of building a life that lasts.

⚠️ Patty Party Disclaimer: This episode contains strong language, unfiltered storytelling, workplace experiences, fatherhood conversations, relationship talk, and real-life reflections. Listener discretion is advised—and good vibes are always welcome.

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