The Patty Show

Motivation fades. Mindset stays.

In this episode of The Patty Show, Patty sits down with his Peruvian brother Julio Candia for a powerful conversation about building a mindset that lasts longer than motivation. What started as a college friendship turned CPA duo at Fairfield University became a lifelong bond rooted in growth, leadership, and purpose.

Julio shares his journey from Peru to college life in the U.S., stepping into student leadership, and navigating post-grad life with discipline and intention. He opens up about working alongside his family at Mi Chinita Peruana, one of Bridgeport’s most beloved Peruvian restaurants, and how culture, consistency, and responsibility shaped the way he shows up in life.

Together, they explore how mindset beats motivation, how joy can exist inside discipline, and how to reset when you fall off track. Julio also talks about finding confidence through competitive salsa dancing, staying grounded through routine, and building a life that reflects who you are—not just what you do.

This episode is for anyone craving direction, cultural pride, and real tools to stay consistent long after the hype wears off.

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Your body is the first home you ever live in — and how you treat it shapes your confidence, leadership, and sense of purpose.

In this powerful and personal episode, Patty reconnects with Pejay Lucky, a longtime mentor and foundational figure from his college years. Pejay played a major role in Patty’s development during his time in residence life and student leadership, offering guidance during pivotal moments of growth, heartbreak, and self-discovery.

Together, they reflect on their work with Distinguished Gentlemen, a student organization centered on healthy masculinity through three core pillars: Justice, Unity, and Discipline. From the Annual Women’s Appreciation Dinner to domestic violence awareness initiatives and leadership programming, they discuss how those experiences shaped their values and continue to influence their lives today.

Pejay shares his evolution toward treating the body not as something to punish or “fix,” but as a sanctuary — a place deserving of care, gratitude, and discipline rooted in love rather than shame. The conversation expands into faith, resilience, identity, and what it means to lead with integrity.

Now serving as Assistant Dean for Student Success at Fairfield University’s Bellarmine Campus, Pejay also speaks about his work mentoring students and his growing initiative focused on guiding men toward purpose, accountability, and wholeness. He opens up about fatherhood, marriage, community building in Bridgeport, Connecticut, and the role faith in Christ plays in his life.

Topics include:

Healthy masculinity and leadership

Faith, discipline, and self-respect

Navigating heartbreak and personal growth

Body gratitude and self-care

Mentorship, education, and legacy

This episode is a reminder that strength isn’t just physical — it’s emotional, spiritual, and lived out daily through how we care for ourselves and others.

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Flexibility isn’t just about stretching your body—it’s about learning how to move through life without breaking.

In this New Year’s episode of The Patty Show, I sit down with a former Division I athlete turned engineer whose life has been shaped by movement, culture, and adaptability. With roots spanning Barcelona and Madagascar, fluency across multiple languages, and experiences that stretch far beyond the court, this conversation explores what it really means to stay flexible—physically, mentally, and emotionally.

We talk about letting go of rigid expectations after competitive sports, rediscovering joy in movement by running without a watch, and how learning to adapt has opened doors in career, travel, and identity. From elite athletics to engineering, from structured training to intuitive living, this episode is about bending with life instead of fighting it.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, burned out, or overly attached to “the plan,” this conversation is a reminder that freedom often lives on the other side of flexibility.

✨ New year. New mindset. More room to breathe.

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n this Christmas episode, I sit down with someone who’s been family to me since Fairfield University — Alex Jeffrey. Alex isn’t just strong in the physical sense. He’s the definition of emotional, mental, and spiritual strength… the kind of strength that shows up in how you love, lead, and lift up the people around you.

We talk about everything from his cornerback football days in high school, to becoming the man he is today — a dedicated husband, a real estate professional turned Assistant VP at a private bank in NYC, and one of the most genuine supporters I’ve ever had.

Alex shares the story of getting married in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, where I was lucky enough to celebrate with him, Dani, and their incredible families. And yes… we send a big shoutout to his wife Dani, who’s pure sunshine, and to the Jeffrey crew — especially his dad Doug, who had me crying laughing at the wedding with the legendary Jackie Chan joke.

We talk discipline, resilience, and why strength is something you build long before you build muscle. Alex reflects on the influence of his two older brothers, the role models who shaped him, and why lifting others up is the real flex.

Whether you’re training, healing, rebuilding, or reinventing yourself… this episode reminds you that strength is a journey — and who you become on the way matters most.

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Wyatt Marshall isn’t just a guest — he’s family. A true multihyphenate: soccer player, firefighter, teacher, coach, and founder of 28FC, a Boston nonprofit changing lives through free soccer and academic enrichment.

What began in 2023 with the Boys & Girls Clubs of Boston — serving Roxbury, Dorchester, Mattapan, and South Boston — has grown into a movement impacting 200+ youth every week. Today, 28FC is a registered 501(c)(3) with competitive boys’ and girls’ teams, expanded educational programs, and a mission rooted in community, discipline, and opportunity.

In this episode, we break down why energy is currency — and how you spend it determines the quality of your life.

🔥 Training Your Energy Like a Muscle

🌿 Rest, Recovery & Real Balance

💛 Protecting Your Positivity

🎒 Bonus Moments:

If you’re trying to manage your energy better, align your life, or simply get inspired — this one’s for you.

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What if the secret to better mental health wasn’t sitting still—but moving?

Jake has explored some of the most remote corners of Indonesia, takes unreal nature videos and pics, and somehow balances that with working in entertainment at Focus Features, playing in our corporate soccer league, watching hockey & the NFL, and being a massive Taylor Swift fan (yes, he even dragged me to a Taylor rave 😂).

We unpack not just fitness, but movement as a mindset:

How moving his body helped him rediscover passion

Why joy > discipline

The simple habits that shift your mood instantly

And the adorable story of how he met his girlfriend Grace on Hinge 💙

Whether you’re into mental health, nature, fitness, creativity, or Swiftie energy… this episode will make you want to get up and MOVE.

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Abundance isn’t just about money — it’s about gratitude, growth, and getting after it. 💪✨

In this episode, Patty sits down with his personal training client, Mychael Williams — a former Marine, private chef, travel agent, and telecommunications professional who’s down 15 pounds and radiating confidence. From Indianapolis to LA, Mychael’s mindset shift proves that when you show up with consistency and gratitude, everything changes.

They talk fitness, faith, marriage (25 years strong ❤️), and how slowing down to appreciate life’s blessings can level up your entire being — physically, mentally, and spiritually.

🔥 Whether you’re just starting your fitness journey or trying to get your spark back, this episode will remind you what’s possible when you bet on yourself.

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Fear doesn’t have to trap you — it can teach you how to fly. In this Thanksgiving special, Patty sits down with his Korean sister-in-tech Rosa Cho — a talented graphic & UX designer, AI data specialist, and computer science master’s grad whose journey blends creativity, courage, and deep heart.

Rosa opens up about transforming fear into freedom, processing grief after her father’s passing, and finding strength while caring for her brother with level 3 autism. She also gets real about living with ADHD, building confidence in male-dominated tech spaces, and channeling her creativity through art, anime, and design.

A proud Korean woman and anime lover, Rosa shares her passion for Chainsaw Man and the genius storytelling of Tatsuki Fujimoto, connecting how his boldness in art mirrors her own courage to live authentically.

Together, Patty and Rosa explore what it means to face fear, find joy beyond the comfort zone, and stay grateful even through uncertainty.

✨ A heartfelt conversation on resilience, creativity, and rediscovering freedom — just in time for Thanksgiving.

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From São Paulo to Silicon Valley, Patricia “Paty” Silva’s journey is proof that hitting pause can help you move forward. In this inspiring conversation, she opens up about immigrating to the U.S., transitioning from banking to tech, and rebuilding life after divorce — all while rediscovering joy through footvolley, self-care, and intentional living. 

We dive deep into the power of unplugging: reclaiming your focus, finding real-world pleasure, and setting guilt-free boundaries with technology. Plus, Paty shares how her supportive fiancé (a surfer and small business owner) keeps her grounded while she continues to thrive in both work and play.

✨ This episode reminds us that stepping back from the screen might be the biggest glow-up move of all.

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Tiny steps. Big changes. Real talk.

In this episode, Patty sits down with his multi-talented Squid Game brother Levi Bond — actor, writer, PA, and content creator who’s done everything from working behind the scenes to appearing in Sabrina Carpenter’s “Espresso” music video. Levi also co-hosted the All New Nerds YouTube channel, where he geeked out over Star Wars, Marvel, and pop culture with a passionate community of fans.

Together, they dive into:

Levi opens up about his creative grind, viral moments, and how focusing on the next small step helped him level up in life and career.

🎧 Tap in for some laughs, lessons, and motivation to start your own shift — one step at a time.

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